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Dale
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52
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Grand Rapids, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 53
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Everybody’s looking for something !!!
Yes, I just cut off my beard… you like? A woman can leave a wealthy man & she can leave a handsome man, but she won't leave a man who has won her heart. A man who has made her feel safe & secure, who has shown her that he can't live without her. A man who has been her rock, wiping away her tears in moments of weakness. Hearts can't be bought with money; hearts are won with kindness & good treatment.
Honz
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Verified
55
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Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 48
Occupation:
IT / Communications
You + Me = ???
LOOKING TO MEET SOMEONE that is Real with REAL Intentions. WhatsApp or Skype is Ok Video Chat is a must. Not looking for long distance relationship. Character: 8) I am happy, honest, confident, strong, stable, responsible, accomplished, cre8tive, intelligent, clever, witty and fun to be around. I have high morals and strong family values. I believe in keeping it real as well as keeping the glass half-full. I am looking to make new friends. I enjoy the out doors, hiking, biking and snowboarding. I like to stay in shape, so I spend my mornings at the gym working out or going for a run. I'm looking for someone with the same motivation as I have when it comes to taking care of them-self. I enjoy romantic dinners and stimulating conversation. Family is very important to me. I have a smart, beautiful nine year old daughter. She is a blessing. Interests: Enjoy being out doors. Enjoy going to the beach and surfing.. Enjoy going out dancing or hanging out watching movies at home. I grew up in Boulder, Colorado and eventually moved to California. Lived in San Francisco, Huntington Beach near Los Angeles and San Diego. I enjoy going on hikes & skiing... Aspen, Vail... Enjoy hikes at National Parks - Rocky Mountain, Yosemite and Yellow Stone National Park. Recently traveled to Disney World: Hollywood Studios, Epcot in Orlando, Florida ...8)
Ben
Standard Member
67
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 51
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Tomorrow Will Be Today
I am a well rounded person - physically, intellectually and spiritually. I am family-oriented, honest, kind, patient, loyal, sympathetic, fair, responsible, and understanding. I have a long professional career in software engineering and technical program management.
Marc
Standard Member
52
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Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 45
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Are you looking for me? 😊
Hi there, My name is Marc. I'm a single (yes single! lol) guy that loves to get out and exercise. I'm living in Portland, Oregon but would like to travel to the Philippines someday. I've always thought that Filipino women were the most beautiful in the world. That's why I'm on here to maybe meet one. :-) Looking for a long term relationship.
InDaMoment
Standard Member
63
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Orange, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 50
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Read carefully and all of my profile details,..🌹?...
Life is short and we have one chance at it so make it count! I live life with passion in all aspects, God, family, work and play...I try to have balance. With that said, family and loves ones are very important to me as they should be for you. I am honest, educated, confident but humble, fun, spontaneous and love a good adventurous. I appreciate good food&wine, music, love to travel and respect all cultures. I like to be active outdoors, scuba, swimming, walking on the beach and love golf. I am a romantic at heart, love to kiss & cuddle up for a movie or dress up for a night out. I'm looking for my best friend and soul mate on this journey. Seven1fournine0fourzero5seven4. Bay mot bon chin kg bon kg nam bay bon.
Omar
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 32
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Read my profile first.
Rome was not built in a day. Real connection takes time. I'm not in a rush, and I appreciate getting to know someone slowly and meaningfully. If you're looking for a man who lives with purpose, values, and strength, read on. Success and happiness in
Michael
Standard Member
69
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 55
Occupation:
IT / Communications
I'm Michael, I love Tropical lifestyle
I'm an outgoing guy. I love the beach,the mountains. . I respect and appreciate what a honest woman brings to a relationship and a marriage.I'm 65 years old, but, my spirit is young and fun loving. I don't need the fast life,but I like everything from dancing,movies,adventure, or just relaxing. I'd also love to see Thailand !!
Mack
Standard Member
Verified
77
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Baton Rouge, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Gentleman seeks Asian beauty.
I enjoy dining out, going to the movies, pets, nature, flower gardening, vegetable gardening, fishing, hunting and spectator sports. I have been in 2 long term relationships and seek a 3rd. I can take or leave the bar scene. I have very varied music interests.
