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58 Huyton, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Occupation: Retired
I would best describe myself as a typically English gentleman and former dedicated public servant. NOT a typical English/Western tourist. I do not wish to recapture my teenage years. I dislike rudeness, drunkeness or big loud egos. Strength comes from a calm quiet approach. I value patience, courtesy, respect, faithfulness, honesty, sincerity and truthfulness even in the face of rejection or disadvantage. I would simply walk away from people who fail to display those qualities. I would describe myself as fearless in this regard. I have spent 30 years as a Registered Nurse caring for others. I value very highly that same caring nature in other people. I am not easily fooled. I have had my hard lessons and have learned from them. I don't need any more. I have worked with people who have drug and alcohol addiction for many years. It's unlikely someone would be able to fool me with anything new. I would take any attempt to fool me to be a sign of disrespect for me. You may have had to kiss a lot of frogs in the hope of finding your prince, but I am not a frog. I don't want to hop from lily pad to lily pad. I am patient, a good listener, I prefer to listen, and would rather show kindness than control. I am calm and forgiving in nature. I am not the solution to all your problems, but I can be a support when you need help to solve your own difficulties. I have a good imagination, I am constantly curious about the world and the people in it. I enjoy solving problems. I can speak my mind without needing to hurt or impress. I would look for someone who can do the same. Someone who knows the difference between a discussion and an argument. Someone who knows how to agree to disagree but values and respects the opinions of others. I am a good communicator, who uses their communication skills for the happiness and benefit of others. I cannot relate to those who do not try to communicate in this way. I have no religion but would respect those who do as long as they didn't try to push me into theirs. If religion takes priority over people for you, we probably wouldn't get on very well. I value friendship more than activity or excitement. Relationships are built on trust. Building takes time, effort and a will to succeed. I much prefer intimacy to naked sex. Intimacy requires deep trust and communication. I prefer to give than recieve but I will only take what is freely given with genuine affection. I never demand anything. I know the difference between fantasy and reality, talking about fantasy doesn't mean it has to happen. I do have a completely open mind. If sex is your work, I do not judge how you make your living or what you needed to do to survive, but I am not your work and never expect to be. I simply wouldn't be interested in that type of interaction. I might be interested in the person underneath. I am also not interested in those who see other human beings as 'business', to be used solely for personal gain. I love children, but more than that I understand another persons child is the most important thing in the world to them. I would never try to replace a parent. I would never intentionally hurt a child and absolutely detest with a passion those who abuse childrens trust. I may or may not want children with a new partner, however if you already have children I would base my decision upon how you treat your own children and the relationship you have with them. I have no outdated views on gender specific roles. I believe the happiest times come when sharing the simplest tasks as a partnership. I do not need a trophy, I prefer not to make public displays of ownership or affection. I do like to have fun. I would describe myself as fit and active, but not'sporty'. I have no competitive instinct. I think I have a good sense of humour, if a little different to the usual since I like humour coupled with a good imagination and understanding of the world. I like music and love to dance, but I don't like overly loud music or dark crowded places. I drink alcohol rarely and would never be interested in drugs, since I always prefer to remain in complete control of myself around those I may not trust, or who may need my help. I prefer a good intimate restaurant and good conversation to bars and loud 'nightlife'. I would rather go for a walk on a deserted beach than have a crowd of half naked people screaming around me. When choosing clothes, I prefer smart to casual. I like to present myself well, however I tend to be less than impressed by those obsessed with self. I don't want or need a supermodel, diva, or royalty in my life. It is an old cliche I know, but I truly believe beauty is within. Initially I'm looking to learn about you. If trust is built, friendship would naturally follow. If the friendship is deep enough, then I am happy to go where it leads. A really good friend would know, I would move heaven and Earth to make them happy if I could. If it wasn't clear from the above: No sex talk. No webcam. No pay to play. No trying to take me as a fool. No ladyboys.



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