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DANIEL
60 • Islip, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 50
Body style: Average
I’m 67 going on 50 — Funny, intellect and patient
I’m 67 going on 50 — healthy, disciplined, and flexible enough that people usually ask if I’m aging backward. I spent decades building businesses and solving complex problems, and now I put that same energy into entrepreneurship, music, and cooking. Creativity doesn’t retire; it just finds new toys. I value elegance, love, respect, calmness, humor, and genuine connection. I’m looking for a kind, thoughtful, emotionally,and intelligent woman who enjoys real conversation — the kind that actually reveals who we are. I believe in second chances and starting fresh to rebuild something meaningful together. If you’d like a man who can think like an engineer, cook like a chef, write music like a poet, and still make you laugh — say hello. Worst case, we share a great conversation. Best case, something real begins
Carl
62 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 50
Body style: Average
To finally find you, is my dream.
Hello, if your focus is really only on getting me to invest in a financial strategy, please don't wast our time. I am looking for a great friendship that could lead to a deep and loving connection and who knows what else? Someone who is authentic, comfortable in their own skin and can carry on an intelligent conversation. Being confident, laid back, emotionally available and having a good sense of humor are attractive qualities to me. I am self-sufficient and have a full, rich life. I have a natural curiosity and I’m always interested in learning and fulfilling the highest expectation of myself. My hobbies and interests tend to be the outdoors and the arts. I love gardening and home improvement projects. I love music and will slow dance anywhere. I like to travel. I believe in being of service to others. I value my family and friends and I have good instincts, so I tend to have my friends for many years. I am independent, active and have a youthful appearance and attitude. I am a people person and like to be around positive people. I am very spiritual, not religious. I have good taste and appreciate nice things, but don’t have to have them. I love animals and have a deep appreciation of and connection with my instincts, humility, and kindness.
Steven
62 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 46 - 85
Body style: Average
Serious About Love, Intentional About Life
I’m someone who values honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor. I love exploring new places, whether it’s traveling abroad or finding a hidden gem in the city. Family and friendships mean a lot to me, and I believe in making the people around me feel appreciated. I’m currently stationed overseas, which has given me a unique perspective on life and made me appreciate the little joys even more. In my free time, I enjoy reading, cooking, listening to music, and occasionally challenging myself with new hobbies.
Thomas Nuru
63 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 99
Body style: Average
I'm just a simple man looking for love again
I'm honest, sincere, loving, loyal, and a true romantic. I believe in treating people as i would like to be treated. With kindness and respect. I think men and women are equal and should treat each other with mutual respect and understanding. i am a christian and i am gently i am very trust worthy and honest i can go to any length in love.AM A perfect gently man and i need a woman to be in my life to be cared love and taken care of for the rest of my life am ready to go to any length with her so far she is nice, shape or beauty does not matter just her character alone and her
Mike
33 • Providence, Rhode Island, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 99
Body style: Average
Looking for that right woman, distance no p
I am mature and positive man who wants to be happy. I think that at my age I still can be happy. I am ordinary man with broken heart - but now I hope I will find the right woman who will help me to fix it. I always try to stay positive and see in peo
Cole
53 • West Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 65
Body style: Average
Building a Life w/Purpose, not Just Passing Time
/////// BE SERIOUS////////// No Time For GAMES/////////// IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO VIDEO CHAT —-KEEP IT MOVING! I’m someone who believes in growth, loyalty, and purpose. I’ve worn many hats in life—veteran, counselor, volunteer, student—and through it all, I’ve stayed committed to becoming a better man. These days, I’m focused on building a peaceful, meaningful life, filled with honesty, good conversation, and shared laughter. I enjoy giving back to the community, learning new things, and keeping both my mind and body active. If you’re someone who values connection, faith, and building a future together, I’d love to hear from you.
steve
62 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 39
Body style: Average
Prince looking for Princess
I'm from Northern California, Europe, and Israeli, I look very young. I think I am quiet, easy-going, and friendly with others. I am a very romantic and need to find the same in my future partner. I am very active and friendly, I am sure I can make anyone laugh and have a good time. I am caring, gentle, and warm in a relationship. I believe in honesty. I like having deep conversations about all things. I am honest, responsible, and sincere. I am an artist who makes Whiskey. It is enormously fun to travel and sell it in small venues. The coolest places I have visited are England, Switzerland, China, Japan, Israel, Italy, Morocco. I have done archaeology in most of these place. And at the top of some very tall mountains, were the sound stops, and mountains go on forever.