Rick
Standard Member
70
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Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Seeking:
18 - 30
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for wife prefer ladyboy
I'm 69 retired and looking to find my future wife/partner. To be honest she will most likely be a ladyboy as in many cases they are as feminine as most women and will not have to worry about starting a family with a young woman. I love the feminine a
Robert
Standard Member
Verified
50
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San Jose, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for Serious Relationship
It is very hard to describe yourself to someone without sounding boastful, everyone has good qualities and bad qualities. Some have more than the other. I like to think I am different from most American men. I don't pay attention to sports or TV. I think I am a very loving and caring person. One thing that I do know is that I am funny, I always make people laugh! If I find the one I could love and decide to get married, I would treat her so good. Well, I have a very good career, I work for a large computer company as Manager of Information Technology. I am a very creative person (mostly on the computer). I design web sites as well as video editing and Photoshop. I am very serious about finding my true love. I don't want to play games. I just want a serious relationship.
raymond
Standard Member
50
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Rochester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 65
Occupation:
IT / Communications
⚓ “Seasoned traveler of the seas, looking for my c
Life has taken me across oceans and to ports all around the world, but what I’m really searching for is someone special to come home to. At 52, I’ve learned that laughter, kindness, and good company are the real treasures. I’m a marine engineer by profession, but outside of work, I’m just a down-to-earth guy who loves a good glass of wine, sunsets by the water, and getting lost in a great conversation. I believe in romance, little surprises, and keeping things lighthearted — because love should feel like both an adventure and a safe harbor. Hobbies & Passions: 🌍 Traveling & spontaneous weekend getaways 🍳 Cooking (I make a mean seafood dish — perks of the job!) 🎶 Dancing like no one’s watching 🚴 Staying active — cycling, swimming, exploring nature 💫 Stargazing & dreaming about what’s next
Tuatara
Standard Member
53
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Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Just Me
Just an average guy looking for a connection. I work in software development. I have several hobbies which include computers & programming, Lego, painting, and reading. I do enjoy short hikes, and visiting the ocean and walking along the beach.
Jim
Standard Member
44
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Marysville, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Male 22 - 48
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Hello out there, welcome to the best profile ever!
Or maybe not the best profile but I'll give it a try anyways. Let's see, about myself, oof these are always hard. Sometimes silly, sometimes quiet, hoping to find that right person wherever they're hiding - that one to form a forever loving caring relationship with. They must be out there somewhere right, is there a secret phrase they're waiting for, it must be something. I do take some time to open up, so fair warning! Back to random chattering here, things I like...hmm, movies, sitting outside in the sun reading a book, weekends, probably lots of other things too!
Jordan
Standard Member
36
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 33
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for a soulmate
I like live music, spicy food, and checking out new restaurants or breweries. Always up for trying something different, whether it's a show, a new city, or just something off the usual path. Looking to meet someone who's into good conversation and down to explore.
Cody
Standard Member
37
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Denton, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 32
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for a mate. Want a large family.
Big and tall. I want a woman who's loyal has a sense of humor and wants a large family everything else is pretty well negotiable. I don't judge on your past I only judge going forward with me. Please no trans I am not interested. I accept polygamy.
Harish
Standard Member
Verified
49
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Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 38 - 42
Occupation:
IT / Communications
48/M/Single, Software professional, USA
A well-established software professional with a stable career and financial situation. Love coffee, books and anything to do with science fiction. Into photography and creative writing. I have a deep affinity for nature and long to lose myself in the
Mark
Standard Member
Verified
38
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Sioux Falls, South Dakota, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 52
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Free 30-Day Trial
My name is Mark. I consider myself to be a kind person. I work hard in my career and have been on a weight-loss journey (down 25 kilograms in one year). Feel free to message me. I would love to get to know you.
