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Michael
48 • Chattanooga, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 41
Appearance: Average
Honest and faithful. I adore children,
*If you're going to ask for money, please don't waste our time.* I am here to find the other half of my heart and life partner. i want to move to Thailand soon. My name is Michael but some people call me RB because of my red beard. I am a combat veteran that was medically retired. I was injured badly once in Iraq and then again in Afghanistan. I may be an American but I do not act like them. I have lived abroad most of my life and miss the kind people abroad. Americans are rude and dangerous here. I am very caring and gentle with a kind heart. I love to laugh and travel. I am looking to leave the U.S. as soon as I can. I am looking for someone that shares my ambitions and sense of adventure. I believe honesty, loyalty, communication and mutual respect make things go easily. I want someone faithful, goal oriented and full of life to grow old with. I would like a chance to have a happy, healthy and loving family that I can provide for and protect. I am told that I am very sweet, selfless and gentle. Im looking for someone to make a home, travel the world and live the best life with. Every moment can be absolutely amazing no matter where you are as long as you're with the right person. I do not want anyone that will be unfaithful or abusive. I have had my heart broken too many times and can not take another. I am not abusive, have never been unfaithful, and I will not argue, I prefer to discuss. If you are shouting, I will politely ask you to take the time to calm down so that we can discuss the issue. Arguing will get you nowhere. I have seen too much violence and will not tolerate more. I am honest, faithful, have a good sense of humor, adventurous, educated, selfless and a gentleman. I enjoy writing poetry but have not had someone that inspires me in a very long time. I always try to help others and enjoy volunteering. I care about our environment and wish that I could do more for it. If this sounds right for you then please message me. ~Blessed be.
Mel .
48 • Stockbridge, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 37
Appearance: Average
Lets say im open to possibilities .
World traveler and exsplorer of beautiful places and spaces.
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frank
57 • Yuma, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Appearance: Average
Retired gentleman, looking for companion.
I am currently in Thailand, using eSIM up and Google chat are both working I imagine Facebook works so does regular texting to other iPhones. New apps and other texts are not working because my home carrier is turned off. More about me… I.have a home
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Maury
63 • Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 49 - 75
Appearance: Average
Let's give our heart a chance to love
I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered. I love to go for long walks during a beautiful summer sunset with my dog Max along the wonderful walking trails by my home, going for walks during a gentle snowfall in the winter and walks during a crisp and sunny autumn day. I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together
Michael
56 • Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 55
Appearance: Average
It's Me - Real, Normal, Romantic
I'm single, divorce over 22 years, have 2 kids in their twenties and out on their own, live in the Myrtle Beach area USA, want to find the missing part of my heart and spend the rest of my life adoring her. I want to walk into a crowded room and instantly find my sweetheart like a light is shining down upon her, and has her eyes find me, her smile lights up her face and I can feel her heart pulling me to her, not seeing any other person in that room, just the two of us. this is what my heart has been scream out for many years and as I close my eyes, tears fall because the hole in my heart gets bigger as I have not found the one to complete me and reflections of all the ones that I've talked with in the hopes to fill my emptiness only ends in disappointment of fake
Matt
61 • Cleveland, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 60
Appearance: Average
Here to find romance forever
I'm just a nice normal guy. I have twin 23 yr olds, one boy, one girl. My wife passed away when the twins were only in 1st grade. I have been raising them alone since. They are now finished with college. I don't know about this site, lot of fake profiles or scammers, if this is you please stay away. I am serious here. Hopefully we can decide together the direction we take. Well lets save the rest for when we talk.
Eduardo
39 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 58
Appearance: Average
Conversaciones apasionantes de alto nivel
Trabajo en el campo legal y de los bienes raices. Me interesa conocer personas que puedan ayudarme a crecer y yo a ellas. Me encanta el mundo de los negocios, la cocina, conocer nuevas culturas y su gente ademas me encanta compartir conocimiento y ayudar a las personas a alcanzar sus metas. Si me quieres vender fotos o videos por favor no me contactes.
Jim
44 • Marysville, Washington, United States
Seeking: Male 22 - 48
Appearance: Average
Hello out there, welcome to the best profile ever!
Or maybe not the best profile but I'll give it a try anyways. Let's see, about myself, oof these are always hard. Sometimes silly, sometimes quiet, hoping to find that right person wherever they're hiding - that one to form a forever loving caring relationship with. They must be out there somewhere right, is there a secret phrase they're waiting for, it must be something. I do take some time to open up, so fair warning! Back to random chattering here, things I like...hmm, movies, sitting outside in the sun reading a book, weekends, probably lots of other things too!
