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Paul (64) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 6160222
Hobart, Tasmania, Australia
Seeking: Female 20 - 41
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating

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Education: Bachelors Degree
Have children: No
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: No religion
Occupation: Other

perhaps better for others to decide, the type of man I am ... to my mind I am ... well-educated, of good character, a genuine person ... I try to be 'modern and relevant' ... I am told I do not 'look my age', I certainly don't 'think old' ... I feel I have more in common with ladies of 'New Asia' th...read more >>

perhaps better for others to decide, the type of man I am ... to my mind I am ... well-educated, of good character, a genuine person ... I try to be 'modern and relevant' ... I am told I do not 'look my age', I certainly don't 'think old' ... I feel I have more in common with ladies of 'New Asia' than those of my own age group ... much has occurred in Asia in recent years, and I am more 'in time' with 'uncertainty than conformity', seek contact with ladies whose lives are immersed in the 'new' ... most ladies will think of a man of my years, in terms of being and thinking like family members of a similar age ... but the life and lifestyles in the West over the past 50 years were so markedly different to those of people of a similar age in Asia, no comparison can be made ... most of my friends are virtually the same as when 39 years, yet though they have experienced more of life, and a higher age in numerical terms, little else appears to have changed, they are not 'old', and an Asian lady would be mistaken to compare a Western man of 60+ years, to Asian family members of similar age ... the now dynamic face of 'New Asia'' only began to change less than two decades ago, but many Western countries experienced that type of change, from the 1960s onwards, and therein lies the difference ... for a young lady, a relationship with me is most likely 'inconceivable', and perhaps is ha ... nonetheless, I would welcome the opportunity that 'contact' would provide, to be able to communicate, chat from time to time, I do not have 'high or unrealistic hopes', just a genuine want and need for 'real contact with real people' ...

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About Paul

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 64 20 - 41
Lives in: Hobart, Tasmania, Australia Any
Relocate: Not willing to relocate Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Black Any
Hair length: Medium Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Green Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 5'10" (178 cm) 5'2" (158 cm) - 6'0" (183 cm)
Weight: 82 kg (180 lb) 42 kg (92 lb) - 58 kg (128 lb)
Body style: Few Extra Pounds Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Full Figured
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Asian
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: Other Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Average Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke
Marital Status: Divorced Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children: No Yes - sometimes live at home, Yes - don't live at home, No
Number of children: N/A Any
Oldest child: N/A Any
Youngest child: N/A Any
Want (more) children: No Any
Have pets: No Pets Any
Occupation: Other Any
Employment status: Prefer not to say Any
Income: Prefer not to say Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: Australia Thailand
Education: Bachelors Degree High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken: English English
English ability: Fluent Fluent, Very Good, Good
Thai ability: None Any
Religion: No religion Any
Chinese sign: Snake Any
Star sign: Capricorn Any
Personal 
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Collecting, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Dining Out, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Shopping, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Watching Sports, Writing
Food: Seafood, Indian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Thai, Vegetarian / Organic, Vietnamese
Music: Alternative, Pop, Rock
Sport: Athletics, Aussie Rules Football, Boxing, Cricket, Cycling, Golf, Martial Arts, Soccer, Surfing, Swimming, Table Tennis, Tennis / Badminton, Walking

... appearance is something, but not everything ... soul and character are most important ... I like a lady who lives or thinks 'New Asia', is respectful of Asian culture and traditions, yet willing to embrace western lifestyle ... there are certain economic fundamentals, and the responsibilities of...read more >>

... appearance is something, but not everything ... soul and character are most important ... I like a lady who lives or thinks 'New Asia', is respectful of Asian culture and traditions, yet willing to embrace western lifestyle ... there are certain economic fundamentals, and the responsibilities of a lady of 'New Asia' ... if a lady is looking for a 'life of leisure', then perhaps she is better off, looking elsewhere, for unless wealthy (I am not) there are not so many 'free rides' to be found in the west ... she would need to have or acquire English as I have no talent whatsoever for other languages, my academic record and experiences attest ... for a lady to envisage a future in the west with a man of my meagre means is not realistic, though a good and loyal friend I can be … I understand that marriage continues to be the yardstick for relationships in Asia, though it is so improbable that I can be that man … I can commit to friendship, even a long-term relationship, but I am unable to envisage how permanent co-habitation is feasible … ladies anywhere near my own age group, please respect the genuineness of my words, ‘New Asia’ ladies only … thank you

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