Philip
Standard Member
Verified
37
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Metairie, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 35
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Seeking a special woman✨
Hi, I'm Philip. I am a fun yet laid-back guy who is looking for the right Filipina. I have been to the Philippines and loved it and the people/culture there. The trip was for my brother’s wedding, where I had the honor of being the best man. He married a Filipina (and yes, I wore a barong!). I’d return to the Philippines in a heartbeat if it meant I could meet someone truly special. I’m divorced with 3 amazing kids—two girls (9 & 6) and a boy (8). They live with me at my house part-time, alternating between 2 days one week and 3 days the next (35% of the time). I am very open to and would love to have more children 👩🏻👨🏻👦🏻👧🏻. My Christian faith and relationship with God are really important to me ✝️. I’m quite involved in my church, where I serve in the preschool children’s ministry. I am very health-minded and prioritize exercise. Some of my favorite ways to spend my time include: hanging with family, working out at the gym 💪, playing chess ♟️, and eating good food. I also highly value taking it easy and relaxing at home 🛋️🍷.
Arin
Standard Member
Verified
56
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 36 - 49
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Gentleman seeking marriage
I am a single, loyal, caring, affectionate, gentle man. I am here seriously, looking for a wonderful partner to spend the rest of this beautiful life together. I am very friendly, open minded, fun loving, and hard working. I love to care for my partner, show love and affection always. Talk out and communicate our issues to keep a harmonious home. I have one son, age 25, but lives on his own. He is a very awesome guy. I love to travel, dine out, read, go out to listen to live music, and learn new things. I am very humble, loving, and good natured.
Antonio
Standard Member
59
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Hilton Head Island, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 58
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Let's celebrate life together!
I am a simple, hard-working, trustworthy and honest man. I am calm and quiet, good at listening, caring, sincere, consider, tolerant, gentle and very romantic man that is not afraid of showing my feelings. I have a good heart, I am family oriented, and I do everything in my power to care and protect my loved ones. I dream about traveling the word with my future wife, holding hands, walking side by side and exploring life together. The rest, I live it up to you to find out.
Phill
Standard Member
52
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Columbia, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 55
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Here I am - Send Me An Angel.
I currently work as a network engineer, In 2018. I retired from the US Army with 24 years of military service. Adventure-seeker, laid-back foodie with a passion for cooking and trying new restaurants. I’m here to find someone to share laughs, deep conversations, and cozy nights in. Let’s explore new hiking trails, share our favorite books, and create lasting memories together.
mark
Standard Member
66
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 65
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Going to Taegu soon. Submit resume~ Serious only
God is First in My Life. Let go, Let God~ NO SEPARATED or MARRIED Individuals please. I am not interested in angering God. Monogamy is important to me. I will not be part of a love triangle. PLEASE be SINGLE!! I am not somebody’s second half. I am a whole person. I am not looking for the right person. I am doing my best to be a better person. I am not perfect. Yet, daily I strive to be better than I was the day before. I am a Spiritual Being having a Human Experience. No losers looking for a Sugar-Daddy! If you don't have physical stamina I am NOT the man for you. Fun Loving, focused, sincere, loyal, committed, honourable, trusting, vulnerable, playful, goal driven, moral, sensuous and outdoorsy. When I lay my head down for the last time, may the World say that I was a giver and not a taker, that I lived my life with integrity and excellence, that I was a caring generous man who always did his best to be effective in every aspect of his daily life. May they say, I lived my life as walking a spiritual journey, always scrambling to improve; I know there is nothing such as spiritual perfection. May God Bless Us All - Marcos Antonio Dominique~ Yes, I left out my last name. I don't need any stalkers! ;-)
Eric
Standard Member
55
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Chattanooga, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 47
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for soul mate
55 no kids, looking for soul mate, i am not a rich man I work hard for what I have.. I dont want a gold digger or scammer. No cheaters I dont cheat and expect the same from a woman. I think Thai women are beautiful and sexy., I like traditional woman dark hair dark eyes. Slinder body beautiful smile and funny.
Tony
Standard Member
54
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Irving, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 55
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Hello, Pleased to meet you
I am an outgoing, laid-back person who loves being home and traveling. I am looking for a long-time love to share the rest of my life with. If you do not like big men, keep scrolling. I do not want you to waste your time or mine. I do not play games or expect the same, and I am not a long-distance sugar daddy. Divorce paperwork Has been filed, but I have lived alone for more than 3 years, and I do not want to make myself a divorce because that is not true in my government's eye. I believe in the truth because if you or I lie, it will come out in the end.