Coy
25 • Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 99
Appearance: Average
Here to chat and see where things go
Not really sure what I’m looking for, here to talk and see where things go if it’s friendship or becomes more than that then I'm okay with it too. I do travel a lot for work but I only work Monday-Thursday and I’m always home Thursday. I do get free hotels and flights for personal use too.
Paul
30 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Appearance: Average
Te estoy buscando
Hola señoras, soy un chico sencillo que disfruta de la vida todos los días y siempre estoy buscando nuevas aventuras. Soy una persona activa, mis pasatiempos incluyen hacer ejercicio, bucear y leer. Soy un hispanohablante intermedio pero estudio todas los días. ?Me puede ayudar con esto?
Daniel
50 • Naperville, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 34
Appearance: Average
Single American male
Soy una persona humilde, con grandes valores como ser humano. Tengo defectos y virtudes como todos los demás. Me gusta leer, escuchar música, ir a la playa y disfrutar de noches tranquilas y relajantes. Me gusta viajar, conocer gente nueva y conocer
Charles
60 • Ocoee, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Appearance: Average
Not interested in marriage without Live
I’m a retired software engineer. I enjoy art, philosophy, spiritual pursuits, music and laughter. The last Photo is not my hair lol I prefer childless or grown children not living at home. I want someone who thinks differently. Marriage is not a priority for me but honesty and monogamy are. I’m looking for connection. It’s not easy to find but I am going to keep looking. I prefer a girl who lives somewhere in Asia. I do not mean to be rude but if you aren’t currently living in Mainland China, I will block you. It’s not personal but that’s how I avoid scammers. There are so many scammers here As a man who grew up in a Western culture, marriage isn’t my first priority. Love is my first priority. Love to me includes trust and loyalty. It includes alignment in values as well as interests. If I love someone, truly, I won’t deny my love anything and that includes marriage. I consider China to be one of the finest cultures in the world. The West could learn much from Chinese society. I am on China Cupid to find a Chinese woman not by accident but by choice. If there is a woman in this world that I can love and who will love me, she lives in China. I want her to be my equal without compromising our roles in a relationship. I believe that men should be the protector and the woman must be the comforter. Men should be wise but women have a wisdom too. I want a woman who can round out what I lack and I want to do the same. After all, that is the point of a relationship. We strengthen each other by providing to each other what we lack. I don’t get jealous and I am not controlling. I do not play games either. Finally, I want to be with a woman who wants to live our remaining days thinking about the meaning of things and talking about anything and everything. I like to go to places I have never been and see things I’ve only read about. I am moving to Asia soon. I haven’t decided exactly where yet. My plan is to visit Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines first. I’m not rich 😊 I don’t speak Chinese but of course I will learn as best i can. I’ve spent 6 years single and taking time to heal and learn about myself. i’m not perfect but I am serious and hoping to find someone to spend my life with
Keni
67 • Chandler, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 43 - 60
Appearance: Average
Primal carnal fires raging, exploring deeper ,
Adventurer, intriguing , Always looking for fully ripen fruit . I can laugh at most of my none relationship mistakes knowing i have the giftings to correct them. Tennis is a most enjoyable and rewarding sport. Loyalty, trust and open communication are essential in pleasure filled, euphoric relationships, always in bloom. Love deepens with those three blossoming. Endless romantic with a appreciative and grateful woman. Health is very important because with it we better inbibe life's dynamic energies that inflame our emotions. Not into endless chatting, authentic, enrapturing intimacy blazes hotter through more personal channels .My body has a near insatiable thirst for the feminine energy emanating from my woman's happy heart, Love is not love until it is given away!' im 66 yrs old
jorghe
56 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 49
Appearance: Average
Looking for someone with the same north.
I am a nice guy, cool person, sharp too, though sort of intriguing never boring, I am a good heart serious but love to laugh. I love dark places, martinis, passionate kissing, art, great movies, good cologne interesting conversation and goin places. hate cruelty, sarcasm and rude behavior.
