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Matthew
38 Newark, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 21 - 37
Body style: Average
I'm an artist, working dead end minimum wage to pay the bills and having a great time with nothing but dreams and unconventional ethics of behaviour. I don't believe in 'better' do you understand what I mean by that? True grace and joy are not in pursuit of material excesses or the ever rising satiation of desires, it is in perceiving and commingling with the 'real' whether dreams or manifested solidities that we can express our substantive purpose as beings. What I mean, in a nutshell, is that, I find very little of the competitive mamaalian games our species engages in, money, power, dominance, and even mainstream sexuality and conventional renditions of gender to be deeply unsatifying and quite frankly, near laughable. I won't spend my life building a big pile of useless shit from the waste of effort and experience so that I can stand and thump my chest, breed and die having never questioned what I could have or might have found in the bliss and freedom beyond being a conventional human and life. Is all of this too much for a first few lines? I like to laugh, I like to tell stories, I like to make sure you get what's best from me, even if you don't know, or if what you need is for me to make sure I don't get what I want. I have fallen in love many times but it has never been right for me. I sometimes wonder after all the things I have turned away from so that I could have the one I truly show my inner and private reality to in my dreams of love, I think sometimes now, as I pass into my thirties that it might be that I will never find her, that all the love I have saved will be lost and never found again. Isn't that tragic? So, I hope you have some sense of who I am from listening to me think. People always agonise about these introductions, the secret is that you can do nothing wrong if you do the truth, and no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to change that truth of who you are. So, whatever you write, cannot be anything but perfect. Everything everywhere is perfect and some asshole invented money and television. What a genius huh? And in the face of these problems I am a self supporting singleton, a writer, a geek, a scholar, student, most of the time alone, reading the works of all my favourite immortal geniuses in the night. I have no responsibilities but my creative work and my rent, and I have not much to say as mere introduction than that. I wish very deeply to find someone to talk to, even if it is not in a romantic sense, I want to be able to say what I'm thinking. This world is full of sex, pleasure, glamour, it has every puerile deluded distortion of human bliss to offer us. But there is a serious condition of lovelessness in our world and it's carousel. People have forsaken love. I had to say no, so many times, to all manner of things, when not one human being who would share her body, wanted to even ask my name. In lying and emptiness, I continue to tell the truth and having Buddha nature always at hand, I laugh, and dance, and mutter. A pleasure to have made your acquaintance. My name is Matthew. If you want to know more, then ask, and don't be thinking that a certain age or certain type is not my type until you've asked. All nations, cultures, physical and emotional strengths of the global human totality have within them a power that makes each seem ever more precious. I truly do believe that what will save us in the end is our genuine and sincere admiration for the human diversity and stamina of all the earths people. I dream lucidly often and hear voices from the far past and the near world of now, always there is beauty. Beautiful is beautiful to me and it doesn't matter for anything else in comparison to that. I won't hold back. I will be sweet. I am putting out this call, come and find me and talk to me and then when we are beyond all other loves of one another, get close to being able to see and be pure in one another, and let's agree to be blissful and to be brave, let's want to do what we like, let's be like perfect mammals who have the grace of the last human divinities to seduce and enrapture our reality at the final and infinite choices of forever becoming our flesh and voices. Let us answer the question of time and space with: Yes. Can we cross the world and all of time and matter to look each other in the eye?
Tom
70 Merton, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 23 - 53
Body style: Average
I am looking for an exclusive (just one, just you) relationship that can develop naturally. I'm also looking for a truly great friend, definitely compatible and definitely wanting to go in the same direction in life. I travel a lot and so and I'm quite independant with few responsibilities. That means I can live almost anywhere (within financial restraints). I am lookimg for someone strong that is quite emotionally self-sufficient that has their own interests and life and is not needy; someone that realises that other people can't make you happy and that true happiness (and love) comes from inside you. But I do believe in an agreed exclusive relationship and enjoying life to the full...as friends and partners. This is me (at the present time): I travel and I explore - both outer and inner worlds - and I'm quite adventurous. I think life is both an adventure and a school that reminds us who we are. I'm also curious: understanding why things are the way they are and the deeper (as far as I can fathom) meaning is important to me. I'd like to be more simple and natural and in relation to that, the natural world - everything that surrounds us in nature - shows us sublime manifest beauty. It's a wonder! Nature is self-sufficient and economical and that's what I aim for. I'm not materialistic and the mad chase for more and more superficial 'things' is crazy. Though I do realise that there are certain things that are needed...but a lot less than we think. But that's easy for me to say because I've never been hungry! I'm not religious though I think it's important that people have the freedom to explore life for themselves and make their own mistakes - that's how we learn I think. I understand that it is important to be open mindedly sceptical and to embrace uncertainty - because a lot of what we're told by others (parents, teachers, spiritual advisers etc is just rubbish...lol). Lastly, I'm a happy, relatively relaxed person who loves to laugh a lot. I find the world and life endlessly amusing and almost a big joke except for the fact that many people turn it into a tragedy. Good luck!
Jay
48 City of London, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 25 - 43
Body style: Average
Reasons to get to know me: Yes I have facebook, but I dont use it much archie.shah.1804 is a good place to start (if you understand what I mean)! I know excellent jokes (what do you call a fake noodle?...An Impasta!)…HAH! I know, I could take this show on the road! I have my own hair (and no, it doesn’t come off at night or in strong winds). I can make an excellent mojito. I can get an airplane off the ground (I haven’t had enough lessons to actually land the thing, but let’s not worry about silly little details). I’m great with kids (Sofa forts, Lego spaceships NERF gun battles and colouring in books). Yes, I have a son, No, he doesn’t live with me, No, no mummy replacements required. I don’t have a fantasy woman, or a ridiculous checklist of attributes that you have no chance of competing against. I’m just looking for normal…somebody with a mature attitude who recognises that a good relationship takes time and effort, won’t get stroppy when things aren’t going well (just like the stock market, relationships can go up as well as down!)…you know… the basics. Reasons to stay clear: I know terrible jokes (what do you call a fake noodle?...An Impasta!)…HAH! I know, I’m sorry – It won’t happen again…actually it will, but at least you’ve been warned! You don’t like being surprised by dinners that I’ve cooked and think penne arrabiata should come out of a jar. You hate travel. You don’t want a conscientious man with a good heart. You want a man with DIY Skills. I’m absolutely pants at DIY...no seriously, I don’t have the patience. I can create an awesome website, or knock up a beautiful presentation overlaid with a funky tune analysing what the problem is, but its best I stay away from actually fixing things...and power tools! Unless you fancy a laugh, in which case give me a screwdriver, stand well back and let the good times roll! Just like a politician, I’ve managed to say a lot without actually saying anything about me. If you’d like to know more you can read more

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