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Charles
62 • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 55
Appearance: Average
Nice Southern Gentleman
My friends would describe me as an adventurous traveler and a foodie who is very capable and knowledgeable about many things, yet im honest enough to admit if i dont know something. Im a trustworthy person and do what i say and say what i do. Im prompt and organized as well. Im also humble yet assertive when need be. Im looking for a nice lady who has her own life and freedom to travel. Preferably retired. 😘 I will be starting my travels soon. I may get the O visa.
Dale
52 • Grand Rapids, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 53
Appearance: Average
Everybody’s looking for something !!!
Yes, I just cut off my beard… you like? A woman can leave a wealthy man & she can leave a handsome man, but she won't leave a man who has won her heart. A man who has made her feel safe & secure, who has shown her that he can't live without her. A m
Steve
66 • Bountiful, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 52 - 68
Appearance: Average
Seeking friendship, love, adventure
I love outdoor activities, especially hiking. I also enjoy reading and learning, watching movies, going on outings, traveling. There's so much to see and do in this short life! Staying curious, active, and loving make for a healthier and more satisfying life, especially if done with a loving partner. I can't wait to meet someone who wants to share life's ups and downs and everything in between together: memorable adventures, challenging days, romance, making and sharing meals together, and so on. I look forward to returning to Korea where I worked and lived for 13 years over the course of the last 33 years.
Thomas
54 • Alabaster, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 40
Appearance: Average
Kind Gen X dad seeking like minded Asian partner
I am a white American Gen X dad who is serious about values and playful about life. I grew up in the Goonies generation, so loyalty, responsibility and looking out for my people are very important to me. I love video games, good stories, anime, sci fi and comedy, and I do not mind being called young at heart 🎮. At the same time I work hard, stay steady in tough times and like taking care of the people close to me. I am very interested in Asian culture and history and would love to learn more through real conversation, daily life and travel with the right person.
shea
44 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Appearance: Average
¿Está en las estrellas?
Soy alto y me mantengo en forma. Me encantan las puertas, los viajes, las playas, la escalada en roca, la tirolesa, las motocicletas, los deportes y el gimnasio. Necesito a alguien que me siga. Necesito una mujer independiente con un alma vieja, cerebro y belleza con un cuerpo sexy, un corazón grande y un alma hermosa. Una mujer, un amante, un amigo, una futura esposa y una madre. Una mujer que puede hacerlo todo y hacerlo bien.
Plookme Geem Ale
56 • Troy, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 60
Appearance: Average
Can't see likes and views. Please send message
I ask that you please read my profile carefully to best understand what kind of man I am and what kind of woman I am looking for. I realize the importance of love, but I believe that there needs to be some commonality and complimentary character traits and lifestyles to be compatible and live with someone on an everyday basis for the rest of our lives I like to think about the bigger picture over everyday triviality. I am introverted and quiet, especially in big groups. I am not very social. I rarely drink and don’t go to bars and clubs. I would not be compatible with someone wo likes to go out frequently or someone who considers herself elegant and classy. I am different than the average American man and think very differently. I am not rich and never will be. I am not ambitious. I wish to live a simple life in a small, modest house and spend my time with my lover I have a broad sense of humor. I’m very easy going, open and completely honest. I do not use words to hide behind or protect myself. My primary philosophy in life is live and let live. I have an objective perspective on life and the human race I enjoy day trips and love to travel when I can. I will go out occasionally, but enjoy staying at home and playing cards and watching movies. Generally, I prefer quiet nights at home conversing with my lover and enjoy love making and cuddling (yes, I confess!). I am an Atheist, and living proof that you don't need to live in fear of an abstract concept to have morals and be a good and honest person. Most so-called christians here in America do not live in accordance with the religion they tout as proof of their high morality. I'm certain most of you have communicated with christian men on this website who turned out to be dishonest, haven't you?
Vinnie
60 • Montpelier, Vermont, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 60
Appearance: Average
Caring and attentive man looking for a partner.
Honest and caring. Always looking for the bright side of things. Patient and gentle with all things. No time for drama or games, life's to short. Looking for a serious relationship with someone who will walk beside me as an equal partner. Someone to talk to, hold, laugh with, and most importantly share the moments that make life so beautiful. 
