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Jordan
Platinum Member
36
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 33
Appearance:
Average
Looking for a soulmate
I like live music, spicy food, and checking out new restaurants or breweries. Always up for trying something different, whether it's a show, a new city, or just something off the usual path. Looking to meet someone who's into good conversation and down to explore.
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Platinum Member
44
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Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 35
Appearance:
Average
Looking for companionship in Thailand
Please put the word 'sofa' in the message if you send me one so that I know that you are real, and have read my profile. I delete all messages that don't mention sofa. 🛋️ 🙃I am optimistic, caring and cheerful. I'm into riding my bicycle, spending time in nature, juggling, and volunteering. My friends find me patient, calm, kind... and sometimes a touch silly. I'm only looking for friendship and companionship in Thailand ( I have 5 year DTV ). I do not intend to have any children.
Joe
Platinum Member
33
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Greenville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 45
Appearance:
Average
I love cats. I love positivity. Jesus always comes first after all hes done for me and everyone else. I dpnt have anything worth scamming so dont waste your time, or do if you just into wasting time. started this profile looking for a possible Vacay
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Standard Member
Verified
43
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Elkhart, Indiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Appearance:
Average
⏩️Read the profile first‼️
My name is Halbert and its not my fault if you are not smart enough to understand this. 💯 But messaging here only works if one of us pays and i dont plan to keep this app funded because you cant read and complete intructions. After examining my PIX, try using the information i provided. Dont say its not there....it is When you decide to text me send me a screen grab of YOUR profile FROM THIS SITE. And tell me what site you are from because this is not the only site i use. Thats how i know what site you found me. Then i can look through your profile and see if we should continue. It is important to me you follow directions so i know you have the competence to be a quality partner. Dont make this difficult. Its right in front of you.
Davis
Standard Member
55
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Manitowoc, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 85
Appearance:
Average
Adventurous spirit seeking genuine connection!
Hey there! I’m an easygoing guy who loves adventure, good conversation, and making the most out of life. Whether it’s trying out new restaurants, hiking, or just enjoying a cozy night in, I’m always up for something fun. I value honesty, laughter, and deep connections. Let’s see where this journey takes us!
Mike
Standard Member
78
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Murrieta, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 59 - 70
Appearance:
Average
Seeking Lifetime friend and partner
Current August 29, 2025..Do you have a USA tourist Visa?? Read my profile and let me know if you would like to be my partner. Are there any members here that live in USA and seriously looking for a partner??? Seriously looking for a partner to live in USA, Southern California. DO YOU LIVE IN THE USA NOW?? Possibly you have a tourist USA Visa! IF YOU HAVE A USA VISA and are seriously wanting a partner and to live in Southern California. please contact me. I think incomplete profiles are either very uninterested person or a lazy person. I am not a premium member so you will need to contact me. Any Premium members on here that aren't scammers living in USA, please contact me? I am serious about wanting a partner to come live in the USA if not here already Any Pilipino, Korean, Chinese, Vietnamese that are already in USA with visa and speak fairly good English? I return messages to Premium members and members that I know have read my profile. . I am looking for a life partner to enjoy life's ups and downs and enjoyments. I hope a wonderful woman see this and contacts me directly. Read well so you know if you are interested. I'm an older white gentleman, very affectionate, hugging, touching type guy. Loyal, respectful and courteous. I love to kiss. I am retired. I enjoy road trips, long weekend trips to a couple weeks long. I enjoy going to movies SOCA and local sporting events. Homebody, cuddle and watch television, movies, series. I volunteer with my fraternal group. I do not smoke nor want a woman that does. I socially drink a little. Ladies, sorry, not a dancer. I have dated and enjoy Hispanic/Latina women along with Asian women. I have dated Korean, Chinese and Pilipino women. I believe age is a number if woman is mature and enjoys being with an older man. Star signs of Cancer, Libra, Taurus and Pisces are especially good. I am not a wealthy man but I have my house and means to basically support us. If you have a retirement fund also we would be fine. In USA, you will need to have health insurance coverage so you know.
