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DANIEL
Platinum Member
Verified
60
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Islip, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 50
Body style:
Average
I’m 67 going on 50 — Funny, intellect and patient
I’m 67 going on 50 — healthy, disciplined, and flexible enough that people usually ask if I’m aging backward. I spent decades building businesses and solving complex problems, and now I put that same energy into entrepreneurship, music, and cooking. Creativity doesn’t retire; it just finds new toys. I value elegance, love, respect, calmness, humor, and genuine connection. I’m looking for a kind, thoughtful, emotionally,and intelligent woman who enjoys real conversation — the kind that actually reveals who we are. I believe in second chances and starting fresh to rebuild something meaningful together. If you’d like a man who can think like an engineer, cook like a chef, write music like a poet, and still make you laugh — say hello. Worst case, we share a great conversation. Best case, something real begins
Carl
Platinum Member
62
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Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 50
Body style:
Average
To finally find you, is my dream.
Please note before proceeding: If your focus is really only on getting me to invest in a financial strategy, please don't wast our time, as i am not interested in buying anything. I am looking for a great friendship that could lead to a deep and loving connection and who knows what else? Someone who is authentic, comfortable in their own skin and can carry on an intelligent conversation. Being confident, laid back, emotionally available and having a good sense of humor are attractive qualities to me. I am self-sufficient and have a full, rich life. I have a natural curiosity and I’m always interested in learning and fulfilling the highest expectation of myself. My hobbies and interests tend to be the outdoors and the arts. I love gardening and home improvement projects. I love music and will slow dance anywhere. I like to travel. I believe in being of service to others. I value my family and friends and I have good instincts, so I tend to have my friends for many years. I am independent, active and have a youthful appearance and attitude. I am a people person and like to be around positive people. I am very spiritual, not religious. I have good taste and appreciate nice things, but don’t have to have them. I love animals and have a deep appreciation of and connection with my instincts, humility, and kindness.
Steven
Standard Member
62
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 46 - 85
Body style:
Average
Serious About Love, Intentional About Life
I’m someone who values honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor. I love exploring new places, whether it’s traveling abroad or finding a hidden gem in the city. Family and friendships mean a lot to me, and I believe in making the people around me feel appreciated. I’m currently stationed overseas, which has given me a unique perspective on life and made me appreciate the little joys even more. In my free time, I enjoy reading, cooking, listening to music, and occasionally challenging myself with new hobbies.
Thomas Nuru
Standard Member
63
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 99
Body style:
Average
I'm just a simple man looking for love again
I'm honest, sincere, loving, loyal, and a true romantic. I believe in treating people as i would like to be treated. With kindness and respect. I think men and women are equal and should treat each other with mutual respect and understanding. i am a christian and i am gently i am very trust worthy and honest i can go to any length in love.AM A perfect gently man and i need a woman to be in my life to be cared love and taken care of for the rest of my life am ready to go to any length with her so far she is nice, shape or beauty does not matter just her character alone and her
Mike
Standard Member
33
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Providence, Rhode Island, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 99
Body style:
Average
Looking for that right woman, distance no p
I am mature and positive man who wants to be happy. I think that at my age I still can be happy. I am ordinary man with broken heart - but now I hope I will find the right woman who will help me to fix it. I always try to stay positive and see in peo
Cole
Standard Member
Verified
53
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West Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 65
Body style:
Average
Building a Life w/Purpose, not Just Passing Time
/////// BE SERIOUS////////// No Time For GAMES/////////// IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO VIDEO CHAT —-KEEP IT MOVING! I’m someone who believes in growth, loyalty, and purpose. I’ve worn many hats in life—veteran, counselor, volunteer, student—and through it all, I’ve stayed committed to becoming a better man. These days, I’m focused on building a peaceful, meaningful life, filled with honesty, good conversation, and shared laughter. I enjoy giving back to the community, learning new things, and keeping both my mind and body active. If you’re someone who values connection, faith, and building a future together, I’d love to hear from you.
