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Trev
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

45 Colchester, Essex, United Kingdom

Male / Separated / ID: 1107983

Seeking Female 25 - 40 living within 100 kms of Brightlingsea, Essex, United Kingdom For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Trev

He's Looking For

Education:

Vocational College
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Occasionally smoke
Any

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

IT / Communications
Any

Member Overview

So you're looking for a man to love you. A man to care for you and always be there for you. Someone who's thinking of you and dreaming of you every day and night. Someone to share your dreams, hopes and fears with. You know what you want. Good for you. The good news is that there are milli...
So you're looking for a man to love you. A man to care for you and always be there for you. Someone who's thinking of you and dreaming of you every day and night. Someone to share your dreams, hopes and fears with. You know what you want. Good for you. The good news is that there are millions of us nice guys out there. Bad news is we normally take a bit of getting used to. We're hard to understand as we hide our shyness rather well. We've been hurt before, every one of us. And we don't much care for the pain. No, we're pretty hard to find as we bury ourselves away. We bury ourselves in work, friends, family and community. We tie ourselves into futile relationships to prove to ourselves that we can still love. It is often a blow when we can no longer fool ourselves. When we learn the relationship is one way or worse, misunderstood. I myself am a dreamer, a poetic soul. Simple as a child, loyal as a puppy. I'll make myself responsible for your happiness, I can't help it. But such a love needs great faith to lean on. And great trust to believe in. Two things not very forthcoming in the world today. Especially not at first sight. If you need time to learn the truth, we nice guys are patient. At least with others, if not ourselves. But, do you have the patience to learn? Do you have the openness to speak your heart and mind as freely as I? Think hard. If you want someone you can talk to about anything. Someone who will always try to see your view, to understand how you feel. To honour you like a queen and be proud of your achievements. Someone loyal, faithful, respectful and open. If you want a man who will instinctively put your needs before his own. Someone who will give themselves completely. If you want a man whose sole reason for getting naked is to please you. If you want romance, poetry and kisses from out of nowhere even when you're eighty. Someone actually interested how your day was. Someone so addicted to your smile, they'd do anything for you. If you want to be loved uniquely by someone who really does love the whole world. You may be in luck. The bad news is that although I hide it well, I suffer from a depression. One caused by the ways of the world and this certain knowledge that no one will ever truly understand me and what it means to really Love. I know I will never be loved as deeply or as purely as I love. Feeling brave? Care to try and prove me wrong? Willing to bet your life as you know it? As I said, think hard. And listen to your heart when you do.
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Seeking

Someone who is fun, happy but also is serious when it comes to feelings. I can love anybody, because I love everybody. But I must be able to spend quality time and have a bond to give my heart away to that special one.
Someone who is fun, happy but also is serious when it comes to feelings. I can love anybody, because I love everybody. But I must be able to spend quality time and have a bond to give my heart away to that special one.

More About Me

Trev

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
45
25 - 40
Lives in:
Colchester, Essex, United Kingdom
within 100 kms of Brightlingsea, Essex, United Kingdom
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Long
Any
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
6'0" (183 cm)
5'0" (153 cm) - 5'10" (178 cm)
Weight:
66 kg (145 lb)
Any
Body style:
Slim
Petite,Slim,Average,Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Other,Asian,Mixed
Facial hair:
No Answer
N/A
Best feature:
Don't Know
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Below average
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Occasionally smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Separated
Single,Separated,Divorced,Widowed
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
5
Any
Youngest child:
5
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Cat
Any
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Any
Employment status:
Other
Any
Income:
£10,001 - £20,000 GBP
Any
Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live with family
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United Kingdom
Any
Education:
Vocational College
Any
Languages spoken:
No Answer
English
English ability:
Fluent
Any
Thai ability:
None
Any
Religion:
Other
Any
Chinese sign:
Hare
Any
Star sign:
Aries
Any

Personal

Bust:
N/A
Any
Waist:
N/A
Any
Hips:
N/A
Any

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Many different movies are special to me on their own merits. From Jackie Chan or Monty Python movies to City of Angels and Code 46. I also love Anime as it is free to explore complex scenarios and emotions.

Favorite Book:

Terry Pratchett. All of them. One of my favourites however is a King book; The Girl Who Loved Tom Gordon. If you've not read it. Get in right now..

Favorite Food:

All sorts! I love to cook and get great satisfaction from a meal enjoyed all round. Maybe easier to say what I don't like. Peas, Cauliflower or too many chillis with no real spice.

Favorite Music:

Mozart to Metallica. I love all music which inspires, moves or energises. I am a big fan of Jazz, Rock and more. Music is a big, big thing in my life.

Dress Style:

Comfortable. I do not go for labels, I go for comfort and fit-for-purpose. If fit for purpose means pin-striped suit, not a problem. But on the whole, my appearance does not concern me beyond the chance of offending.

Humor:

Don't even get me started. I am observant and sometimes too quick witted for my own good. Although I try to keep my manners, I have been known to spontaneously draw both tears of laughter and looks of mild annoyance. Thankfully, the latter is rare. I'm also a fan of self-ridicule and silliness to earn a smile or two.

Hobbies & Interests:

The whole World! I love nature and science. I found a faith of sorts by witnessing the miracles around me. Astronomy, philosophy and nature enthral me. I love to create. Poetry, musings, pictures & photos, models (wood or 3D) Computers of course.

Travelled:

Although I would have loved to, I have not travelled past Paris since childhood. I long to witness beautiful scenery and peaceful, happy cultures. Thailand and Her way of life has captivated me. I would also love to see either Aurora first-hand before I die.

Cultural Adaption:

I have always embraced the culture of my loved ones in the past. After all, they and their family are a product of it. Different ways of life impress me easily. Sometimes though, you find people unwilling to teach details..

Romance:

A trip? A walk? A perfect meal? Although I am very romantic and plan for my Lady, all I require is her happiness to make my time perfect. Where, what doing, etc. are just details which change from occasion to occasion.

Personality:

Err.. Most people who know me simply know me as a Trev. Kind, open, honest, thoughtful, moody, creative and very affectionate. I would describe my personality as death-defying as I rarely consider myself in what I do.

My Perfect Match is:

Someone undemanding, yet sure of what she wants in a man. And patient enough to understand the nature of this child inside. I love an Asian face, as they smile so much sweeter and in my experience are genuinely happier, kinder and more sincere people.

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