Livin' La Vida Loca

David (73) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 44527
Cincinnati, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 57
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: Masters Degree
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home
Drink: Don't drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Occupation: Artistic / Creative / Performance

I am a simple straight forward individual. I enjoy a relatively normal life guided by a few basic motivations and simple values. First I, like so many others, wish to be happy. I wish to enjoy life and all it offers. I find the only means by which I can do this is to help nurture happiness in those ...read more >>

I am a simple straight forward individual. I enjoy a relatively normal life guided by a few basic motivations and simple values. First I, like so many others, wish to be happy. I wish to enjoy life and all it offers. I find the only means by which I can do this is to help nurture happiness in those around me and be around those individuals that create and nurture happiness in their own lives and share it with others. I have learned that we can not create happiness in or for others only help them create their own. Second, I expect no more from others than I am willing to give. I have also found that, for me, it is more fulfilling in the giving than in the receiving. It could be something as simple as a smile, a kind wood, a conversation, or as meaningful as commitment for the sake of love.-----The energies that fuel my simple motivations are also very basic. Life, to me, is less than desirable if it is not founded on integrity, commitment, intensity, and passion. If we experience our lives without these, we are most likely, confused, insecure, and, often not very happy. The only regrets I have had in this life are those events in which I failed to respect these forces and acted with diminished respect for others. I continually try to minimize these failings.-----I am not a complex person. I am a man like any other man. The only exception is that I require very little to maintain my good nature. Music, a dance, a smile, honesty, directness, a kind word now and then, a soft touch on occasion. I am a little mature in age, at 57, but my thoughts, attitudes, activities, and desires are the same as those I was blessed with early in life. Friends often comment that I am just a kid trapped in a maturing body. My only reduced capacity is a pair of soccer knees which after 13yrs of coaching and participating in the sport, no longer permit me to run the mile in under 4min. or jump out of perfectly good airplanes. I still maintain enough mobility of body to dance a good Salsa, Merengue, or Bachata. ( Wish to learn the Samba and Tango) My body weight ranges, based on levels of activity, between 195 and 205lbs. My height is stable at 5'11". Appearance, as they say, is in the eye of the beholder, so I can only say what others have told me."On a good day I remind them of Omar Sheriff in Doctor Shivago. On a bad day, Jack Nicholson in the Shining", but I still manage to wake every morning and not have all my mirrors shatter.-----I was blessed with two fine sons. Both are very intelligent and attractive. Qualities they received from their mother, I would suspect. I managed to pass on only those qualities that any good farther of Italian-Irish-German heritage could, a good nose, a strong chin, and a degree of stubbornness that will not allow one to quit when faced with adversity. Both are now on their own.----- It is this new situation and environment that has lead me to this place. The net. These services. I can not say that I suffer from loneliness. Actually, I enjoy my periods of solitude and quiet. Activities are still plentiful even though I reside in a rural area. I am only a short time and distance away from friends, a large metropolitan community, and an abundance of things to do when time permits. Dancing, my favorite, diner, movies, and various other past times account for much of my free time. I read when time permits. Paint and sculpt when the inspiration is there. Build most everything I discover I need. Dabble in photography from time to time. Cook only at my own risk.----- I am constantly challenged as a product designer working with companies and corporations to assist them in translating thoughts into things. The work is almost never dull but when this activity is done there is always things to do at home. Take care of the land, the house, and my two half Wolf, half Husky pals, Shana and Utana. If there is anything I do miss, it is the long, sometimes all night, discussions my sons and their friends have had about anything and everything. We still do it on occasion, whenever they stop by to visit. Those times are always very special and rewarding but it takes individuals that are close in heart, mind, and soul to share in these kinds of events.(Friends need to go home and sleep. Can't keep up I guess.)-----So, what does this all mean-? Why am I here-? What am I looking for-? I am here because of the nature, the values, and the approach to life of the people from the Asian cultures. I know what I am not looking for, a maid, a dishwasher, a mother, an ornament for display, a person dependent only on me for their happiness, or a boss. I think I seek out what most people desire, a friend, a partner, a confidant, ‘a dancer’, and when the feelings and passions are in place, a lover. Someone that understands that the intimate joy of making love can take many forms, a gentle touch, conversation, dancing, a childish tease now and again, or just sitting close and sensing the presence of each other. I search in the hope that I may discover a woman that is her own person and enjoys being herself. A woman knowing her own mind and having her own unique ideas and opinions. A woman that loves herself, her feelings, her life. A woman that is of a mind to share herself with others. (Of course she should like to dance.) If she is interested in building a future and recalling the past only for reference, all the better.-----Life is to be enjoyed. and shared.-----Well, enough of this. Any questions. Just ask. I will respond as best I can.-----Be well. Be happy. Be adventurous. This time is all we have. Spend it wisely. But spend it.

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About David

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 73 21 - 57
Lives in: Cincinnati, Ohio, United States Any
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Black Any
Hair length: No Answer Any
Hair type: No Answer Any
Eye color: Brown Any
Eye wear: No Answer Any
Height: 5'11" (181 cm) 4'11" (150 cm) - 5'6" (168 cm)
Weight: 90 kg (198 lb) 40 kg (88 lb) - 61 kg (134 lb)
Body style: Few Extra Pounds Any
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Asian
Facial hair: No Answer N/A
Best feature: No Answer Any
Body art: No Answer Any
Appearance: Average Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Don't drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Any
Marital Status: Divorced Any
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home No
Number of children: No Answer Any
Oldest child: No Answer Any
Youngest child: No Answer Any
Want (more) children: Not Sure Any
Have pets: No Answer Any
Occupation: Artistic / Creative / Performance Any
Employment status: No Answer Any
Income: No Answer Any
Home type: No Answer Any
Living situation: No Answer Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States Thailand
Education: Masters Degree Any
Languages spoken: English Any
English ability: Fluent Any
Thai ability: None Any
Religion: Christian - Catholic Any
Chinese sign: Rooster Any
Star sign: Cancer Any
Personal 
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any

I am here because of the nature, the values, and the approach to life of the people of the Asian cultures. I know what I am not looking for, a maid, a dishwasher, a mother, an ornament for display, a person dependent only on me for their happiness, or a boss. I think I seek out what most people desi...read more >>

I am here because of the nature, the values, and the approach to life of the people of the Asian cultures. I know what I am not looking for, a maid, a dishwasher, a mother, an ornament for display, a person dependent only on me for their happiness, or a boss. I think I seek out what most people desire, a friend, a partner, a confidant, ‘a dancer’, and when the feelings and passions are in place, a lover. Someone that understands that the intimate joy of making love can take many forms, a gentle touch, conversation, dancing, a childish tease now and again, or just sitting close and sensing the presence of each other. I search in the hope that I may discover a woman that is her own person and enjoys being herself. A woman knowing her own mind and having her own unique ideas and opinions. A woman that loves herself, her feelings, her life. A woman that is of a mind to share herself with others. (Of course she should like to dance.) If she is interested in building a future and recalling the past only for reference, all the better.-----Life is to be enjoyed. and shared.

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