Mark
50 • Alexandria, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32
Appearance: Average
Gremillion
I'm stupid and ugly. I'm not rich. I love to laugh. I like sex but I'm not a pervert. I'm trying to live a healthy lifestyle. I love animals, good food, great music, and wonderful company. I want to get married and start a family. I want to reside so
Solomon
42 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 32
Appearance: Average
Mr Q
Well, I am a pretty easy-going guy that enjoys good food, music, and company. I have been single for a good while now, no kids, never been married, and Really cool to be around according to my friends. Currently, I’m interested in making a real connection with someone chemistry-wise as long as it’s organic and see where things go from there.
frank
57 • Yuma, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Appearance: Average
Retired gentleman, looking for companion.
I am currently in Thailand, using eSIM up and Google chat are both working I imagine Facebook works so does regular texting to other iPhones. New apps and other texts are not working because my home carrier is turned off. More about me… I.have a home
Maury
63 • Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 49 - 75
Appearance: Average
Let's give our heart a chance to love
I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered. I love to go for long walks during a beautiful summer sunset with my dog Max along the wonderful walking trails by my home, going for walks during a gentle snowfall in the winter and walks during a crisp and sunny autumn day. I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together
Matt
61 • Cleveland, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 60
Appearance: Average
Here to find romance forever
I'm just a nice normal guy. I have twin 23 yr olds, one boy, one girl. My wife passed away when the twins were only in 1st grade. I have been raising them alone since. They are now finished with college. I don't know about this site, lot of fake profiles or scammers, if this is you please stay away. I am serious here. Hopefully we can decide together the direction we take. Well lets save the rest for when we talk.
Eduardo
39 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 58
Appearance: Average
Conversaciones apasionantes de alto nivel
Trabajo en el campo legal y de los bienes raices. Me interesa conocer personas que puedan ayudarme a crecer y yo a ellas. Me encanta el mundo de los negocios, la cocina, conocer nuevas culturas y su gente ademas me encanta compartir conocimiento y ayudar a las personas a alcanzar sus metas. Si me quieres vender fotos o videos por favor no me contactes.
Jim
44 • Marysville, Washington, United States
Seeking: Male 22 - 48
Appearance: Average
Hello out there, welcome to the best profile ever!
Or maybe not the best profile but I'll give it a try anyways. Let's see, about myself, oof these are always hard. Sometimes silly, sometimes quiet, hoping to find that right person wherever they're hiding - that one to form a forever loving caring relationship with. They must be out there somewhere right, is there a secret phrase they're waiting for, it must be something. I do take some time to open up, so fair warning! Back to random chattering here, things I like...hmm, movies, sitting outside in the sun reading a book, weekends, probably lots of other things too!
Coy
26 • Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 99
Appearance: Average
Here to chat and see where things go
Not really sure what I’m looking for, here to talk and see where things go if it’s friendship or becomes more than that then I'm okay with it too. I do travel a lot for work but I only work Monday-Thursday and I’m always home Thursday. I do get free hotels and flights for personal use too.
Paul
33 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Appearance: Average
Te estoy buscando
Hola señoras, soy un chico sencillo que disfruta de la vida todos los días y siempre estoy buscando nuevas aventuras. Soy una persona activa, mis pasatiempos incluyen hacer ejercicio, bucear y leer. Soy un hispanohablante intermedio pero estudio todas los días. ?Me puede ayudar con esto?