Daryl
Standard Member
67
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Saratoga Springs, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 49
Appearance:
Average
Dominate looking for life partner
I am a Dominate man looking for the special girl, woman, lady for a life long relationship. I enjoy life as it comes and try not to stress about things that I can't change and change the things that I can. Live life each day to the best that i can. I live in Bakers Mills, New York not Saratoga Springs,but it is the nearest town listed.
Mason
Standard Member
49
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Springfield, Missouri, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 45
Appearance:
Average
I’m a simple guy looking for a simple woman that knows how to enjoy life, laugh and truly love. I have a beautiful life to share with someone special. I am open to most anything so don’t be shy if you don’t understand something I say, just ask. I’m open and honest and am interested in an open honest woman as trust is the foundation of a beautiful relationship. Age isn’t important on my end the site makes me choose an age.
Will
Standard Member
48
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Aiken, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 32 - 57
Appearance:
Average
Explorer of cities, beaches, and compatibility ♑🐍
Hi, I’m Will 👋 Moving to Vietnam in a few months and excited to make it home long-term. I work in tech and also love teaching, traveling, and learning languages. You’ll usually find me exploring new neighborhoods, relaxing at the beach with a drink,
Lj
Standard Member
Verified
52
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 58
Appearance:
Average
Meet to develop serious relationship
I want to meet only someone who is serious about developing a real relationship. If we both find each other as a fate. I am a well travelled and educated professional. I am a good conversationalist and listener. I am reliable, punctual and responsible I love the outdoors, traveling, music, ethnic foods and new adventures. I'm looking for love, romance, friendship and a long lasting relationship. I am also very interested in learning more about Tokyo/Japan, language and history. I want to find someone who will share these things with me. Please ask any question. I am happy to answer.
Thomas
Standard Member
64
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Lincoln, Nebraska, United States
Seeking:
Female 36 - 56
Appearance:
Average
Divorced and wanting to Remarry
Raised on a farm in Nebraska, I am a service connected disabled Air Force veteran Security Police Specialist. I am honest and loyal. I am a little shy. I am unable to have my own children. I was a foster parent and I have a step daughter that loves m
Pilgrim
Standard Member
76
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Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female
Appearance:
Average
Searching for . . . Passion, Fascination and so mu
Well educated, moderately affluent, not especially handsome, more of a nerd than athletic, enjoys world travel, fine restaurants, very good wines, symphonies, opera, museums, art collecting, reading, hiking, photography, thoroughbred horses, rugby, sailing . . . did I mention fine wines? Passion and Fascination . . . This adventure is meant to be shared with just the right person!
Keith
Standard Member
Verified
56
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Oakland, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 60
Appearance:
Average
Hola mi amor. Busco una relación seria con una mujer apasionada que quiera compartir profunda intimidad y pasión. Me gusta ir en las redes sociales, así como explorar modelos para videos musicales, soy un productor ejecutivo en la industria musical estadounidense. También soy un artista profesional de grabación estadounidense que produjo mi propio álbum personal llamado "SKY LIFE". 😘
Jason
Standard Member
44
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New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 40
Appearance:
Average
Southern Gentleman
Southern gentleman. Extremely passionate and loving. I love taking care of the people I love. Family is very important to me. I love live music, food, dancing. I’m a great cook. Love to travel. Live in the US, travel between Florida and Louisiana often. Originally from New Orleans.
Flynn
Standard Member
57
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Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 55
Appearance:
Average
The deeper you look, the better I look!
