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Mel
48 • Stockbridge, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 37
Appearance: Average
Lets say im open to possibilities .
World traveler and exsplorer of beautiful places and spaces.
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Leif
48 • Oakley, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 43
Appearance: Average
Swedish chef looking for true love
Dedicated hardworking chef & cottage councilor looking for a lonesome soul who wants to adventure and see the unknown world together. Romantic, dedicated, loving, willing to support each other and be happy and start a relationship maybe a family… I sign for deaf, speak different languages, and work as a chef for 35 years… alone and looking to hold someone who wants each other’s attention and life experiences together.
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Paul
30 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Appearance: Average
Te estoy buscando
Hola señoras, soy un chico sencillo que disfruta de la vida todos los días y siempre estoy buscando nuevas aventuras. Soy una persona activa, mis pasatiempos incluyen hacer ejercicio, bucear y leer. Soy un hispanohablante intermedio pero estudio todas los días. ?Me puede ayudar con esto?
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Daniel
50 • Naperville, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 34
Appearance: Average
Single American male
Soy una persona humilde, con grandes valores como ser humano. Tengo defectos y virtudes como todos los demás. Me gusta leer, escuchar música, ir a la playa y disfrutar de noches tranquilas y relajantes. Me gusta viajar, conocer gente nueva y conocer
Charles
60 • Ocoee, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Appearance: Average
Not interested in marriage without Live
I’m a retired software engineer. I enjoy art, philosophy, spiritual pursuits, music and laughter. The last Photo is not my hair lol I prefer childless or grown children not living at home. I want someone who thinks differently. Marriage is not a priority for me but honesty and monogamy are. I’m looking for connection. It’s not easy to find but I am going to keep looking. I prefer a girl who lives somewhere in Asia. I do not mean to be rude but if you aren’t currently living in Mainland China, I will block you. It’s not personal but that’s how I avoid scammers. There are so many scammers here As a man who grew up in a Western culture, marriage isn’t my first priority. Love is my first priority. Love to me includes trust and loyalty. It includes alignment in values as well as interests. If I love someone, truly, I won’t deny my love anything and that includes marriage. I consider China to be one of the finest cultures in the world. The West could learn much from Chinese society. I am on China Cupid to find a Chinese woman not by accident but by choice. If there is a woman in this world that I can love and who will love me, she lives in China. I want her to be my equal without compromising our roles in a relationship. I believe that men should be the protector and the woman must be the comforter. Men should be wise but women have a wisdom too. I want a woman who can round out what I lack and I want to do the same. After all, that is the point of a relationship. We strengthen each other by providing to each other what we lack. I don’t get jealous and I am not controlling. I do not play games either. Finally, I want to be with a woman who wants to live our remaining days thinking about the meaning of things and talking about anything and everything. I like to go to places I have never been and see things I’ve only read about. I am moving to Asia soon. I haven’t decided exactly where yet. My plan is to visit Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines first. I’m not rich 😊 I don’t speak Chinese but of course I will learn as best i can. I’ve spent 6 years single and taking time to heal and learn about myself. i’m not perfect but I am serious and hoping to find someone to spend my life with
Keni
67 • Chandler, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 43 - 60
Appearance: Average
Primal carnal fires raging, exploring deeper ,
Adventurer, intriguing , Always looking for fully ripen fruit . I can laugh at most of my none relationship mistakes knowing i have the giftings to correct them. Tennis is a most enjoyable and rewarding sport. Loyalty, trust and open communication are essential in pleasure filled, euphoric relationships, always in bloom. Love deepens with those three blossoming. Endless romantic with a appreciative and grateful woman. Health is very important because with it we better inbibe life's dynamic energies that inflame our emotions. Not into endless chatting, authentic, enrapturing intimacy blazes hotter through more personal channels .My body has a near insatiable thirst for the feminine energy emanating from my woman's happy heart, Love is not love until it is given away!' im 66 yrs old
jorghe
56 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 49
Appearance: Average
Looking for someone with the same north.
I am a nice guy, cool person, sharp too, though sort of intriguing never boring, I am a good heart serious but love to laugh. I love dark places, martinis, passionate kissing, art, great movies, good cologne interesting conversation and goin places. hate cruelty, sarcasm and rude behavior.
Alex
51 • Athens, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 35
Appearance: Average
About Me Life has given me plenty of experiences,
Authentic man looking for peace. Life has given me plenty of experiences, and I’m grateful for all of them. I love staying active — biking, hiking, and scuba diving when I can get near the ocean. Wecht -aalixs. When I’m home, I’m just as passionate about creating — from tending my aquariums to building miniature rainforest waterfalls. Recently, I’ve been exploring the North Georgia mountains and finding new trails to enjoy.