Daniel
50 • Naperville, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 34
Appearance: Average
Single American male
Soy una persona humilde, con grandes valores como ser humano. Tengo defectos y virtudes como todos los demás. Me gusta leer, escuchar música, ir a la playa y disfrutar de noches tranquilas y relajantes. Me gusta viajar, conocer gente nueva y conocer
Charles
60 • Ocoee, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Appearance: Average
Not interested in marriage without Live
I’m a retired software engineer. I enjoy art, philosophy, spiritual pursuits, music and laughter. The last Photo is not my hair lol I prefer childless or grown children not living at home. I want someone who thinks differently. Marriage is not a priority for me but honesty and monogamy are. I’m looking for connection. It’s not easy to find but I am going to keep looking. I prefer a girl who lives somewhere in Asia. I do not mean to be rude but if you aren’t currently living in Mainland China, I will block you. It’s not personal but that’s how I avoid scammers. There are so many scammers here As a man who grew up in a Western culture, marriage isn’t my first priority. Love is my first priority. Love to me includes trust and loyalty. It includes alignment in values as well as interests. If I love someone, truly, I won’t deny my love anything and that includes marriage. I consider China to be one of the finest cultures in the world. The West could learn much from Chinese society. I am on China Cupid to find a Chinese woman not by accident but by choice. If there is a woman in this world that I can love and who will love me, she lives in China. I want her to be my equal without compromising our roles in a relationship. I believe that men should be the protector and the woman must be the comforter. Men should be wise but women have a wisdom too. I want a woman who can round out what I lack and I want to do the same. After all, that is the point of a relationship. We strengthen each other by providing to each other what we lack. I don’t get jealous and I am not controlling. I do not play games either. Finally, I want to be with a woman who wants to live our remaining days thinking about the meaning of things and talking about anything and everything. I like to go to places I have never been and see things I’ve only read about. I am moving to Asia soon. I haven’t decided exactly where yet. My plan is to visit Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines first. I’m not rich 😊 I don’t speak Chinese but of course I will learn as best i can. I’ve spent 6 years single and taking time to heal and learn about myself. i’m not perfect but I am serious and hoping to find someone to spend my life with
Keni
67 • Chandler, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 43 - 60
Appearance: Average
Primal carnal fires raging, exploring deeper ,
Adventurer, intriguing , Always looking for fully ripen fruit . I can laugh at most of my none relationship mistakes knowing i have the giftings to correct them. Tennis is a most enjoyable and rewarding sport. Loyalty, trust and open communication are essential in pleasure filled, euphoric relationships, always in bloom. Love deepens with those three blossoming. Endless romantic with a appreciative and grateful woman. Health is very important because with it we better inbibe life's dynamic energies that inflame our emotions. Not into endless chatting, authentic, enrapturing intimacy blazes hotter through more personal channels .My body has a near insatiable thirst for the feminine energy emanating from my woman's happy heart, Love is not love until it is given away!' im 66 yrs old
jorghe
56 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 49
Appearance: Average
Looking for someone with the same north.
I am a nice guy, cool person, sharp too, though sort of intriguing never boring, I am a good heart serious but love to laugh. I love dark places, martinis, passionate kissing, art, great movies, good cologne interesting conversation and goin places. hate cruelty, sarcasm and rude behavior.
Alex
51 • Athens, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 36
Appearance: Average
Life has given me plenty of experiences,
Authentic man looking for peace. Life has given me plenty of experiences, and I’m grateful for all of them. I love staying active — biking, hiking, and scuba diving when I can get near the ocean. Wecht -aalixs. When I’m home, I’m just as passionate about creating — from tending my aquariums to building miniature rainforest waterfalls. Recently, I’ve been exploring the North Georgia mountains and finding new trails to enjoy.
Andreray
52 • Rochester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 75
Appearance: Average
⚓ “Seasoned traveler of the seas, looking for my c
Life has taken me across oceans and to ports all around the world, but what I’m really searching for is someone special to come home to. At 52, I’ve learned that laughter, kindness, and good company are the real treasures. I’m a marine engineer by profession, but outside of work, I’m just a down-to-earth guy who loves a good glass of wine, sunsets by the water, and getting lost in a great conversation. I believe in romance, little surprises, and keeping things lighthearted — because love should feel like both an adventure and a safe harbor. Hobbies & Passions: 🌍 Traveling & spontaneous weekend getaways 🍳 Cooking (I make a mean seafood dish — perks of the job!) 🎶 Dancing like no one’s watching 🚴 Staying active — cycling, swimming, exploring nature 💫 Stargazing & dreaming about what’s next
Its in front of your face🤦‍♂️
43 • Elkhart, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Appearance: Average
⏩️Read the profile first‼️
My name is Halbert and its not my fault if you are not smart enough to understand this. 💯 But messaging here only works if one of us pays and i dont plan to keep this app funded because you cant read and complete intructions. After examining my PIX, try using the information i provided. Dont say its not there....it is When you decide to text me send me a screen grab of YOUR profile FROM THIS SITE. And tell me what site you are from because this is not the only site i use. Thats how i know what site you found me. Then i can look through your profile and see if we should continue. It is important to me you follow directions so i know you have the competence to be a quality partner. Dont make this difficult. Its right in front of you.