I have had experiences on a small farm with lots of animals, and enjoy them very much. Currently I'm living in the city and enjoy it for the convenience of all entertainment available. I look forward to doing some traveling soon, as I retire from ful
douhlas
Standard Member
51
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Jacksonville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 65
Appearance:
Average
looking for someone real
I'm hoping to find a woman who is intelligent, attractive, attentive, an has the patients with a willingness to do things in the right time. Some one who does not to want to rush everything, not demanding money before we have physically met or get to know each other intimately on a emotional level. Some one who demonstrate that she is really affectionate an has a love of God and children. Some one who has a caring heart, with a can do attitude. Some one who is polite and goal oriented with principles an a moral code. Some one who can be buy my side as a friend,partner, lover, and confident. Someone who views life with a will to live, an has that fight which works to make dreams come true. A woman who's actions define her more than her words. A woman who knows what she wants in all senses an has a team work mentally. A mature person, who likes the simple things that enhance life an love. A woman who places more value on honest communication, faith, an matters of the heart than she does material things. A woman that is loyal, sincere,caring an passionate in life an in making love. The last important value I'm looking for in her but certainly not the least is the ability to forgive. There is no long lasting relationship between two people if one person or both don't have the ability to forgive. Forgiveness is priceless an necessary for a long lasting relationship or marriage. We are not perfect. Mistakes will happen in a relationship and in parenthood. We can never become wise if we don't make mistakes. If I find a woman who speaks English with all the qualities I mentioned? [An she is willing to sign a prenuptial!!!!.] I will marry her if she wants me to. I'm in the military an I have traveled all over the world. They say if you look you will never find what you are looking for. So I'm not looking, I'm hopeful that I can find a woman with the character traits I mentioned. If you are here to lie or play games to get money. I understand, in fact I respect your hustle, do whatever you need to do to get your money girl. I'm not judging you. However I would respectfully ask that you please leave me out of the games you play with men on the internet. I'm not here to manipulate,lie or pretend. I'm hopeful that I can someone real. I want you to know that I understand the dynamic associated with different cultures. I also understand the problems that may arise concerning immigration,Visa an travel to the United States . Please understand that if I believe that you are the woman that has the qualities I mention. I will do everything in my power to bring you here so we can be together. If that is in fact what you want. In relationships first we try then we trust. The foundation need to create this will take some time. We can only go as fast or slow as we can handle. Long distance relationships are difficult but not impossible. There are countless people all over the world who have happiness with someone, An they both started out like this. Can you send me more pictures,? What do you think? Listen creating a relationship is an investment. It involves our feelings which is a personal an very valuable thing to you and me. First we try with good faith. then we trust each other. I won't fall in love with any women I have never physically met in person. Especially when I haven't even had a video chat or a voice phone call. Chemistry has to be verified because without that you have nothing.l an that can only be done in person. Let's be honest, there are people an company's out there who make a living on random Words an fake pictures. I'm not going to invest money in heart felt words an pictures alone. I need to meet you. We need to live together. An see if we can develop a relationship. Money come to play in a relationship after the feelings an thoughts are confirmed and not before. I'm serious about what I want. Because it's not just me alone. I have a daughter I have custody of. So if you want a man that you have no intentions of actually meeting in person from the United States to be your bills. I'm not that man. If you want to change your location an your life with something that is real an you like children? Then I'm your Man.
Daniel
Standard Member
41
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Pasadena, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 46
Appearance:
Average
Adventurous archaeologist seeking real connection
Substitute teacher by day, PhD applicant by night (and sometimes day too—life gets busy). I’m an archaeologist focused on ancient history and human-environment relationships. I dig into the past to better understand the present. Full-time work, full-time study, but I always make time for the things (and people) that matter. Into all things nerdy: D&D, video games, anime, museums, photography, and hiking to places most people don’t even know exist. ENTP energy—curious, spontaneous, and always ready with a wild fact, impulsive idea, or unexpected road trip. Looking for someone who enjoys deep conversations, cozy nights, spontaneous detours, and maybe a museum date—or just someone who wants to eat cake and talk about time travel. I cook like I’m prepping for a medieval tavern and bake like your favorite grandma. Let’s share an adventure—bonus if it includes snacks, stories, and hidden places waiting to be found. I value kindness, curiosity, and cultural openness—connection grows stronger when we embrace each other's roots. Let’s share ruins, romance, laughter, and maybe a little magic too. I’ve got the compass, you bring the treasure map. 🧭🗺️
Isaac
Standard Member
41
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Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
Appearance:
Average
Hello
Vivo en Texas, Estados Unidos. Originalmente de Puerto Rico. En este momento en mi vida me paso trabajando casi todo el tiempo. Solo viendo que hay allá fuera dado que aquí la cultura de noviazgo y matrimonio está muy mal y tóxica. Espero algún día pronto encontrar esa persona especial para construir una familia.