Andreray
52 • Rochester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 75
Appearance: Average
⚓ “Seasoned traveler of the seas, looking for my c
Life has taken me across oceans and to ports all around the world, but what I’m really searching for is someone special to come home to. At 52, I’ve learned that laughter, kindness, and good company are the real treasures. I’m a marine engineer by profession, but outside of work, I’m just a down-to-earth guy who loves a good glass of wine, sunsets by the water, and getting lost in a great conversation. I believe in romance, little surprises, and keeping things lighthearted — because love should feel like both an adventure and a safe harbor. Hobbies & Passions: 🌍 Traveling & spontaneous weekend getaways 🍳 Cooking (I make a mean seafood dish — perks of the job!) 🎶 Dancing like no one’s watching 🚴 Staying active — cycling, swimming, exploring nature 💫 Stargazing & dreaming about what’s next
Its in front of your face🤦‍♂️
43 • Elkhart, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Appearance: Average
⏩️Read the profile first‼️
My name is Halbert and its not my fault if you are not smart enough to understand this. 💯 But messaging here only works if one of us pays and i dont plan to keep this app funded because you cant read and complete intructions. After examining my PIX, try using the information i provided. Dont say its not there....it is When you decide to text me send me a screen grab of YOUR profile FROM THIS SITE. And tell me what site you are from because this is not the only site i use. Thats how i know what site you found me. Then i can look through your profile and see if we should continue. It is important to me you follow directions so i know you have the competence to be a quality partner. Dont make this difficult. Its right in front of you.
Jordan
36 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 33
Appearance: Average
Looking for a soulmate
I like live music, spicy food, and checking out new restaurants or breweries. Always up for trying something different, whether it's a show, a new city, or just something off the usual path. Looking to meet someone who's into good conversation and down to explore.
Davis
55 • Manitowoc, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 85
Appearance: Average
Adventurous spirit seeking genuine connection!
Hey there! I’m an easygoing guy who loves adventure, good conversation, and making the most out of life. Whether it’s trying out new restaurants, hiking, or just enjoying a cozy night in, I’m always up for something fun. I value honesty, laughter, and deep connections. Let’s see where this journey takes us!
Mike
78 • Murrieta, California, United States
Seeking: Female 59 - 70
Appearance: Average
Seeking Lifetime friend and partner
Current August 29, 2025..Do you have a USA tourist Visa?? Read my profile and let me know if you would like to be my partner. Are there any members here that live in USA and seriously looking for a partner??? Seriously looking for a partner to live in USA, Southern California. DO YOU LIVE IN THE USA NOW?? Possibly you have a tourist USA Visa! IF YOU HAVE A USA VISA and are seriously wanting a partner and to live in Southern California. please contact me. I think incomplete profiles are either very uninterested person or a lazy person. I am not a premium member so you will need to contact me. Any Premium members on here that aren't scammers living in USA, please contact me? I am serious about wanting a partner to come live in the USA if not here already Any Pilipino, Korean, Chinese, Vietnamese that are already in USA with visa and speak fairly good English? I return messages to Premium members and members that I know have read my profile. . I am looking for a life partner to enjoy life's ups and downs and enjoyments. I hope a wonderful woman see this and contacts me directly. Read well so you know if you are interested. I'm an older white gentleman, very affectionate, hugging, touching type guy. Loyal, respectful and courteous. I love to kiss. I am retired. I enjoy road trips, long weekend trips to a couple weeks long. I enjoy going to movies SOCA and local sporting events. Homebody, cuddle and watch television, movies, series. I volunteer with my fraternal group. I do not smoke nor want a woman that does. I socially drink a little. Ladies, sorry, not a dancer. I have dated and enjoy Hispanic/Latina women along with Asian women. I have dated Korean, Chinese and Pilipino women. I believe age is a number if woman is mature and enjoys being with an older man. Star signs of Cancer, Libra, Taurus and Pisces are especially good. I am not a wealthy man but I have my house and means to basically support us. If you have a retirement fund also we would be fine. In USA, you will need to have health insurance coverage so you know.
Daryl
68 • Saratoga Springs, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49
Appearance: Average
Dominate looking for life partner
I am a Dominate man looking for the special girl, woman, lady for a life long relationship. I enjoy life as it comes and try not to stress about things that I can't change and change the things that I can. Live life each day to the best that i can. I live in Bakers Mills, New York not Saratoga Springs,but it is the nearest town listed.