Jordan
36 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 33
Appearance: Average
Looking for a soulmate
I like live music, spicy food, and checking out new restaurants or breweries. Always up for trying something different, whether it's a show, a new city, or just something off the usual path. Looking to meet someone who's into good conversation and down to explore.
Mike
78 • Murrieta, California, United States
Seeking: Female 59 - 70
Appearance: Average
Seeking Lifetime friend and partner
Current November 7, 2025..Do you have a USA tourist Visa?? Read my profile and let me know if you would like to be my partner. Are there any members here that live in USA and seriously looking for a partner??? Seriously looking for a partner to liv
Daryl
68 • Saratoga Springs, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49
Appearance: Average
Dominate looking for life partner
I am a Dominate man looking for the special girl, woman, lady for a life long relationship. I enjoy life as it comes and try not to stress about things that I can't change and change the things that I can. Live life each day to the best that i can. I live in Bakers Mills, New York not Saratoga Springs,but it is the nearest town listed.
Mason
49 • Springfield, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 45
Appearance: Average
I’m a simple guy looking for a simple woman that knows how to enjoy life, laugh and truly love. I have a beautiful life to share with someone special. I am open to most anything so don’t be shy if you don’t understand something I say, just ask. I’m open and honest and am interested in an open honest woman as trust is the foundation of a beautiful relationship. Age isn’t important on my end the site makes me choose an age.
Will
48 • Aiken, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 57
Appearance: Average
Explorer of cities, beaches, and compatibility ♑🐍
Hi, I’m Will 👋 Moving to Vietnam in a few months and excited to make it home long-term. I work in tech and also love teaching, traveling, and learning languages. You’ll usually find me exploring new neighborhoods, relaxing at the beach with a drink,
Lj
52 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 58
Appearance: Average
Meet to develop serious relationship
I want to meet only someone who is serious about developing a real relationship. If we both find each other as a fate. I am a well travelled and educated professional. I am a good conversationalist and listener. I am reliable, punctual and responsible I love the outdoors, traveling, music, ethnic foods and new adventures. I'm looking for love, romance, friendship and a long lasting relationship. I am also very interested in learning more about Thailand, language and history. I want to find someone who will share these things with me. Please ask any question. I am happy to answer.
Thomas
64 • Lincoln, Nebraska, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 56
Appearance: Average
Divorced and wanting to Remarry
Raised on a farm in Nebraska, I am a service connected disabled Air Force veteran Security Police Specialist. I am honest and loyal. I am a little shy. I am unable to have my own children. I was a foster parent and I have a step daughter that loves m
Pilgrim
76 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
Searching for . . . Passion, Fascination and so mu
Well educated, moderately affluent, not especially handsome, more of a nerd than athletic, enjoys world travel, fine restaurants, very good wines, symphonies, opera, museums, art collecting, reading, hiking, photography, thoroughbred horses, rugby, sailing . . . did I mention fine wines? Passion and Fascination . . . This adventure is meant to be shared with just the right person! 
Jason
44 • New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 40
Appearance: Average
Southern Gentleman
Southern gentleman. Extremely passionate and loving. I love taking care of the people I love. Family is very important to me. I love live music, food, dancing. I’m a great cook. Love to travel. Live in the US, travel between Florida and Louisiana often. Originally from New Orleans.
Flynn
57 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Appearance: Average
The deeper you look, the better I look!