Ronald
Standard Member
Verified
59
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Marion, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 20
Appearance:
Average
Without family you have nothing
I'm just an average man looking for something different than what I have been through. Im talkative, caring, loving, outgoing, hardworking, giving, generous, romantic but most of all I'm loyal and faithful. I will always treat who I'm with like a lady should be treated. I'm not argumentative, rude, abusive and I will always treat my lady with love and respect. I do not lie, cheat and I will never make anything up about my self. As I said im just an average man who has a big loving heart. If who I meet has children I will love and treat them as my own children. I own my own house and have a good job.i have 2 daughters who are my world. They are both doing wonderful and the actually live in different states. My oldest lives in California and my youngest lives in Alabama. I'm here hoping and praying to find my soulmate. I promise I will never act inappropriately and will never ask for nude pictures. That is so rude and the men who ask for nude photos should be kicked off here. Respect is the most important thing. So please give me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I'm emotionally and very financially stable. I make a very good living doing what I love. Hoping to find a special lady to enjoy life with. If you contact me one thing is for sure.....you better live to travel and see and visit beautiful and exciting places.
Paul
Standard Member
63
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 60
Appearance:
Average
Honest and Extremely Faithful Man
I am not a rich man. I care little for material wealth, although I like to be comfortable and be able to enjoy life to its fullest. But I have a great job with a very good salary. Besides a wise man once said the greatest treasure a man can ever attain on earth is the love of a good woman. What I am most interested in is a true love. I am rich with love. But my heart only has room for one special woman because when I give, I give all of me.
DJ
Standard Member
56
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Midland, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Appearance:
Average
Looking for partner in crime.
If you're looking for money move on ! Fifty six years old live in a beautiful house on the river in freeland michigan. A good day for me would be sitting in the backyard at a bonfire, watching the wildlife or fishing on the river. I have 4 children two are adults and live on their own. The other two I have every other week.They're young adults eighteen and seventeen. I have no drama in my life, and i'm not looking for any. Seriously thinking about bringing somebody over from another country.
Eric
Standard Member
48
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Hamilton, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 21
Appearance:
Average
Hi
I'm honest and sometimes too honest because some people get hurt when you tell them the truth. I feel if you can't be honest because you worry about hurting feelings with the truth then you are not helping by telling people what they want to hear. And I want to help people I love.
Robert
Standard Member
40
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Redmond, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 42
Appearance:
Average
robbie666
I;m and ex= (Special Forces.GreeenBeret/T\Ranger came back to US when into Law Enforcement and spent my career with the CA State Patrol. CHP and flew the CHP Helicopter the last 5 years before retiring early with a tax free injury the rest of my life
Jeff
Standard Member
69
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Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 56 - 69
Appearance:
Average
Ready for success
I am Jewish GRITS (Gentle/man Raised in the South). Low key and maintenance. Comedy is a big part of my persona. Likes travel, dancing (two left feet and klutzy), movies, casinos, music (Oldies, Motown, Classic Rock, and yes, Disco). I am not a foodie, but like good and basic food, esp seafood, meat,...I am allergic to rabbits and cats. I would rather meet as soon as possible as I don't like too much texting. I may not cook too much but I can clean dishes.
Luke
Standard Member
46
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Hutchinson, Kansas, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 35
Appearance:
Average
Single and looking for my best friend
Hello, My name is Luke, First thing, I am not good at talking about myself myself, so I will be blunt I am 43, and I am disabled (I am half blind, suffer from anxiety, PTSD and tremors) I can no longer work. I have been retired/disabled f
B
Standard Member
51
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Bay, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 32 - 47
Appearance:
Average
Looking for the right one.
I am single male looking for that right person. I'm very easy to talk to & a good listener, caring & compassionate, hardworking, talented, and family focused. I am seeking a strong, intelligent, loving and caring partner. That is ready to start a new chapter in life.
Sean
Standard Member
37
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University City, Missouri, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 39
Appearance:
Average
I am looking for a friend that leads to more
First, I am handicap. I wear braises, walk with a limp and use a walking stick. If you are unable to get pass this I understand and wish you the best on your journey. For those of you still here: Hi! I am from the midwest USA. I plan on traveling to the Philippines this year and want to meet a friend here before I head out there. I am looking for a friend but if it leads to a relationship and marriage I am fine with that. I just like to take things a day at a time. I am really into music (some artist listening to now, big sean, central cee, sum 41). I also like movies as well, my favorite movies being howels moving castle, and children of men. My mom passed away in 2023 but I think she raised a good guy and I am hoping to find someone else that is good that I can share memories and spend time with. p.s. I will definitely put up more pictures soon!