Mason
49 • Springfield, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 45
Appearance: Average
I’m a simple guy looking for a simple woman that knows how to enjoy life, laugh and truly love. I have a beautiful life to share with someone special. I am open to most anything so don’t be shy if you don’t understand something I say, just ask. I’m open and honest and am interested in an open honest woman as trust is the foundation of a beautiful relationship. Age isn’t important on my end the site makes me choose an age.
Will
48 • Aiken, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 57
Appearance: Average
Explorer of cities, beaches, and compatibility ♑🐍
Hi, I’m Will 👋 Moving to Vietnam in a few months and excited to make it home long-term. I work in tech and also love teaching, traveling, and learning languages. You’ll usually find me exploring new neighborhoods, relaxing at the beach with a drink,
Lj
52 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 58
Appearance: Average
Meet to develop serious relationship
I want to meet only someone who is serious about developing a real relationship. If we both find each other as a fate. I am a well travelled and educated professional. I am a good conversationalist and listener. I am reliable, punctual and responsible I love the outdoors, traveling, music, ethnic foods and new adventures. I'm looking for love, romance, friendship and a long lasting relationship. I am also very interested in learning more about Thailand, language and history. I want to find someone who will share these things with me. Please ask any question. I am happy to answer.
Thomas
64 • Lincoln, Nebraska, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 56
Appearance: Average
Divorced and wanting to Remarry
Raised on a farm in Nebraska, I am a service connected disabled Air Force veteran Security Police Specialist. I am honest and loyal. I am a little shy. I am unable to have my own children. I was a foster parent and I have a step daughter that loves m
Pilgrim
76 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
Searching for . . . Passion, Fascination and so mu
Well educated, moderately affluent, not especially handsome, more of a nerd than athletic, enjoys world travel, fine restaurants, very good wines, symphonies, opera, museums, art collecting, reading, hiking, photography, thoroughbred horses, rugby, sailing . . . did I mention fine wines? Passion and Fascination . . . This adventure is meant to be shared with just the right person! 
Keith
56 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 60
Appearance: Average
Hola mi amor. Busco una relación seria con una mujer apasionada que quiera compartir profunda intimidad y pasión. Me gusta ir en las redes sociales, así como explorar modelos para videos musicales, soy un productor ejecutivo en la industria musical estadounidense. También soy un artista profesional de grabación estadounidense que produjo mi propio álbum personal llamado "SKY LIFE". 😘
Jason
44 • New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 40
Appearance: Average
Southern Gentleman
Southern gentleman. Extremely passionate and loving. I love taking care of the people I love. Family is very important to me. I love live music, food, dancing. I’m a great cook. Love to travel. Live in the US, travel between Florida and Louisiana often. Originally from New Orleans.
Flynn
57 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Appearance: Average
The deeper you look, the better I look!
I have had experiences on a small farm with lots of animals, and enjoy them very much. Currently I'm living in the city and enjoy it for the convenience of all entertainment available. I look forward to doing some traveling soon, as I retire from ful
douhlas
51 • Jacksonville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 65
Appearance: Average
looking for someone real
I'm hoping to find a woman who is intelligent, attractive, attentive, an has the patients with a willingness to do things in the right time. Some one who does not to want to rush everything, not demanding money before we have physically met or get to know each other intimately on a emotional level. Some one who demonstrate that she is really affectionate an has a love of God and children. Some one who has a caring heart, with a can do attitude. Some one who is polite and goal oriented with  principles an a moral code. Some one who can be buy my side as a friend,partner, lover, and confident.  Someone who views life with a will to live, an has that fight which works to make dreams come true. A woman who's actions define her more than her words. A woman who knows what she wants in all senses an has a team work mentally.  A mature person, who likes the simple things that enhance life an love. A woman who places more value on honest communication, faith, an matters of the heart than she does material things. A woman that is loyal, sincere,caring an passionate in life an in making love. The last important value I'm looking for in her but certainly not the least is the ability to forgive. There is no long lasting relationship between two people if one person or both don't have the ability to forgive. Forgiveness is priceless an necessary for a long lasting relationship or marriage. We are not perfect. Mistakes will happen in a relationship and in parenthood. We can never become wise if we don't make mistakes. If I find a woman who speaks English with all the qualities I mentioned? [An she is willing to sign a prenuptial!!!!.] I will marry her if she wants me to. I'm in the military an I have traveled all over the world. They say if you look you will never find what you are looking for. So I'm not looking, I'm hopeful that I can find a woman with the character traits I mentioned. If you are here to lie or play games to get money. I understand, in fact I respect your hustle, do whatever you need to do to get your money girl.  