Coolie
55 • Macon, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Body style: Average
Come spend rest of your life with me.
I am pretty hard working and easygoing person; I love to laugh and enjoy others who do as well. I like to think of myself as a thoughtful, genuine, and funny person. I like to learn about new things and expose myself to all types of activities and interests. I love being outside.
Franklin
57 • Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 40
Body style: Average
The most import thing in life is real Love.
I am a business man, who lives in the US and also in Ghana. I am a single, educated, and family oriented man. I was born in Jamaica and Im a US citizen. I am romantic, love the beach and I believe in God. If you are a good woman who want to start h
Ray
51 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 56
Body style: Average
IF YOU CANT VIDEO CHAT DONT BOTHER. DONT ASK 4 $.
FIRST READ MY PROFILE DONT ASK Me FOR MONEY SECOND IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT POLYGAMY . WALK. I WAS RAISED IN A POLYGAMY FAMILY. IM NOT WITH THE BS..OR GAMES. I've been on this site long enough. The next woman who ask for my whatsapp. And ask 4 money U
Ron
43 • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 27
Body style: Average
Family + positivity
(No Chapiadoras!) Hello - I work in finance and have a successful career. I have no children and I would like to start a family. I am somewhat traditional when it comes to family dynamics. I am very respectful and I love to laugh and joke. I am also
Alex
38 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Body style: Average
The man you looking for
Hello, how are you. I’m Alex. I’m 34 years old living in the United States of America. I have big house and make a lot of money. You want me to come meet you? Please have WhatApp, that is what I use to talk when I ask for your number. Add your number three numbers at a time. And wait till I read the message until you send the next three numbers.
Strongkaracter
58 • Marietta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 59
Body style: Average
Man of Character
I am a man of character, culture, romance, honor and integrity. I am fun kind and very intelligent but also have love. I have done many things in life. I've been an actor, musician, producer, writer, singer, cook, electrician, real estate agent, a school teacher and businessman, among other things. I love to travel and enjoy life to the fullest. I also like the fine arts such as opera, symphony orchestra and theater. I really like romantic walks on the beach or in the park. My heart is full of love, respect, romance, care and honor for someone special. I was raised to protect and nurture a woman's heart. I believe that the heart is the most precious gift that God has given to humanity to give to another. I am also very family oriented. I have a heart for God and the principles of him. I am not a man who places great value on his appearance, but on the contents within his heart. I have many of
Victor
55 • Miami Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 42
Body style: Average
Mature man looking for life partner
I am a single man ( divorced ) gentleman living and working in the USA I have my own business in IT security. I own my own home with lots of space for family I can support my wife and she would not have to work only to make our home a comfortable and loving place
Joey
46 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 32
Body style: Average
Remember this dating site !!
Remember this is a dating site if you cannot send pictures of how you look today then you do not need to be on this site please provide a present day pictures.please no Photoshop your pictures be honest how you look thank you!! working guy, who has his life together. Devoted and loving and honest! No married or separated or have boyfriends in other country!!!! Be honest here!!!
Joe
62 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 43
Body style: Average
Looking for my angel
Im in open book just ask. Not here to play games life is to short.i live with my heart on my sleeve. Yes i might have a little badboy in me. But I am a hard worker and family always comes first, I'm sincere , caring , understanding , have a good heart. And definitely faithful to the one that walks by my side
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Wes
30 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 58
Body style: Average
A very diverse great life
I have led a very diverse life. I am retired now living in Anna, Tx (a northern suburb of Dallas) and I think I work harder now than when I was working normally. I have a lovely 4 bedroom, 3 1/2 baths with more rooms and a 3 car garage. I love to stay busy, which lately it hasn’t been hard to do. More about me; I was an army brat and started school in Berlin, Germany. After Germany I was in 5 different schools by sixth grade. Then my world crashed – at the age of 12 my father passed away. I then struggled through life looking to find a life line of some sort and that’s when I discovered dancing. My dad was an excellent dancer, so, I thought I would try it. And I did and loved it, and my life changed for the better. I worked my way out and finally was good enough to dance on Broadway but then the government came calling (they had the draft back then). And that’s when my life really changed. I am a decorated veteran. I qualified and went into Special Forces. I spent 2 tours in Vietnam. After which I qualified for flight school and was transitioned into Cobra Gun Ships and went to Vietnam for a third tour (I had a choice of Ft. Sill, Oklahoma or Vietnam – I took the lesser of two evils and went to Vietnam). Spending 5 ½ years over there, I have collected numerous war stories and the best part is I have pictures for every story. Today, I still love to dance both country western and swing and have competed in numerous competitions. Also, since the army taught me how to jump out of an aircraft, again, I loved it and I wanted more, so, I started skydiving. I love to skydive and still jump today at my age. I am a master parachute rigger (that means I can sew) and a tandem master, however, I don’t do any tandem jumps now because of my age (my choice). I am an avid doggie lover. I have 4 exotic color Pomeranians. Three are females and one of the happiest males in the metroplex. I, also, have a 39 year old daughter and a 14 year old grandson. They both are doggie lovers. I am looking for someone who is very active and likes many different activities and will stand up for what she believes in.