Cody
Standard Member
36
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Denton, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 32
Appearance:
Average
Looking for a mate. Want a large family.
Big and tall. I want a woman who's loyal has a sense of humor and wants a large family everything else is pretty well negotiable. I don't judge on your past I only judge going forward with me. Please no trans I am not interested. I accept polygamy.
Jon
Standard Member
Verified
53
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Joliet, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 38 - 51
Appearance:
Average
Make me laugh, and you have my heart
I've lived many lives, I'm looking for someone who will laugh easily and not be afraid to be themselves. I have had adventures and also have been steady and true. I find myself alone and ready for my next adventure. Living this life, I have realize
Michael
Standard Member
Verified
61
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Wilmington, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 50
Appearance:
Average
Chevere, Pues y es una placer a Conocer Ud.....
update, I why? porque? all of a sudden Im getting all these likes, and messages , from around 40 year old, any of them with one foto or not much in your profile dont waste your time buzz off,................................... ONE FOTO, BUZZ OFF
kraig
Standard Member
49
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Logan, Utah, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Appearance:
Average
Not rushing, not Pretending, just Sincere
I am waiting for my profile be validated, then will active my account here. Start to have serious discussions here, have same validated profile also PLEASE no time for scams or fake profiles. I’m someone who values growth, connection, and deep conversation. I’ve been through enough to know the difference between a spark and something that lasts and I’m looking for the latter. I believe in showing up fully, owning my story, and growing together through both the highs and the hard days. I’m not perfect and not expecting you to be either. What I do promise is honesty, loyalty, and a desire to build something meaningful with someone who sees relationships as a partnership rooted in trust, grace, and real effort.
Clarence
Standard Member
57
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 50
Appearance:
Average
Better with Time
I have been blessed to have had a very adventurous life so far. And Looking forward to the next chapter. Very active at church. I take God at his word and do my best to be as respectful as I can be. With me you will find no games here but loyalty, dedication, hard working, sincerety, generousity and patiently waiting for you.
Julian
Standard Member
29
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 35
Appearance:
Average
hello, im looking for a wife!please be a real girl
hello, my name is Julian im a very hardworking loveable person who is looking for a wife to grow old with i want to have a family because it is very important to me. im very nice and gentle, i look mean but im the opposite. so let's match and try t
Ray
Standard Member
54
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Arlington, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 40
Appearance:
Average
Tall nice guy looking for a girl with good heart
Hi, just from the start, I don't send money to anyone I never met in person. So scammers and fake profiles or girls that think ill send money, IT WONT HAPPEN! So don't waste your time with me! 😁 . Was in Army 22 years, retired in 2008 and worked Network Systems Analyst job till 2013 in Korea. Then came back USA and I've worked off and on but now working full time in logistics company. I exercise running 3 times a week. I'm 6ft 4 tall but honestly could lose a little weight 😅 Im divorced once from Korean girl, we were happy but she couldn't stop drinking every night. She became alcoholic. We tried to work it out many times but she couldn't change. We were only married 3 years and divorced in 2016. hope to find serious relationship and if I start serious relationship with my new gf, I will take care of her but I won't support the whole family or buy many material things. Im a simple man. I also don't send money to any girl that I never met in person. I just want to be honest with you. 🙂 I've been to Phillipines one time in 2024 for one month but didn't meet anyone, really. Never had Filipina gf or a date. Ill go to Phillipines in early 2026, I'll stay 3 months and move there for awhile if I find my future gf/wife.
Rob READ PROFILE!!
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Atlantic City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 73
Appearance:
Average
Name is Rob. looking for Lifetime partner 30 -75
First of all I am not a paying customer so if you are not a paying customer then I cannot read your messages . Trying the site for now. I am widowed and retired. like to keep busy I'm not a couch potato I don't like sitting around all the time. I am a naturist and I live a naturist/nudist lifestyle. if you're not sure what that is please do some research because it's nothing bad it's not a cult is just a preference in life living very natural along with eating Natural Foods I was in fraud prevention and surveillance for previous employment
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