Alex
51 • Athens, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 35
Appearance: Average
Life has given me plenty of experiences,
Authentic man looking for peace. Life has given me plenty of experiences, and I’m grateful for all of them. I love staying active — biking, hiking, and scuba diving when I can get near the ocean. When I’m home, I’m just as passionate about creating
Andreray
52 • Rochester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 75
Appearance: Average
⚓ “Seasoned traveler of the seas, looking for my c
Life has taken me across oceans and to ports all around the world, but what I’m really searching for is someone special to come home to. At 52, I’ve learned that laughter, kindness, and good company are the real treasures. I’m a marine engineer by profession, but outside of work, I’m just a down-to-earth guy who loves a good glass of wine, sunsets by the water, and getting lost in a great conversation. I believe in romance, little surprises, and keeping things lighthearted — because love should feel like both an adventure and a safe harbor. Hobbies & Passions: 🌍 Traveling & spontaneous weekend getaways 🍳 Cooking (I make a mean seafood dish — perks of the job!) 🎶 Dancing like no one’s watching 🚴 Staying active — cycling, swimming, exploring nature 💫 Stargazing & dreaming about what’s next
Its in front of your face🤦‍♂️
43 • Elkhart, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Appearance: Average
⏩️Read the profile first‼️
My name is Halbert and its not my fault if you are not smart enough to understand this. 💯 But messaging here only works if one of us pays and i dont plan to keep this app funded because you cant read and complete intructions. After examining my PIX, try using the information i provided. Dont say its not there....it is When you decide to text me send me a screen grab of YOUR profile FROM THIS SITE. And tell me what site you are from because this is not the only site i use. Thats how i know what site you found me. Then i can look through your profile and see if we should continue. It is important to me you follow directions so i know you have the competence to be a quality partner. Dont make this difficult. Its right in front of you.
Jordan
36 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 33
Appearance: Average
Looking for a soulmate
I like live music, spicy food, and checking out new restaurants or breweries. Always up for trying something different, whether it's a show, a new city, or just something off the usual path. Looking to meet someone who's into good conversation and down to explore.
Davis
55 • Manitowoc, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 85
Appearance: Average
Adventurous spirit seeking genuine connection!
Hey there! I’m an easygoing guy who loves adventure, good conversation, and making the most out of life. Whether it’s trying out new restaurants, hiking, or just enjoying a cozy night in, I’m always up for something fun. I value honesty, laughter, and deep connections. Let’s see where this journey takes us!
Mike
78 • Murrieta, California, United States
Seeking: Female 59 - 70
Appearance: Average
Seeking Lifetime friend and partner
Current August 29, 2025..Do you have a USA tourist Visa?? Read my profile and let me know if you would like to be my partner. Are there any members here that live in USA and seriously looking for a partner??? Seriously looking for a partner to live in USA, Southern California. DO YOU LIVE IN THE USA NOW?? Possibly you have a tourist USA Visa! IF YOU HAVE A USA VISA and are seriously wanting a partner and to live in Southern California. please contact me. I think incomplete profiles are either very uninterested person or a lazy person. I am not a premium member so you will need to contact me. Any Premium members on here that aren't scammers living in USA, please contact me? I am serious about wanting a partner to come live in the USA if not here already Any Pilipino, Korean, Chinese, Vietnamese that are already in USA with visa and speak fairly good English? I return messages to Premium members and members that I know have read my profile. . I am looking for a life partner to enjoy life's ups and downs and enjoyments. I hope a wonderful woman see this and contacts me directly. Read well so you know if you are interested. I'm an older white gentleman, very affectionate, hugging, touching type guy. Loyal, respectful and courteous. I love to kiss. I am retired. I enjoy road trips, long weekend trips to a couple weeks long. I enjoy going to movies SOCA and local sporting events. Homebody, cuddle and watch television, movies, series. I volunteer with my fraternal group. I do not smoke nor want a woman that does. I socially drink a little. Ladies, sorry, not a dancer. I have dated and enjoy Hispanic/Latina women along with Asian women. I have dated Korean, Chinese and Pilipino women. I believe age is a number if woman is mature and enjoys being with an older man. Star signs of Cancer, Libra, Taurus and Pisces are especially good. I am not a wealthy man but I have my house and means to basically support us. If you have a retirement fund also we would be fine. In USA, you will need to have health insurance coverage so you know.
Daryl
68 • Saratoga Springs, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49
Appearance: Average
Dominate looking for life partner
I am a Dominate man looking for the special girl, woman, lady for a life long relationship. I enjoy life as it comes and try not to stress about things that I can't change and change the things that I can. Live life each day to the best that i can. I live in Bakers Mills, New York not Saratoga Springs,but it is the nearest town listed.
Mason
49 • Springfield, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 45
Appearance: Average
I’m a simple guy looking for a simple woman that knows how to enjoy life, laugh and truly love. I have a beautiful life to share with someone special. I am open to most anything so don’t be shy if you don’t understand something I say, just ask. I’m open and honest and am interested in an open honest woman as trust is the foundation of a beautiful relationship. Age isn’t important on my end the site makes me choose an age.
