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Will My Meditation Vision Come True?

Cary Grant
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Last active: over 12 months ago

61 Alpharetta, Georgia, United States

Male / Divorced / ID: 117394

Seeking Female 18 - 52 living in Thailand For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Cary Grant

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

IT / Communications
Any

Member Overview

A few days ago (5/26/2014) I attended a meditation session. I have been meditating for the last 40 years (I started when I was 16) and am quite an expert at it. This time was a bit different. I often have interesting things come to me in meditation, some quite new and wonderful which I am in the ...
A few days ago (5/26/2014) I attended a meditation session. I have been meditating for the last 40 years (I started when I was 16) and am quite an expert at it. This time was a bit different. I often have interesting things come to me in meditation, some quite new and wonderful which I am in the processing of organizing and writing about. This time, very quickly, a vision of three people came into my mind. The first was a Buddhist priest dressed in a robe. He was inviting me to come to Thailand and spend time with him at his temple. I have been planning to visit the Buddhist temples in Thailand for over a year. And knew intuitively that there was a special one of all the many ones that I needed to visit. Behind him, I saw a woman. She also wanted me to come to Thailand. And I could see living the rest of my life with her in happiness and love. And behind her, I saw a young boy who would be important to me. All three were arrayed in a line, larger to smaller with time I think. One step at a time. And I received the message that here would be the happiness that I've been searching for all of my life. This was very inspiring for me. I have been planning to visit Thailand for several years. The turmoil in the country has been a bit of a deterrent to visiting. And I plan to search out a special temple to meditate in and ask the monks about Buddhism so that I may learn more about it. I am applying this month to a PhD program at a Thai university. While it is an online distance based program I plan on visiting and would like to spend time at the university during the program. The Thai people have a fascinatingly unique culture that I want to learn more about. And also seems that it could be a very good place for my early retirement. I am working hard so that I can be financially independent and retire early. Now, my meditation vision has given me more incentive to make this happen as early as possible.
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Seeking

So somewhere out there is a temple, a woman, and a young boy I will eventually meet. I post this here in hopes of learning more about Thai culture. And of course finding the woman that I will spend the rest of my life with. The boy may be hers, or may be ours in the future, or may be a child from ...
So somewhere out there is a temple, a woman, and a young boy I will eventually meet. I post this here in hopes of learning more about Thai culture. And of course finding the woman that I will spend the rest of my life with. The boy may be hers, or may be ours in the future, or may be a child from an orphanage where I can utilize my TESOL certificate that I just completed to teach English to orphans in my spare time. I think that I would like to help teach them English as they are forgotten and forsaken as I was in my very early life. Perhaps I can give them some inspiration and help with making a good life for themselves. So, there is much that can be told about me. If you'd like to teach me a bit about Thai culture (and eventually the Thai language) I'd like that. And ask my anything.And tell me a bit about yourself and your life too. I can give you my personal website address where you can learn a bit more about me. And if you think that you could be the One please write me. Thank you! - Cary Grant Anderson
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More About Me

Cary Grant

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
61
18 - 52
Lives in:
Verified
Alpharetta, Georgia, United States
Thailand
Relocate:
Willing to relocate to another country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Long
Any
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
Verified
5'6" (168 cm)
Any
Weight:
114 kg (251 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 81 kg (178 lb)
Body style:
Large and Lovely
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
Medium Beard
N/A
Best feature:
My Butt
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Average
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
3
0, 1, 2
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
Older than 18
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Thailand
Education:
Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Fluent, Very Good, Good
Thai ability:
None
Fluent
Religion:
Other
Any
Chinese sign:
Dog
Any
Star sign:
Aries
Any

Personal

Bust:
N/A
Any
Waist:
N/A
Any
Hips:
N/A
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Dancing, Dining Out, Karaoke / Sing-along, Library, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Science and Technology, Theatre, Traveling, Writing

Food:

American, French, Barbecue, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Indian, South American, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Thai, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Alternative, New Age, Pop, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

Archery, Biking, Canoe / Kayak, Cycling, Figure Skating, Hang Gliding / Paragliding, Hiking, Horse Riding, Hunting / Shooting, In-line Skating, Jogging / Running, Parachuting / BASE Jumping, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Squash / Racquetball, Swimming, Walking, Wrestling, Yoga / Pilates

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

I have several...There are many to list. I like movies that are well done (acting, story, characters, etc) and tell a positive story. Generally I like good science fiction, action, drama, suspense, native peoples, and some human interest stories. The Whale Rider is a good example of that. Great story.

Favorite Book:

Many...One is: The Stars My Destination by Alfred Bester. A really colorful and unique and inspiring (at least for me) science fiction story with a lot of human drama and insight elements.

Favorite Food:

American, Chinese, Italian, Malaysian, Open to trying new foods. I find that I do like spicy food. My Volcano Spaghetti is quite spicy.

Favorite Music:

A mix - Pop, Rock, Classical, Native American Flute. I have an eclectic music taste. There are many pop and rock and vocal songs I like from the 70s, 80s, 90s, and 2000+. Generally I listen to love songs a lot.

Dress Style:

I like to dress informally and comfortably but most often wear dress shirts (not suit) to work. To me what I wear is more a function of utility and comfort rather than trying to fit into a specific social class or image. I generally dress for the activity, work or kayaking or whatever.

Humor:

Good sense of humor. I like making people laugh. Often by poking fun at myself.

Hobbies & Interests:

Writing, photography, nature, walks and hiking, science, traveling and exploring. I like exploring mysteries and unusual places and phenomena. I'm what I call a Spiritual Explorer in that I explore spiritual places, ideas, and experiences. I am not a Buddhist (I'm a Deist) but like Buddhism very much (it's a very peaceful religious path). Learning to play the Native American flute and to draw/sketch. Just recently took up kayaking (which is great fun!) and have been sky diving which is a blast!

Travelled:

I've traveled to Canada, Mexico, Denmark, Germany, and most recently the Philippines. Want to travel to Thailand and Nepal (to visit Buddha's birthplace). Other countries possibly in the future.

Cultural Adaption:

Not a problem. I am very open to other peoples and cultures. I've worked and been friends with people from other countries and cultures. I have been married to a Filipina and helped raise her young daughter.

Romance:

I would spend it making love to my woman all weekend in a quite special private retreat. A very special experience for a very special woman.

Personality:

I have a generally upbeat positive forward looking personality. People like me. I like to be polite and nice to people. I can get moody when I'm very, very tired (which I work to avoid nowadays). I tend to be a workaholic (working too much) but I am now spending more time for friends and other interests.

My Perfect Match is:

I desire a woman to be beautiful on the inside, to have a very good heart, to be loyal and loving, to want a peaceful and a good life, free from bad habits and problems, a woman who would make me strong not weak, a woman who could take her place by my side forever.

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