Joao
Standard Member
Verified
65
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Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 35
Occupation:
IT / Communications
ชาวอเมริกันกำลังมองหา "ภรรยาสาว" ไม่ใช่หญิงชรา!
I am looking for a young wife that really wants to have children. Understand I don't wan old women!! Don't write to me if you are old!! I am looking forward to meeting my soulmate, talking and starting a friendly relationship based on trust and respect. Most importantly, I believe in the quality of life in terms of mutual understanding, appreciation for the people I care about. Age is important to me ... I only like young women !! Because I want to have children ... Women over 35 are not welcome! I like young wives. I really want to have children. She can give birth. If you are a old women, please, do not want. Write to me. I will not respond!
Jake
Standard Member
34
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Hallandale Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
18 - 50
Occupation:
IT / Communications
coder_cosplay on insta
Hi, I'm Jacob A. Allen people call me Jake. I'm 183cm I'm gender fluid and pansexual. I like both male and female people. I like to dress cute. I own my apartment and car. I work as a web developer I enjoy manga, anime, & cosplay. I enjoy the outdoors. Like Kayaking, Camping, Fishing, Biking.
Randy
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 44
Occupation:
IT / Communications
I want a God Fearing woman that loves Fun in Bed
Christian, God Fearing, honest, simple, loving, caring, family oriented, responsible, faithful, understanding, patient, gentle, humble and good hearted, Separated father of 2 daughters, 16 and 17. Looking for a woman that loves to give and receive much pleasure in the bedroom and if our chemistry is right, we can consider. I need a good woman. I'm in USA, and I sleep alone, as I am separated. Looking for a new life partner who loves to both receive and give great oral pleasure, this is important to me because I need the stress relief and I believe a healthy sex life is very GOOD for the health. I am open to commitment. I need a good woman who loves to cook. I love Asian Foods, I love spicy, I love curry, I love soups, I love Asian food!!! Did I mention I love Cunnilingus? I love a woman who loves providing Fellacio activities and fun. I love a woman who wants Cunnilingus. Just in case you wonder why I’m here, here is my story, just 3500 words, LOL Here is my story, so you know... please read this carefully and consider me, thank you in advance for your time! In 1997 I had gotten close to a lady, Teresa Marie, in the USA that grew on me as we got closer and closer. I was in the US Air Force at the time. We were very close when I got military orders to go to Japan. I left for 2 years in Japan. I then later got out of the Air Force and ran into her again in 2000. We quickly regained our closeness and remained close until 2003, when I found another friend of mine at her house at 3am. My heart was broken so much, I wanted to leave and go away as far as possible, even to the other side of the planet into a danger zone / war zone. I had no concern for myself or my safety, I just wanted to go away, I had loved her so much. Since it was after 9/11 attacks, I had just got my heart broken, and I had just got out of 9 years Air Force, I decided I wanted to leave my home state and go overseas and help the military. I was so broken hearted by her I was hoping that something would happen to me in the war zone area of Iraq or Kuwait. I wanted my hurt to be gone, and I wasn’t dealing with it properly and using wisdom. I let it get to me. I had accepted a telecom job in Kuwait helping the US Army as a contractor. I went to Kuwait at the end of 2004. I was planning to only work and stay single and try to save money in Kuwait. A few months went by and my co-workers were trying to get me out of the apartment on the weekend. I finally gave in and went with them to a place in Kuwait called the Filipino Food Center, they had live music and food buffet. I met Victoria there on the dance floor in front of the DJ and Blasting Loud Speakers, she was from Cebu and working in Kuwait, and she was trying to send money home to family and support her 16 year old daughter. At that moment in my life, I still felt broken, broken-hearted, and miserable from my USA Lady, Teresa Marie, relationship going bad. When I met Victoria, she relaxed me and spoiled me. She did a good job. She got me hook line and sinker. I felt in love. She got me good. I saw her work conditions and living conditions and I thought to myself, I wanted to rescue her from her conditions and I could give up myself to make nice for Victoria, get her an opportunity as a US Citizen and living in America, I was not using wisdom at all. I did not give any scrutiny or criticism to her little lies and deception. At that moment, I didn’t care about myself. She spoiled me so good, she latched on to me, and she