I'm not judging you. However I would respectfully ask that  you please leave me out of the games you play with men on the internet. I'm not here to manipulate,lie or pretend. I'm hopeful that I can someone real. I want you to know that I understand the dynamic associated with different cultures. I also understand the problems that may arise concerning immigration,Visa an travel to the United States . Please understand that if I believe that you are the woman that has the qualities I mention. I will do everything in my power to bring you here so we can be together.  If that is in fact what you want. In relationships first we try then we trust. The foundation need to create this will take some time. We can only go as fast or slow as we can handle. Long distance relationships are difficult but not impossible. There are countless people all over the world who have happiness with someone, An they both started out like this. Can you send me more pictures,? What do you think? Listen creating a relationship is an investment. It involves our feelings which is a personal an very valuable thing to you and me. First we try with good faith. then we trust each other. I won't fall in love with any women I have never physically met in person. Especially when I haven't even had a video chat or a voice phone call.  Chemistry has to be verified because without that you have nothing.l an that can only be done in person. Let's be honest, there are people an company's out there who make a living on random Words an fake pictures. I'm not going to invest money in heart felt words an pictures alone. I need to meet you. We need to live together. An see if we can develop a relationship. Money come to play in a relationship after the feelings an thoughts are confirmed and not before. I'm serious about what I want. Because it's not just me alone. I have a daughter  I have custody of. So if you want a man that you have no intentions of actually meeting in person from the United States to be your bills. I'm not that man. If you want to change your location an your life with something that is real an you like children? Then I'm your Man.   
Daniel
41 • Pasadena, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 46
Appearance: Average
Adventurous archaeologist seeking real connection
Substitute teacher by day, PhD applicant by night (and sometimes day too—life gets busy). I’m an archaeologist focused on ancient history and human-environment relationships. I dig into the past to better understand the present. Full-time work, full-time study, but I always make time for the things (and people) that matter. Into all things nerdy: D&D, video games, anime, museums, photography, and hiking to places most people don’t even know exist. ENTP energy—curious, spontaneous, and always ready with a wild fact, impulsive idea, or unexpected road trip. Looking for someone who enjoys deep conversations, cozy nights, spontaneous detours, and maybe a museum date—or just someone who wants to eat cake and talk about time travel. I cook like I’m prepping for a medieval tavern and bake like your favorite grandma. Let’s share an adventure—bonus if it includes snacks, stories, and hidden places waiting to be found. I value kindness, curiosity, and cultural openness—connection grows stronger when we embrace each other's roots. Let’s share ruins, romance, laughter, and maybe a little magic too. I’ve got the compass, you bring the treasure map. 🧭🗺️
Isaac
41 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Appearance: Average
Hello
Vivo en Texas, Estados Unidos. Originalmente de Puerto Rico. En este momento en mi vida me paso trabajando casi todo el tiempo. Solo viendo que hay allá fuera dado que aquí la cultura de noviazgo y matrimonio está muy mal y tóxica. Espero algún día pronto encontrar esa persona especial para construir una familia.
Ronald
59 • Marion, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 20
Appearance: Average
Without family you have nothing
I'm just an average man looking for something different than what I have been through. Im talkative, caring, loving, outgoing, hardworking, giving, generous, romantic but most of all I'm loyal and faithful. I will always treat who I'm with like a lady should be treated. I'm not argumentative, rude, abusive and I will always treat my lady with love and respect. I do not lie, cheat and I will never make anything up about my self. As I said im just an average man who has a big loving heart. If who I meet has children I will love and treat them as my own children. I own my own house and have a good job.i have 2 daughters who are my world. They are both doing wonderful and the actually live in different states. My oldest lives in California and my youngest lives in Alabama. I'm here hoping and praying to find my soulmate. I promise I will never act inappropriately and will never ask for nude pictures. That is so rude and the men who ask for nude photos should be kicked off here. Respect is the most important thing. So please give me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I'm emotionally and very financially stable. I make a very good living doing what I love. Hoping to find a special lady to enjoy life with. If you contact me one thing is for sure.....you better live to travel and see and visit beautiful and exciting places.