I have had experiences on a small farm with lots of animals, and enjoy them very much. Currently I'm living in the city and enjoy it for the convenience of all entertainment available. I look forward to doing some traveling soon, as I retire from ful
douhlas
51 • Jacksonville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 65
Appearance: Average
looking for someone real
I'm hoping to find a woman who is intelligent, attractive, attentive, an has the patients with a willingness to do things in the right time. Some one who does not to want to rush everything, not demanding money before we have physically met or get to know each other intimately on a emotional level. Some one who demonstrate that she is really affectionate an has a love of God and children. Some one who has a caring heart, with a can do attitude. Some one who is polite and goal oriented with  principles an a moral code. Some one who can be buy my side as a friend,partner, lover, and confident.  Someone who views life with a will to live, an has that fight which works to make dreams come true. A woman who's actions define her more than her words. A woman who knows what she wants in all senses an has a team work mentally.  A mature person, who likes the simple things that enhance life an love. A woman who places more value on honest communication, faith, an matters of the heart than she does material things. A woman that is loyal, sincere,caring an passionate in life an in making love. The last important value I'm looking for in her but certainly not the least is the ability to forgive. There is no long lasting relationship between two people if one person or both don't have the ability to forgive. Forgiveness is priceless an necessary for a long lasting relationship or marriage. We are not perfect. Mistakes will happen in a relationship and in parenthood. We can never become wise if we don't make mistakes. If I find a woman who speaks English with all the qualities I mentioned? [An she is willing to sign a prenuptial!!!!.] I will marry her if she wants me to. I'm in the military an I have traveled all over the world. They say if you look you will never find what you are looking for. So I'm not looking, I'm hopeful that I can find a woman with the character traits I mentioned. If you are here to lie or play games to get money. I understand, in fact I respect your hustle, do whatever you need to do to get your money girl.  I'm not judging you. However I would respectfully ask that  you please leave me out of the games you play with men on the internet. I'm not here to manipulate,lie or pretend. I'm hopeful that I can someone real. I want you to know that I understand the dynamic associated with different cultures. I also understand the problems that may arise concerning immigration,Visa an travel to the United States . Please understand that if I believe that you are the woman that has the qualities I mention. I will do everything in my power to bring you here so we can be together.  If that is in fact what you want. In relationships first we try then we trust. The foundation need to create this will take some time. We can only go as fast or slow as we can handle. Long distance relationships are difficult but not impossible. There are countless people all over the world who have happiness with someone, An they both started out like this. Can you send me more pictures,? What do you think? Listen creating a relationship is an investment. It involves our feelings which is a personal an very valuable thing to you and me. First we try with good faith. then we trust each other. I won't fall in love with any women I have never physically met in person. Especially when I haven't even had a video chat or a voice phone call.  Chemistry has to be verified because without that you have nothing.l an that can only be done in person. Let's be honest, there are people an company's out there who make a living on random Words an fake pictures. I'm not going to invest money in heart felt words an pictures alone. I need to meet you. We need to live together. An see if we can develop a relationship. Money come to play in a relationship after the feelings an thoughts are confirmed and not before. I'm serious about what I want. Because it's not just me alone. I have a daughter  I have custody of. So if you want a man that you have no intentions of actually meeting in person from the United States to be your bills. I'm not that man. If you want to change your location an your life with something that is real an you like children? Then I'm your Man.   
Daniel
41 • Pasadena, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 46
Appearance: Average
Adventurous archaeologist seeking real connection
Substitute teacher by day, PhD applicant by night (and sometimes day too—life gets busy). I’m an archaeologist focused on ancient history and human-environment relationships. I dig into the past to better understand the present. Full-time work, full-time study, but I always make time for the things (and people) that matter. Into all things nerdy: D&D, video games, anime, museums, photography, and hiking to places most people don’t even know exist. ENTP energy—curious, spontaneous, and always ready with a wild fact, impulsive idea, or unexpected road trip. Looking for someone who enjoys deep conversations, cozy nights, spontaneous detours, and maybe a museum date—or just someone who wants to eat cake and talk about time travel. I cook like I’m prepping for a medieval tavern and bake like your favorite grandma. Let’s share an adventure—bonus if it includes snacks, stories, and hidden places waiting to be found. I value kindness, curiosity, and cultural openness—connection grows stronger when we embrace each other's roots. Let’s share ruins, romance, laughter, and maybe a little magic too. I’ve got the compass, you bring the treasure map. 🧭🗺️

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