told me I was going to marry her. I didn’t argu. I just went along with what she said because she was mostly treating me like a King, very nicely. I never asked her to marry me, she told me I was going to marry her. I never ever planned to get with someone that was not born-again Christian. Church was so important to me, but she sweet talked me into believing she accept Christ and will go to church with me, well, as the years went by, yes, we went to church, but she never wanted bibles study, she never wanted to get involved with church family activities, she never wanted to study the bible, she’s not book smart. I tried so much, as the years went by, but she said, “No, I don’t want”. So, thinking back in 2005 that she would be happy to go church with me, I went along with it, not realizing I was going into a trap that I could not seeI was not using wisdom and I wasn’t focused on looking for a Proverbs 31 woman like I should have been. I didn’t scrutinize or test or evaluate her against what the bible says in Proverbs 31:10-31. We went to Cebu, Philippines in October 2005 to get married at the Cebu Court House. She already had a daughter from before that was 16 years old so I started paying for her college at that time and help financially support the utilities and things at her little house in Cebu. To her credit, at the beginning we were always eating out, so she I guess thought that it was always going to be like that with me, she wouldn’t have to cook, because we would always eat outside or order food for delivery. Maybe that was my fault to spoil her to the eating out all the time. I guess I blame myself for that part of the problem We had 2 daughters born in Kuwait. The first daughter, Jahlena, had a perfect natural birth in 2006 at the Kuwiat Government Hospital. Later on in 2007, the second daughter was ready to be born. Victoria said she did not enjoy her experience at the Kuwait Government Hospital, so we picked a different place for her birth. Well it turns out we went to the wrong hospital with incompetent doctors. Victoria almost died at the hospital during Vahnna’s birth. Vahnna was very big [11 lbs and 6 oz] and they did a natural birth instead of a C-section. They got Vahnna hung up and could not get her unhung up. They hurt Victoria a lot and they paralyzed Vahnna’s left arm trying to get her out. They finally got her out. But they almost both died. TERRIBLE “DOCTORS”, I wish I could go back there and spank both of those doctors and sue that hospital bigtime. See, I’m not a huge guy, and Victoria is not huge, but on her side on her mothers side, there are some bigger genetics from Victoria’s Mother’s Father (From China). And on my side, my Mother’s Father and all his family were really big, large knees and large ankles and big big big. Well, both of my daughters are not skinny and they are not pitite. They are big girls. But Those doctors nearly killed both Victoria and our second daughter Vahnna. Vahnna is 16 years old and she still suffers from that birth injury. She has a malformed and weak left arm. She does almost everything with only the right arm. It is so difficult for her. Vahnna’s birth Injury is called Erb’s Palsy, caused by the hanging of the shoulder, which leads to a Brachial Plexus Injury. “Erb palsy, or Erb-Duchenne paralysis, is a paralysis of the arm caused by the injury to the upper group of the main nerves supplying it, specifically the upper trunk C5-C6 of the brachial plexus In Victoria’s defense: I look at her event of Vahnna’s Birth, was tragic, and I feel she suffered a near death event and PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder every since. This is what I believe to be the primary problem. She has not had the determined intellect and spiritual wisdom to overcome the trama and fear of that nearly fatal birth of our second daughter in 2007. I believe that in her mind, she does not want the chance of another traumatic brith experience. So I started to notice her acting differently toward me in 2007-2008… the romance evaporated to nothing, vanished, it was over. I had noticed it, but I tried to play it off and be positive, it never got better. When our daughters were little and so cute… we were always going to Filipino Parties for Birthdays, Christmas Parties, etc. as we would go… and meet other friends and families… it was much more fun when the daughters were little and fun and busy to keep up with all the time. I treasured those moments. As the years went by… the daughters became more growing and more independent (of course). I enjoyed the Filipino Parties so much years ago… but that became less enjoyable for myself over time… why? Well, because our relationship suffered and had no romance, it would make me feel sick when we would go to a Filipino Party event and I would visit with the male spouses and their wives were good and romantic and come and sit on their husbands lap and have little kisses and hugs… it would only remind me of my broken relationship at