Apologies for my mistakes I think that I am better

Allan (74) 

Male / Widowed / ID: 2648720
Bundaberg, Queensland, Australia
Seeking: Female 36 - 48
For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: Bachelors Degree
Have children: Yes - don't live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian - Protestant
Occupation: Self Employed

MY HABITS: Amiable, friendly, good humoured, happy, contented, loyal and faithful, I try to learn from mistakes, I am not perfect, but positive, respectful, non judgemental, quietly confident, humble, grounded, adaptable, helpful, alert. ROMANCE AND LOVE: This is most important to me. I have man...read more >>

MY HABITS: Amiable, friendly, good humoured, happy, contented, loyal and faithful, I try to learn from mistakes, I am not perfect, but positive, respectful, non judgemental, quietly confident, humble, grounded, adaptable, helpful, alert. ROMANCE AND LOVE: This is most important to me. I have many friends and family that I sincerely love in different ways and with different intensities. I value these friendships even if I rarely see the people. Romantic love though is reserved for the lady that I court, whose trust and love I seek. There are many ways that love can be shown and I believe that romance must be ongoing and shown by my actions, including playfulness and surprises. Romantic times together are absolutely priceless and we must find these times together. RELATIONSHIP, SEX AND MARRIAGE: I am widowed after a good marriage of more than 30 years. I am a one woman man and this is why I seek a special lady, not just any lady. I am not into one night stands. I believe that SEX is a beautiful event shared by two people who share true feelings for each other. I believe that this SEX strengthens the relationship. I believe that our relationship is so valuable that we must constantly find ways to show our love and commitment, thus keeping a spark in our marriage. HEALTH AND FITNESS: My doctor says my health and fitness are in the top 1% of men over 50. This doctor believes that I can live 30-50 more years of active life, especially if I have the right lady as my partner. I take no regular medicine. I am active in a number of non-competition sports such as mountain biking, skiing, swimming, surfing, sailing and hiking. I like watching sports on TV but I am not addicted. WORK: I am hard working and energetic, innovative, reliable and motivated. I have had jobs since I was 8 years old. I have been a teacher all my adult life, as well as a part time property developer and part time farmer. Now, my son and I farm strawberries and we have 100 000 plants in 17 km of growing beds. Our goal is to have 400 000 to 2 million plants depending on economics RECREATION: Sport, travel including camping, the outdoors especially the beach and forest, music, good films, massage, yoga and Pilates, cooking and dining. MONEY AND TRUST: I have been scammed before. So, I am cautious. I will NOT send MONEY to ANYONE that I have not met. Do not ask. I am not rich but I receive regular income which is growing year by year. Once we meet and commit to each other, I am a generous man. I am not stingey and not wasteful either. SCAMMERS: Beware. I will ask for several proofs of identity. Don’t waste my time. There is no MONEY for you here. EDUCATION, TRAINING AND SKILLS: I am not Einstein but I am smart while also being humble and grounded. I have several university qualifications which have helped me become a better me. I believe that smart people learn from the job that they are doing as well. I am always learning quietly and trying to find ways to do things better. ANGER AND VIOLENCE: I am tolerant and VERY slow to anger over anything. I am no power freak. I do not like intolerance or arrogance by other people either. When you and I disagree on something, I believe that we should NOT try to show that we are right, nor defend our position. Instead, we should listen to each other’s viewpoint and then make a loving decision that we are both happy with. The reward for this is huge. VICES: I do not gamble. Sometimes though I buy a lottery ticket. I rarely drink alcohol and never much. I do not smoke and have never taken illegal drugs. I am not interested in bars and the club scene.

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About Allan

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 74 36 - 48
Lives in: Bundaberg, Queensland, Australia Any
Relocate: Not willing to relocate Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Grey / White Any
Hair length: Short Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Hazel Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 5'11" (181 cm) 5'2" (158 cm) - No Answer
Weight: 75 kg (165 lb) 42 kg (92 lb) - No Answer
Body style: Athletic Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Few Extra Pounds, Full Figured
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: My Personality Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Attractive Very attractive, Attractive, Average
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Any
Marital Status: Widowed Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children: Yes - don't live at home Any
Number of children: 3 Any
Oldest child: Older than 18 Any
Youngest child: Older than 18 Any
Want (more) children: Not Sure Any
Have pets: No Pets Any
Occupation: Self Employed Any
Employment status: Part Time Any
Income: $25,001 - $50,000 AUD Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: Australia Any
Education: Bachelors Degree High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken: English,French,Chinese (Mandarin),Thai Any
English ability: Fluent Any
Thai ability: Some Any
Religion: Christian - Protestant Any
Chinese sign: Don't Know Any
Star sign: Libra Any
Personal 
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Investing / Finance, Karaoke / Sing-along, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Reading, Science and Technology, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, Watching Sports
Food: Other, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, Seafood, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Thai, Eastern European, Mediterranean
Music: Other, Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Jazz / Blues, Pop, Rock, Soft Rock, World
Sport: Athletics, Aussie Rules Football, Auto Racing, Boating / Sailing, Boxing, Canoe / Kayak, Cycling, Fishing, Golf, Gym / Weight Training, Hiking, Mountain / Rock Climbing, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Skiing / Snowboarding, Snowmobiling, Surfing, Swimming, Table Tennis, Tennis / Badminton, Walking, Yoga / Pilates

Working together, we can turn obstacles into stepping stones and victories. We can turn our dreams into rewards and realities. . I want an attractive lady but importantly you should have good humor, inner beauty, smiling eyes, good health and energy. Best if you respect other people and you are a...read more >>

Working together, we can turn obstacles into stepping stones and victories. We can turn our dreams into rewards and realities. . I want an attractive lady but importantly you should have good humor, inner beauty, smiling eyes, good health and energy. Best if you respect other people and you are adaptable, loyal and quietly determined. You need to be an open and mature person who will talk with me about goals and difficulties so that we can find amicable and workable solutions. I cannot have a frigid or selfish woman. I need a lover who will communicate openly and honestly without manipulation. Sulky, angry or arrogant ladies put me off, no matter how smart, rich or pretty they are. We need to play together, relax together, plan and work together. I expect that you will follow your own special interests as well. It would be good if you can easily arrange visas for travel because there will be times when I am busy in Australia and I will help you to come to Australia. From these visits, you will get an accurate picture of our future together. It would be good if you can drive a car (But not essential) and have some business experience as well, or are willing to learn. I will love, trust, cherish, respect, encourage and consult you.

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