Jay
43 • Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49
Body style: Average
Single, for awhile, dad. Ready to meet a woman
The most important things in my life are my 9 year old twins. Their mom stays away so I’m doing it solo. This is why I’ve been single for some time. Just been focusing on them. By now I’m ready to try and find a good lady to enjoy things with. My career, building custom furniture and cabinets. I love music. Oh and my dog. He’s a mix of French bulldog, pug, and Boston terrier. He’s ridiculously cute. I’m open to try new things.
John
61 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 70
Body style: Average
Love begins with hello ❤️
Greetings everyone, I'm a true romantic at heart, very positive, honest and sincere, I love helping others, learning everything I can about life, love and those special to me. I love traveling, staying fit and healthy, shopping, going hiking, biking and playing with children and animals.
Vicente
84 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 49
Body style: Average
Young for my age; Looking for a young mate.
Soy hombre muy generoso pero solo con personas a quien conozco personalmente. Si no es así espera para pedirme ayuda. Nací en Texas en su costa. Después de la secundaria, me alisté en el ejército de los EE. UU., me convertí en oficial y permanec
Michael
69 • San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 57
Body style: Average
Only need one
Looking for new beginnings now. I look for /lover/partner/friend. I am financially secure and I feel the man should come to visit and make the time for the woman. I have heard there are many scammers on this site, both men and women. No person should ever ask for money here.
Wade
54 • Grand Junction, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 52
Body style: Average
I am considering moving to Thailand or Philippines
I am a Colorado native who is at a point in life where I have the freedom to be anywhere. I’ve lived a full life in the US, but now I’m ready for a new chapter. I am looking for a serious, long-term partner, and I am fully willing to relocate to Thai
Jim
52 • Tucson, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 44 - 56
Body style: Average
Marriage minded
Established in Tucson Arizona. I’m an adventurous and curious person who loves exploring the world—whether it’s hiking a scenic trail, discovering a hidden gem in a new city, or trying out a unique recipe at home. I enjoy walking, traveling, and spending time outdoors, but I also love quiet evenings cooking or sharing a good meal with someone special.
John
50 • Irvine, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 37
Body style: Average
Hello
I like to think a lot about society, the governments that make it work well, and macroeconomics. I’m compassionate. I eat very healthy and only meat from animals that were treated humanely. I’m a perfectionist, which is advantageous in my career but not so much in relationships.
💕 Philip
57 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: 40 - 69
Body style: Average
Masculine, Flexible, Sensual, 💞Friendly. Versa.
Updated Today. My name is not "dear". My natural Age is 67. Very discreet and Non-judging. Open-minded and Gentle. Strong but Flexible. Caring + 💞💋 Loving. Pansexual. Trans welcome. Friendly Heads up: If you are UNDER Age 40 and you message me, you will be rejected/ignored. Open to all SAFE pleasures. NOT into any violence practices. Trans welcome. When I am attracted to a person I enjoy worshipping several of their body zones. NOT into BDSM. Attraction towards the unusual and exotic. I have been widowed for 7+ years. I am single now and retired from the Education field. NOT ATTRACTED to Passive or submissive persons. I don't like or use drugs, alcohol, pain or violence but would enjoy special pleasures. I am open to all flavors of sexualities. ALL NON-submissive single people welcome. When a MUCH younger woman tells a MUCH older gentleman: "Age doesn't matter to me..." OR "Age is just a number, dear.", that's when she is only interested in her financial security and not the relationship itself. This older gentleman is not attracted to numbers under 40. CORRECT english: Seeking something. INCORRECT: Seeking for something
Ben
68 • Abilene, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
Body style: Average
I’m currently writing a book.
I am an educated cowboy that believes in old school traditions. I’m educated and looking for an educated girl, woman that has their own income with no kids or hang ups. Im looking for someone that wants to have fun and likes to travel. Later could be more. I just had a below the knee amputation and am working physically hard to get well and get my prosthetic leg. I’m 69 and need to be outgoing again! I’m doing well! I’m just being honest!