Will
48 • Aiken, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 57
Appearance: Average
Explorer of cities, beaches, and compatibility ♑🐍
Hi, I’m Will 👋 Moving to Vietnam in a few months and excited to make it home long-term. I work in tech and also love teaching, traveling, and learning languages. You’ll usually find me exploring new neighborhoods, relaxing at the beach with a drink,
Lj
52 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 58
Appearance: Average
Meet to develop serious relationship
I want to meet only someone who is serious about developing a real relationship. If we both find each other as a fate. I am a well travelled and educated professional. I am a good conversationalist and listener. I am reliable, punctual and responsible I love the outdoors, traveling, music, ethnic foods and new adventures. I'm looking for love, romance, friendship and a long lasting relationship. I am also very interested in learning more about Thailand, language and history. I want to find someone who will share these things with me. Please ask any question. I am happy to answer.
Thomas
64 • Lincoln, Nebraska, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 56
Appearance: Average
Divorced and wanting to Remarry
Raised on a farm in Nebraska, I am a service connected disabled Air Force veteran Security Police Specialist. I am honest and loyal. I am a little shy. I am unable to have my own children. I was a foster parent and I have a step daughter that loves m
Pilgrim
76 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
Searching for . . . Passion, Fascination and so mu
Well educated, moderately affluent, not especially handsome, more of a nerd than athletic, enjoys world travel, fine restaurants, very good wines, symphonies, opera, museums, art collecting, reading, hiking, photography, thoroughbred horses, rugby, sailing . . . did I mention fine wines? Passion and Fascination . . . This adventure is meant to be shared with just the right person! 
Jason
44 • New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 40
Appearance: Average
Southern Gentleman
Southern gentleman. Extremely passionate and loving. I love taking care of the people I love. Family is very important to me. I love live music, food, dancing. I’m a great cook. Love to travel. Live in the US, travel between Florida and Louisiana often. Originally from New Orleans.
Flynn
57 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Appearance: Average
The deeper you look, the better I look!
I have had experiences on a small farm with lots of animals, and enjoy them very much. Currently I'm living in the city and enjoy it for the convenience of all entertainment available. I look forward to doing some traveling soon, as I retire from ful
douhlas
51 • Jacksonville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 65
Appearance: Average
looking for someone real
I'm hoping to find a woman who is intelligent, attractive, attentive, an has the patients with a willingness to do things in the right time. Some one who does not to want to rush everything, not demanding money before we have physically met or get to know each other intimately on a emotional level. Some one who demonstrate that she is really affectionate an has a love of God and children. Some one who has a caring heart, with a can do attitude. Some one who is polite and goal oriented with  principles an a moral code. Some one who can be buy my side as a friend,partner, lover, and confident.  Someone who views life with a will to live, an has that fight which works to make dreams come true. A woman who's actions define her more than her words. A woman who knows what she wants in all senses an has a team work mentally.  A mature person, who likes the simple things that enhance life an love. A woman who places more value on honest communication, faith, an matters of the heart than she does material things. A woman that is loyal, sincere,caring an passionate in life an in making love. The last important value I'm looking for in her but certainly not the least is the ability to forgive. There is no long lasting relationship between two people if one person or both don't have the ability to forgive. Forgiveness is priceless an necessary for a long lasting relationship or marriage. We are not perfect. Mistakes will happen in a relationship and in parenthood. We can never become wise if we don't make mistakes. If I find a woman who speaks English with all the qualities I mentioned? [An she is willing to sign a prenuptial!!!!.] I will marry her if she wants me to. I'm in the military an I have traveled all over the world. They say if you look you will never find what you are looking for. So I'm not looking, I'm hopeful that I can find a woman with the character traits I mentioned. If you are here to lie or play games to get money. I understand, in fact I respect your hustle, do whatever you need to do to get your money girl.  I'm not judging you. However I would respectfully ask that  you please leave me out of the games you play with men on the internet. I'm not here to manipulate,lie or pretend. I'm hopeful that I can someone real. I want you to know that I understand the dynamic associated with different cultures. I also understand the problems that may arise concerning immigration,Visa an travel to the United States . Please understand that if I believe that you are the woman that has the qualities I mention. I will do everything in my power to bring you here so we can be together.  If that is in fact what you want. In relationships first we try then we trust. The foundation need to create this will take some time. We can only go as fast or slow as we can handle. Long distance relationships are difficult but not impossible. There are countless people all over the world who have happiness with someone, An they both started out like this. Can you send me more pictures,? What do you think? Listen creating a relationship is an investment. It involves our feelings which is a personal an very valuable thing to you and me. First we try with good faith. then we trust each other. I won't fall in love with any women I have never physically met in person. Especially when I haven't even had a video chat or a voice phone call.  Chemistry has to be verified because without that you have nothing.l an that can only be done in person. Let's be honest, there are people an company's out there who make a living on random Words an fake pictures. I'm not going to invest money in heart felt words an pictures alone. I need to meet you. We need to live together. An see if we can develop a relationship. Money come to play in a relationship after the feelings an thoughts are confirmed and not before. I'm serious about what I want. Because it's not just me alone. I have a daughter  I have custody of. So if you want a man that you have no intentions of actually meeting in person from the United States to be your bills. I'm not that man. If you want to change your location an your life with something that is real an you like children? Then I'm your Man.   