home, and no hugs, no kisses, no cuddles, nothing. It gets so irritating and uncomfortable for myself… I usually don’t go inside the Filipino Party Event / get togethers any more, it makes me feel not good when I go and see other couples have romantic romance actions, hugging, holding, etc. I don’t get that in my life now for many many years. I feel like I’m in a house arrest, in a prison without the touch of a woman. I’m so tired of it. I want it to be over. I want a change. Also, if I go to the Filipino Party Events, I see the romantic wifes being romantic to their husbands, I look at them, so beautiful, I feel temptation and dream. But I know I should not bother them, that would be bad of me. So, it is better I don’t go to any Filipino Party Events, so I don’t feel the misery and temptation. I try so hard to be good and do the right thing. I want a woman in my life that loves me. I say this to establish and give better understanding to the big picture, which likely explains why things are the way they are in the relationship between Victoria and I. Every since 2007, Victoria does not want me to touch her. The romance evaporated into nothing in 2007. I have suffered every since. No Hugs, No Kisses, No touching, No cuddles, NOTHING. She might on rare occasion display in front of her friends, excitement to see me and give me a hug in front of her friends, BUT IT IS ALL FAKE AND ALL DRAMA, NOT TRUE. I’m a prisoner in my own house every since. On top of that, she always complains about something every day, complaining to me to do this or do that to fix it (NOT politely, but rudely demanding, and raising her voice at me, as if I don’t care), all the time and everyday is abnormal. She has mental issues. Quite often, she will get ready to go out to eat then tell me she is going out to the car to go eat… then she is upset while waiting for me to get ready. She did not tell me to get ready, she gets ready and tells me she’s going to the car to go out. She will not sit down and wait for me or us (the girls) to get ready, she yells and shouts, “LET’S GO!!!, HURRY, LETS GO!!!” She is so impatient and does not communicate properly. She is rude to me all the time. As I reflect back, I guess she was rude to the girls as they were growing up, I never put my foot down and was fearful to put my foot down and try to correct things, difficult to do the right thing sometimes. I didn’t know what to do to make things better. It is mental abuse. She’s been doing this and acting like this for many many years, it is TRULY Heartbreaking. It hurts so much… for example; So, she demands I drive her to wherever, restaurant, out to eat or whatever, I don’t argue, I try to please and keep some peace, so I go… then when we get to the store or the mall or to the grocery store she just gets out of the car and walks away without me. She does not wait for me. She will not wait and walk together, She just takes off. In the grocery, she always walks away. I can’t stop to look at anything in the store, cause she’ll just take off without me, like I don’t exist or I’m a total stranger. No walking together, no holding hands, no hugs, NOTHING. If we are going to a restaurant to go eat, she does the same thing. She gets out of the car and walks away, she never waits for me. She goes into the restaurant and finds a table without me and I have to follow and find the table wherever she went. Is that romantic or what?? Same thing if we go to a Shopping Mall. Well at least she knows what I like to eat. But she will not cook for me. My youngest daughter will cook for me, but not Victoria. If she cooks for me some eggs she always overcooks them knowing I don’t like them cooked so much. She says, “oh well, there’s your egg, eat!” So usually I don’t ask her to cook eggs for me because she is going to intentionally do it wrong. Is that twisted or what? I’ve told her for many years, I would love to have Beef Stew, once a year I get beef stew, and it isn’t good. I also have another American food favorite my Mom use to make for me, French Toast, Victoria use to make French toast, but very rarely with much care, usually overcooked. My daughter Vahnna is an excellent cook, she cooks my egg perfectly, she cooks my French Toast perfectly, but not Victoria. After all these years, I’m so wore down and heart broken. I gave her my life to take care of her, rescue her from her work and living conditions in Kuwait, help pay her previous daughters college expense, I helped Victoria get her US Visa and US Citizenship. I’ve taught her to drive, paid for a car, pay a house mortgage and I get treated as a terrible tenant. She’s a nag nag nag usually about nothing that is a big deal. It gets old. Day after day, week after week, year after year. Many years ago, she started wanting to go to the Casino. I don’t care for going to the Casino, so I barely go inside then I go sit out in the Van and wait until she is finished playing at the Casino. She usually makes me driver her to the Casino every