Paul
63 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Appearance: Average
Honest and Extremely Faithful Man
I am not a rich man. I care little for material wealth, although I like to be comfortable and be able to enjoy life to its fullest. But I have a great job with a very good salary. Besides a wise man once said the greatest treasure a man can ever attain on earth is the love of a good woman. What I am most interested in is a true love. I am rich with love. But my heart only has room for one special woman because when I give, I give all of me.
DJ
56 • Midland, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Appearance: Average
Looking for partner in crime.
If you're looking for money move on ! Fifty six years old live in a beautiful house on the river in freeland michigan. A good day for me would be sitting in the backyard at a bonfire, watching the wildlife or fishing on the river. I have 4 children two are adults and live on their own. The other two I have every other week.They're young adults eighteen and seventeen. I have no drama in my life, and i'm not looking for any. Seriously thinking about bringing somebody over from another country.
Eric
48 • Hamilton, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Appearance: Average
Hi
I'm honest and sometimes too honest because some people get hurt when you tell them the truth. I feel if you can't be honest because you worry about hurting feelings with the truth then you are not helping by telling people what they want to hear. And I want to help people I love.
Robert
40 • Redmond, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 42
Appearance: Average
robbie666
I;m and ex= (Special Forces.GreeenBeret/T\Ranger came back to US when into Law Enforcement and spent my career with the CA State Patrol. CHP and flew the CHP Helicopter the last 5 years before retiring early with a tax free injury the rest of my life
Jeff
69 • Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 56 - 69
Appearance: Average
Ready for success
I am Jewish GRITS (Gentle/man Raised in the South). Low key and maintenance. Comedy is a big part of my persona. Likes travel, dancing (two left feet and klutzy), movies, casinos, music (Oldies, Motown, Classic Rock, and yes, Disco). I am not a foodie, but like good and basic food, esp seafood, meat,...I am allergic to rabbits and cats. I would rather meet as soon as possible as I don't like too much texting. I may not cook too much but I can clean dishes.
Luke
46 • Hutchinson, Kansas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Appearance: Average
Single and looking for my best friend
Hello, My name is Luke, First thing, I am not good at talking about myself myself, so I will be blunt I am 43, and I am disabled (I am half blind, suffer from anxiety, PTSD and tremors) I can no longer work. I have been retired/disabled for 10 years now. When I was able to work, I was a police officer and a Amateur Fighter (Kickboxing and Tae kwon Do) Due to injuries sustained, it took its toll on me over the years. But even though I do not work, I try to live a healthy lifestyle. I lift weights, and I still train in martial arts. I currently live with my mother to help care for her, she is 75 and has dementia. She is a very proud lady. I, myself, am a fun, caring, kind, young at heart, go with the flow type of guy. I am independent, and look for the same in a partner. I am passionate, compassionate, empathetic, loyal and honest, and again look for the same in a partner. I like music, video games, learning new things (trying to learn Chinese, it's harder than I thought) I love history (I'm also a warrior at heart) Honor is important to me. I like Star Wars, and computer technology. When I was younger I did go to college and have a degree is computer science and a degree in Criminal Justice, but that was 20 years ago. Not much else to say, but if you are interested, feel free to message me, though I am only a standard member at this time. Thank you for taking the time to read this and best wishes
B
55 • Bay, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 47
Appearance: Average
Looking for the right one.
I am single male looking for that right person. I'm very easy to talk to & a good listener, caring & compassionate, hardworking, talented, and family focused. I am seeking a strong, intelligent, loving and caring partner. That is ready to start a new chapter in life.
Sean
37 • University City, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Appearance: Average
I am looking for a friend that leads to more
First, I am handicap. I wear braises, walk with a limp and use a walking stick. If you are unable to get pass this I understand and wish you the best on your journey. For those of you still here: Hi! I am from the midwest USA. I plan on traveling to the Philippines this year and want to meet a friend here before I head out there. I am looking for a friend but if it leads to a relationship and marriage I am fine with that. I just like to take things a day at a time. I am really into music (some artist listening to now, big sean, central cee, sum 41). I also like movies as well, my favorite movies being howels moving castle, and children of men. My mom passed away in 2023 but I think she raised a good guy and I am hoping to find someone else that is good that I can share memories and spend time with. p.s. I will definitely put up more pictures soon!
Cody
37 • Denton, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 32
Appearance: Average
Looking for a mate. Want a large family.
Big and tall. I want a woman who's loyal has a sense of humor and wants a large family everything else is pretty well negotiable. I don't judge on your past I only judge going forward with me. Please no trans I am not interested. I accept polygamy.

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