Harley
60 • New Castle, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 72
Body style: Average
I'm a hopeless romantic looking for you...
I Love Gardening, Outdoorsy, Cooking. I enjoy long walks, especially in or near nature. I love working in the garden and my orchard. DIY projects in tangent is always fun. Food markets and Wine and Beer tastings are great especially with a partner to share them with. The smell of flowers is one of Gods greatest gifts. I love looking into one another's eyes, holding hands. Taking a early evening stroll and preparing a meal together. Curling up near the fire together and enjoying our meal. Then enjoying conversation and maybe a nice bottle of wine. Do you want to join me...
david
54 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
Body style: Average
Serious inquiries only, no fake profiles,
I am a man that I truly looking for the woman to spend his life with I know this is hard to believe but I'm honest, loyal, and 100% dedicated to the woman I'm with... I'm very affectionate, and I also like to receive affection, As a man of real, will not tolerate fake , self-absorbed, or someone that's on here for their personal and financial agendas.. I'm a real boy !!!!
Christy
56 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Body style: Average
Just casually looking around
I am an American, 57 years old originally from Tampa, Florida. I am an Airline Pilot. Please read my full profile before asking me questions that I have already posted here, such as I live in Las Vegas, Nevada, United States, I'm Widowed, I'm seeking Female 30 - 50 years old and I'm looking for Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship, probably in that order. If you are younger than 30, then do not bother. If you are older than 50, that can be taken under consideration. And if you ask what I'm looking for, read more on my profile here.
Max
59 • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Body style: Average
Waiting for You.
Traditional family-man. I Live and work here in Charlotte, NC as an accounting professional. Starting fresh and seeking a loving and faithful partner to share our lives! Open to exploring friendship that leads to serious commitment with a partner who also shares my vision of unconditional love and prioritizing family. ****** I HAVE ALREADY VERIFIED MY PROFILE - PLEASE VERIFY YOUR PROFILE ****** I am experiencing too many Fake Profiles, lets start out with trust!
Vic
58 • Greenville, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 37
Body style: Average
Seeking Genuine Honest Girl for LTR
Only true love will win. Christian man. Loves to travel with my future special someone. Loves seafood. Humble and down to earth. So, I am hoping I will meet my special someone on Cupid. It is after all the best dating site!! To all people seeking guys to send money on this site..... Please do not contact me as I will not send any more money on Western Union. It has been like searching for a needle in a haystack because 99% are fake or just wasting time or collecting pictures and phone numbers. But, I am a positive person and I know I will find my woman here. Why? I want to love a special woman who deserves my love and make her feel special. Some girls are pretending to fall in love and then start asking money and things. Please do not contact me if that is your real agenda. Of course as my woman you will get some things etc. but not right away. I no longer send money by Western Union after being scammed several times. This site has been a humbling experience. It is not easy to find the one. But, persistence will pay. So, just searching patiently.
Steve
55 • Reno, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 53
Body style: Average
Looking to meet nice people!
I play sports, ice hockey. I cook many kinds of food and bake. I play music. I can dance. I like history. I grew up in Southern California. I work part time now. I like to go fishing and other outdoor activities. I like to travel but never been to Asia.
Bill
59 • Buffalo Grove, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 45
Body style: Average
Hi..
hardworking loyal easy going man in search of true love I was born and raised in the city but I'm a country boy at heart I have a small 7 acre farm and I run a small business I have an organic farm I produce my own vegetables chicken pork and meat so I'm hoping to find a woman who enjoys the peaceful quiet country lifestyle to share my dreams and plans Home n heart I live about 2 hours away from the city of Chicago so this is something you think you can like and appreciate then contact me and let's see where things go I hope to hear from you and good luck to all God bless
Robert
45 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 49
Body style: Average
Raw, loyal, and unfiltered—looking for love....
I’ve been broken, rebuilt, and I’m still standing. I’m not here for casual lies—I want fire, loyalty, and passion. If you want a man who’ll protect you, love hard, and never sugarcoat shit, I’m that guy. Just be real, and I’ll give you the same.
Cliffy
50 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 53
Body style: Average
Hello I am Happy to be here !
I am a very happy healthy grateful man. I love to Travel and surf and paint and meet new friends… Gali guy Ya ho o so we can connect I am back in the USA now and I will Upgrade soon… Would you like to meet and have lunch and go shopping and to the beach? I'd love to hear from you! Good Luck

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