Daniel
41 • Pasadena, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 46
Appearance: Average
Adventurous archaeologist seeking real connection
Substitute teacher by day, PhD applicant by night (and sometimes day too—life gets busy). I’m an archaeologist focused on ancient history and human-environment relationships. I dig into the past to better understand the present. Full-time work, full-time study, but I always make time for the things (and people) that matter. Into all things nerdy: D&D, video games, anime, museums, photography, and hiking to places most people don’t even know exist. ENTP energy—curious, spontaneous, and always ready with a wild fact, impulsive idea, or unexpected road trip. Looking for someone who enjoys deep conversations, cozy nights, spontaneous detours, and maybe a museum date—or just someone who wants to eat cake and talk about time travel. I cook like I’m prepping for a medieval tavern and bake like your favorite grandma. Let’s share an adventure—bonus if it includes snacks, stories, and hidden places waiting to be found. I value kindness, curiosity, and cultural openness—connection grows stronger when we embrace each other's roots. Let’s share ruins, romance, laughter, and maybe a little magic too. I’ve got the compass, you bring the treasure map. 🧭🗺️
Isaac
41 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Appearance: Average
Hello
Vivo en Texas, Estados Unidos. Originalmente de Puerto Rico. En este momento en mi vida me paso trabajando casi todo el tiempo. Solo viendo que hay allá fuera dado que aquí la cultura de noviazgo y matrimonio está muy mal y tóxica. Espero algún día pronto encontrar esa persona especial para construir una familia.
Ronald
59 • Marion, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 20
Appearance: Average
Without family you have nothing
I'm just an average man looking for something different than what I have been through. Im talkative, caring, loving, outgoing, hardworking, giving, generous, romantic but most of all I'm loyal and faithful. I will always treat who I'm with like a lady should be treated. I'm not argumentative, rude, abusive and I will always treat my lady with love and respect. I do not lie, cheat and I will never make anything up about my self. As I said im just an average man who has a big loving heart. If who I meet has children I will love and treat them as my own children. I own my own house and have a good job.i have 2 daughters who are my world. They are both doing wonderful and the actually live in different states. My oldest lives in California and my youngest lives in Alabama. I'm here hoping and praying to find my soulmate. I promise I will never act inappropriately and will never ask for nude pictures. That is so rude and the men who ask for nude photos should be kicked off here. Respect is the most important thing. So please give me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I'm emotionally and very financially stable. I make a very good living doing what I love. Hoping to find a special lady to enjoy life with. If you contact me one thing is for sure.....you better live to travel and see and visit beautiful and exciting places.
Paul
63 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Appearance: Average
Honest and Extremely Faithful Man
I am not a rich man. I care little for material wealth, although I like to be comfortable and be able to enjoy life to its fullest. But I have a great job with a very good salary. Besides a wise man once said the greatest treasure a man can ever attain on earth is the love of a good woman. What I am most interested in is a true love. I am rich with love. But my heart only has room for one special woman because when I give, I give all of me.
DJ
56 • Midland, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Appearance: Average
Looking for partner in crime.
If you're looking for money move on ! Fifty six years old live in a beautiful house on the river in freeland michigan. A good day for me would be sitting in the backyard at a bonfire, watching the wildlife or fishing on the river. I have 4 children two are adults and live on their own. The other two I have every other week.They're young adults eighteen and seventeen. I have no drama in my life, and i'm not looking for any. Seriously thinking about bringing somebody over from another country.
Eric
48 • Hamilton, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Appearance: Average
Hi
I'm honest and sometimes too honest because some people get hurt when you tell them the truth. I feel if you can't be honest because you worry about hurting feelings with the truth then you are not helping by telling people what they want to hear. And I want to help people I love.

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