steve
Standard Member
62
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 39
Body style:
Average
Prince looking for Princess
I'm from Northern California, Europe, and Israeli, I look very young. I think I am quiet, easy-going, and friendly with others. I am a very romantic and need to find the same in my future partner. I am very active and friendly, I am sure I can make anyone laugh and have a good time. I am caring, gentle, and warm in a relationship. I believe in honesty. I like having deep conversations about all things. I am honest, responsible, and sincere. I am an artist who makes Whiskey. It is enormously fun to travel and sell it in small venues. The coolest places I have visited are England, Switzerland, China, Japan, Israel, Italy, Morocco. I have done archaeology in most of these place. And at the top of some very tall mountains, were the sound stops, and mountains go on forever.
Coolie
Standard Member
55
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Macon, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Body style:
Average
Come spend rest of your life with me.
I am pretty hard working and easygoing person; I love to laugh and enjoy others who do as well. I like to think of myself as a thoughtful, genuine, and funny person. I like to learn about new things and expose myself to all types of activities and interests. I love being outside.
Franklin
Standard Member
57
•
Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 40
Body style:
Average
The most import thing in life is real Love.
I am a business man, who lives in the US and also in Ghana. I am a single, educated, and family oriented man. I was born in Jamaica and Im a US citizen. I am romantic, love the beach and I believe in God. If you are a good woman who want to start h
Ray
Standard Member
51
•
Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 56
Body style:
Average
IF YOU CANT VIDEO CHAT DONT BOTHER. DONT ASK 4 $.
FIRST READ MY PROFILE DONT ASK Me FOR MONEY SECOND IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT POLYGAMY . WALK. I WAS RAISED IN A POLYGAMY FAMILY. IM NOT WITH THE BS..OR GAMES. I've been on this site long enough. The next woman who ask for my whatsapp. And ask 4 money U
adam
Standard Member
43
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Murrieta, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Body style:
Average
Looking for the one
I am a well-educated man and I am searching for a great woman to be in my life. Let us start out as friends and see if our chemistry is right. I am from New York City and I am a funny and romantic guy who knows how to treat a woman right. Hope to
Ron
Standard Member
Verified
43
•
Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 27
Body style:
Average
Family + positivity
(No Chapiadoras!) Hello - I work in finance and have a successful career. I have no children and I would like to start a family. I am somewhat traditional when it comes to family dynamics. I am very respectful and I love to laugh and joke. I am also
Alex
Standard Member
Verified
38
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Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 21
Body style:
Average
The man you looking for
Hello, how are you. I’m Alex. I’m 34 years old living in the United States of America. I have big house and make a lot of money. You want me to come meet you? Please have WhatApp, that is what I use to talk when I ask for your number. Add your number three numbers at a time. And wait till I read the message until you send the next three numbers.
Strongkaracter
Standard Member
Verified
58
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Marietta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 48 - 59
Body style:
Average
Man of Character
I am a man of character, culture, romance, honor and integrity. I am fun kind and very intelligent but also have love. I have done many things in life. I've been an actor, musician, producer, writer, singer, cook, electrician, real estate agent, a school teacher and businessman, among other things. I love to travel and enjoy life to the fullest. I also like the fine arts such as opera, symphony orchestra and theater. I really like romantic walks on the beach or in the park. My heart is full of love, respect, romance, care and honor for someone special. I was raised to protect and nurture a woman's heart. I believe that the heart is the most precious gift that God has given to humanity to give to another. I am also very family oriented. I have a heart for God and the principles of him. I am not a man who places great value on his appearance, but on the contents within his heart. I have many of
Victor
Standard Member
55
•
Miami Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 42
Body style:
Average
Mature man looking for life partner
I am a single man ( divorced ) gentleman living and working in the USA I have my own business in IT security. I own my own home with lots of space for family I can support my wife and she would not have to work only to make our home a comfortable and loving place
Joey
Standard Member
46
•
Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 32
Body style:
Average
Remember this dating site !!
Remember this is a dating site if you cannot send pictures of how you look today then you do not need to be on this site please provide a present day pictures.please no Photoshop your pictures be honest how you look thank you!! working guy, who has his life together. Devoted and loving and honest! No married or separated or have boyfriends in other country!!!! Be honest here!!!