week for the last several years, at least an hour drive to travel to the casino, depending on which casino. I get treated as Mr. Taxi Driver dude. And no reward except she quits complaining and nagging when I start driving her somewhere. I’m so tired of it. I have a difficult job that requires lots of intellect and analytics and lots of driving all the time… even if I drive all day long, when I get home, she usually says, “I’m ready to go to the casino” then, it may escalate, when I tell her I’m too tired to drive that far. She does not care and insist on me driving to the casino and wait on her until she is done so I can driver her back. She is not comfortable driving over 40 miles per hour. So, if we need or if she needs to go somewhere down the faster Interstate highway where the speed is more like 70 mph plus, she will not and likely can not handle driving fast. I don’t get it. So, all the places she wants to go that require highway travel speed, I am the driver even to Filipino Parties 1 hour drive away. I drive her there, and I sit in the car/van and wait usually because I don’t want to be reminded of my relationship that has no romance and I don’t want the temptation of looking too much or speaking too much to the other Filipina's that are romantic and sweet to their husbands. I go home and walk in the door, during the 2005-2007 the home greetings were awesome. After 2007, when I come home, NOTHING, No Hugs, No Kisses, No Cuddles, no home cooked meal the way I like, the way my Mom use to cook . No “I love you”, never, always NOTHING. I want so much for this to be over and find someone new. I’m so tired of this heart ache and heart break. This is why you find me here. I’m dreaming and looking for someone to rescue my heart and restore a romantic life to my broken heart. This is difficult for me to be here because if she finds out… oh I’m in trouble. Trouble for what, not trying to be considerate, loving, and romantic. Hello, who is saying NO NO NO Verbally and NON-verbally MOSTLY to me all the time. IF you tell a spouse no long enough, years for sure, something is likely to lead to separation emotionally, physically, and maybe spiritually. I can say all the prayers and even powerful prayers; IF she doesn’t want me or if she doesn’t want to be romantic to her “husband”, I can not force her to love me. If she doesn’t love me, what can I do, only pray and be strong, I continue to try and endure… I want it to be over, completely, but I also want to cherish, honor and respect, and care for the feelings of our daughters 16 and 18 now. I don’t want them to cry. I want to be with and support and be there for my daughters. I’m still here for them mostly. I also, her in the USA, I don’t have the heart to push Victoria out on the street, she could not provide for herself here, it is very expensive in the USA. I still provide shelter and try to show love. After all these years of trying and enduring. I’m tired. I want a change. I need someone new in my life. This is my life romance story. I hope that helps you understand where I’m coming from and explains why I’m here. AFTER SUMMARY I'm sorry I'm getting older, most of my hair has gone, I was an idiot thinking I could improve my smile by removing my teeth to wear dentures, I did not like my first dentures, so I don’t wear them. I plan to wear new dentures soon when I get a proper fit, I’m hopint; and too much stress has been killing me for years, work stress and home stress. My work is very stressful like an Air Traffic Controller job, I work Global Network Field Operations, very stressful job And when I go home, I get no hello, no hug, no kisses, nothing from the lady from cebu that told me I was going to marry her in 2005. She had me hook line and sinker. She caught me, spoiled me, deceived me. My heart has been very broken for a very long time. I am partly to blame for being stupid, unwise and not evaluating her more before allowing myself to get with her. I want to use the excuse that Teresa Marie in the USA broke my heart so much in 2003, I din’t care about myself and I did not use wisdom when I allowed myself to get with Victoria from Cebu. I was trying to be overly optimistic while being so unconcerned about myself at that time. I remember thinking to myself, as referring to Victoria, “I could give this girl a change of life for the better, all I have to do is go with the flow and give her the world as much as I can, US VISA, US Citizenship, etc. and take care of her”. I didn’t know how much it was going to cost me by getting with someone that didn’t truly love me. She does not love me. I still endure and try to make things as good as I can. It is getting old. I’m so tired of it. She lied to me so much. It was difficult raising our daughters with her. She would become so uncooperative at times. I tried to mostly play everything off as it will be alright. It hurts beyond imagination. I gave up my life to make things good for her, recued her from her job and work and living conditions in Kuwait. I helped her get US Visa and Citizenship and a home in USA, and she stepped on my heart in 2007 by only treating me nice in front of other people and behind the scenes treating me like a bad tenant they pays the bills and drives her everywhere. I wish I could have a new life with a Hot new Filipina wife do you know if you could comfort my heart cuddle me every day and take care of me and cuddle on the couch while watching tv or hold me in the bed? I am so tired of sleeping alone, like in a prison without a woman to hold and kiss and make love to and spoil and give pleasure and comfort where she would be willing and want to cuddle and hug and kiss. Do you want to be the one that heals my broken heart ? 