Don't kiss the frog until you're ready for a prince.

Trev (42) 

Male / Separated / ID: 1107983
Colchester, Essex, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 25 - 40 living within 100 kms of Brightlingsea, Essex, United Kingdom
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating

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Education: Vocational College
Have children: Yes - don't live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Occasionally smoke
Religion: Other
Occupation: IT / Communications

So you're looking for a man to love you. A man to care for you and always be there for you. Someone who's thinking of you and dreaming of you every day and night. Someone to share your dreams, hopes and fears with. You know what you want. Good for you. The good news is that there are milli...read more >>

So you're looking for a man to love you. A man to care for you and always be there for you. Someone who's thinking of you and dreaming of you every day and night. Someone to share your dreams, hopes and fears with. You know what you want. Good for you. The good news is that there are millions of us nice guys out there. Bad news is we normally take a bit of getting used to. We're hard to understand as we hide our shyness rather well. We've been hurt before, every one of us. And we don't much care for the pain. No, we're pretty hard to find as we bury ourselves away. We bury ourselves in work, friends, family and community. We tie ourselves into futile relationships to prove to ourselves that we can still love. It is often a blow when we can no longer fool ourselves. When we learn the relationship is one way or worse, misunderstood. I myself am a dreamer, a poetic soul. Simple as a child, loyal as a puppy. I'll make myself responsible for your happiness, I can't help it. But such a love needs great faith to lean on. And great trust to believe in. Two things not very forthcoming in the world today. Especially not at first sight. If you need time to learn the truth, we nice guys are patient. At least with others, if not ourselves. But, do you have the patience to learn? Do you have the openness to speak your heart and mind as freely as I? Think hard. If you want someone you can talk to about anything. Someone who will always try to see your view, to understand how you feel. To honour you like a queen and be proud of your achievements. Someone loyal, faithful, respectful and open. If you want a man who will instinctively put your needs before his own. Someone who will give themselves completely. If you want a man whose sole reason for getting naked is to please you. If you want romance, poetry and kisses from out of nowhere even when you're eighty. Someone actually interested how your day was. Someone so addicted to your smile, they'd do anything for you. If you want to be loved uniquely by someone who really does love the whole world. You may be in luck. The bad news is that although I hide it well, I suffer from a depression. One caused by the ways of the world and this certain knowledge that no one will ever truly understand me and what it means to really Love. I know I will never be loved as deeply or as purely as I love. Feeling brave? Care to try and prove me wrong? Willing to bet your life as you know it? As I said, think hard. And listen to your heart when you do.

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About Trev

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 42 25 - 40
Lives in: Colchester, Essex, United Kingdom within 100 kms of Brightlingsea, Essex, United Kingdom
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Brown Any
Hair length: Long Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Blue Any
Eye wear: Glasses Any
Height: 6'0" (183 cm) 5'0" (153 cm) - 5'10" (178 cm)
Weight: 66 kg (145 lb) Any
Body style: Slim Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Other, Asian, Mixed
Facial hair: No Answer N/A
Best feature: Don't Know Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Below average Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Any
Smoke: Occasionally smoke Any
Marital Status: Separated Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children: Yes - don't live at home Any
Number of children: 1 Any
Oldest child: 5 Any
Youngest child: 5 Any
Want (more) children: Not Sure Any
Have pets: Cat Any
Occupation: IT / Communications Any
Employment status: Other Any
Income: £10,001 - £20,000 GBP Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Live with family Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United Kingdom Any
Education: Vocational College Any
Languages spoken: No Answer English
English ability: Fluent Any
Thai ability: None Any
Religion: Other Any
Chinese sign: Hare Any
Star sign: Aries Any
Personal 
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any

Someone who is fun, happy but also is serious when it comes to feelings. I can love anybody, because I love everybody. But I must be able to spend quality time and have a bond to give my heart away to that special one.

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