Joe
Standard Member
Verified
62
•
Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 43
Body style:
Average
Looking for my angel
Im in open book just ask. Not here to play games life is to short.i live with my heart on my sleeve. Yes i might have a little badboy in me. But I am a hard worker and family always comes first, I'm sincere , caring , understanding , have a good heart. And definitely faithful to the one that walks by my side
John
Standard Member
61
•
Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 70
Body style:
Average
Love begins with hello ❤️
Greetings everyone, I'm a true romantic at heart, very positive, honest and sincere, I love helping others, learning everything I can about life, love and those special to me. I love traveling, staying fit and healthy, shopping, going hiking, biking and playing with children and animals.
Nick capra
Standard Member
49
•
Kansas City, Missouri, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 99
Body style:
Average
Love
I believe life is better when shared with the right person. I’m thoughtful, driven, and always trying to grow into a better version of myself. I appreciate deep conversations, loyalty, and genuine connection. Looking for something real, not just temporary.
Vicente
Standard Member
Verified
84
•
Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 49
Body style:
Average
Young for my age; Looking for a young mate.
Soy hombre muy generoso pero solo con personas a quien conozco personalmente. Si no es así espera para pedirme ayuda. Nací en Texas en su costa. Después de la secundaria, me alisté en el ejército de los EE. UU., me convertí en oficial y permanec
Michael
Standard Member
69
•
San Jose, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 57
Body style:
Average
Only need one
Looking for new beginnings now. I look for /lover/partner/friend. I am financially secure and I feel the man should come to visit and make the time for the woman. I have heard there are many scammers on this site, both men and women. No person should ever ask for money here.
Wade
Standard Member
Verified
54
•
Grand Junction, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 52
Body style:
Average
I am considering moving to Thailand or Philippines
I am a Colorado native who is at a point in life where I have the freedom to be anywhere. I’ve lived a full life in the US, but now I’m ready for a new chapter. I am looking for a serious, long-term partner, and I am fully willing to relocate to Thai
Jim
Standard Member
52
•
Tucson, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 44 - 56
Body style:
Average
Marriage minded
Established in Tucson Arizona. I’m an adventurous and curious person who loves exploring the world—whether it’s hiking a scenic trail, discovering a hidden gem in a new city, or trying out a unique recipe at home. I enjoy walking, traveling, and spending time outdoors, but I also love quiet evenings cooking or sharing a good meal with someone special.
John
Standard Member
Verified
50
•
Irvine, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 37
Body style:
Average
Hello
I like to think a lot about society, the governments that make it work well, and macroeconomics. I’m compassionate. I eat very healthy and only meat from animals that were treated humanely. I’m a perfectionist, which is advantageous in my career but not so much in relationships.
Ben
Standard Member
68
•
Abilene, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 50
Body style:
Average
I’m currently writing a book.
I am an educated cowboy that believes in old school traditions. I’m educated and looking for an educated girl, woman that has their own income with no kids or hang ups. Im looking for someone that wants to have fun and likes to travel. Later could be more. I just had a below the knee amputation and am working physically hard to get well and get my prosthetic leg. I’m 69 and need to be outgoing again! I’m doing well! I’m just being honest!
Ed
Standard Member
72
•
Clearwater, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 62
Body style:
Average
I'm NOT a ATM outlet!!! LESBIANS are WELCOME also
Out of order
Harley
Standard Member
60
•
New Castle, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 72
Body style:
Average
I'm a hopeless romantic looking for you...