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Please note that I am not a paying member at this time. I may not be able to reply to messages. Hey there! I enjoy Riding motorcycles, playing guitar, going to concerts, cooking new recipes, growing fruit and vegetables, working out, playing pickleball, being outdoors for work or play, and much more. Active lifestyle. Lots of hobbies and interests. Living in the U.S. but planning a trip to Thailand this summer. Considering Thailand as a retirement option.
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A Whole New World...For YOU and I
I am a person that can be very HIGH energy...BUT I can also be laid back. I am a person who has a high degree of intellectual curiosity. I am naturally empathetic, compassionate and very creative. I see the same things others see, but often see them in a different context. I am very good at understanding relationship of people, places and things, connecting the dots and thinking outside the box.. In addition I know a LOT about a lot of things, but know there are so much more that I don't know, but want to know. If it NOT fun, then why bother...I would very much want to know about YOU...
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I am a senior Black American man looking to retire there in Thailand. I am a christian and have been an active member of my church for over 30 years. I love to sing and to travel. I am looking for one very special woman to share the rest of my life w
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honest, hard working, responsible, financially stable, healthy, athletic man. I am 56, in great physical shape, i dont drink i dont smoke, I am eating healthy and i am exercising on a regular basis (running 3 times a week, gym 3 times a week) I like to push my limits. I like to travel, explore new places, cultures and food. I prefer nature over big cities or clubs. My motto is: I don't quit when I am tired, I quit when I am done!
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Hi there! My name is Chris, and here is a bit about myself. I am a romantic, and the kind of guy who likes to open doors for the ladies, and hold their chairs at dinner. I'm honest and loyal, and always TRY to see the best in people. I always try to treat people with respect, and kindness. I REALLY love to laugh, and try to have as much fun as possible in everyday life. I have travelled to many places in my life, and want to continue to travel, hopefully with my new lady. I am a bit older, but I'm very young at heart. I'm always passionate with the one that I love, and try hard to keep her satisfied 💕. I can be serious when needed, but I always tell people that I may get older, but I refuse to grow up! 😁 I'm good with tools, and good at fixing things, and not afraid to get dirty to get a job done.
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Hmmmm where to start. I love riding my Harley. I like all sports, would rather play than watch but I don't mind sitting back and watching one. Right now I'm working on getting my black belt in TKD, I also like to bowl, darts, shoot pool, just about anything. I like to travel and explore new places and experience new things. I'm willing to do just about do anything new, even jumping out an airplane (maybe). I like quiet nite's at home or going out and having a good time. I also like si-fi and reading is one of my passions. I consider myself to be a good person and have a good heart. I'm not looking for a supermodel or a woman with movie star looks, I just want a woman that's beautiful to me :-). If you have kids that's great, I like being a family man and adore children. I have two daughters but they are now grow up and have their own lives, we still keep in touch and I love them very much. Well I think that's enough about me for now. well since we should be honest I can no longer have any children, but like I said earlier if you have any that is great I love being a family man. So if that is a problem I can truly understand. My hobbies: I'm working on getting my black belt in TKD, I also like to bowl, darts, shoot pool, just about anything. I like to travel and explore new places and experience new things.
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