I Love Gardening, Outdoorsy, Cooking. I enjoy long walks, especially in or near nature. I love working in the garden and my orchard. DIY projects in tangent is always fun. Food markets and Wine and Beer tastings are great especially with a partner to share them with. The smell of flowers is one of Gods greatest gifts. I love looking into one another's eyes, holding hands. Taking a early evening stroll and preparing a meal together. Curling up near the fire together and enjoying our meal. Then enjoying conversation and maybe a nice bottle of wine. Do you want to join me...
david
Standard Member
54
•
Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 50
Body style:
Average
Serious inquiries only, no fake profiles,
I am a man that I truly looking for the woman to spend his life with I know this is hard to believe but I'm honest, loyal, and 100% dedicated to the woman I'm with... I'm very affectionate, and I also like to receive affection, As a man of real, will not tolerate fake , self-absorbed, or someone that's on here for their personal and financial agendas.. I'm a real boy !!!!
Christy
Standard Member
56
•
Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Body style:
Average
Just casually looking around
I am an American, 57 years old originally from Tampa, Florida. I am an Airline Pilot. Please read my full profile before asking me questions that I have already posted here, such as I live in Las Vegas, Nevada, United States, I'm Widowed, I'm seeking Female 30 - 50 years old and I'm looking for Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship, probably in that order. If you are younger than 30, then do not bother. If you are older than 50, that can be taken under consideration. And if you ask what I'm looking for, read more on my profile here.
Max
Standard Member
Verified
59
•
Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 55
Body style:
Average
Waiting for You.
Traditional family-man. I Live and work here in Charlotte, NC as an accounting professional. Starting fresh and seeking a loving and faithful partner to share our lives! Open to exploring friendship that leads to serious commitment with a partner who also shares my vision of unconditional love and prioritizing family. ****** I HAVE ALREADY VERIFIED MY PROFILE - PLEASE VERIFY YOUR PROFILE ****** I am experiencing too many Fake Profiles, lets start out with trust!
Vic
Standard Member
58
•
Greenville, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 37
Body style:
Average
Seeking Genuine Honest Girl for LTR
Only true love will win. Christian man. Loves to travel with my future special someone. Loves seafood. Humble and down to earth. So, I am hoping I will meet my special someone on Cupid. It is after all the best dating site!! To all people seeking guys to send money on this site..... Please do not contact me as I will not send any more money on Western Union. It has been like searching for a needle in a haystack because 99% are fake or just wasting time or collecting pictures and phone numbers. But, I am a positive person and I know I will find my woman here. Why? I want to love a special woman who deserves my love and make her feel special. Some girls are pretending to fall in love and then start asking money and things. Please do not contact me if that is your real agenda. Of course as my woman you will get some things etc. but not right away. I no longer send money by Western Union after being scammed several times. This site has been a humbling experience. It is not easy to find the one. But, persistence will pay. So, just searching patiently.
Steve
Standard Member
55
•
Reno, Nevada, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 53
Body style:
Average
Looking to meet nice people!
I play sports, ice hockey. I cook many kinds of food and bake. I play music. I can dance. I like history. I grew up in Southern California. I work part time now. I like to go fishing and other outdoor activities. I like to travel but never been to Asia.
Bill
Standard Member
59
•
Buffalo Grove, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 45
Body style:
Average
Hi..
hardworking loyal easy going man in search of true love I was born and raised in the city but I'm a country boy at heart I have a small 7 acre farm and I run a small business I have an organic farm I produce my own vegetables chicken pork and meat so I'm hoping to find a woman who enjoys the peaceful quiet country lifestyle to share my dreams and plans Home n heart I live about 2 hours away from the city of Chicago so this is something you think you can like and appreciate then contact me and let's see where things go I hope to hear from you and good luck to all God bless
Robert
Standard Member
45
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 49
Body style:
Average
Raw, loyal, and unfiltered—looking for love....
I’ve been broken, rebuilt, and I’m still standing. I’m not here for casual lies—I want fire, loyalty, and passion. If you want a man who’ll protect you, love hard, and never sugarcoat shit, I’m that guy. Just be real, and I’ll give you the same.
Cliffy
Standard Member
Verified
50
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 53
Body style:
Average
Hello I am Happy to be here !
I am a very happy healthy grateful man. I love to Travel and surf and paint and meet new friends… Gali guy Ya ho o so we can connect I am back in the USA now and I will Upgrade soon… Would you like to meet and have lunch and go shopping and to the beach? I'd love to hear from you! Good Luck
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