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Erik
59 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 34
Hello. Let me try this one more time. 1 If you can't be loyal and true to the one you're engaged to, don't bother reading any further. I don't want you in my life. 2. I will not ask to see vulgar pictures of you. If you happen to be beautiful, I'll enjoy looking at you. I won't deny that. But keep your cloths on! that kind of behavior is for after marriage in person!, not during the courting period! 3. I will not send you $. Does that sound fair? No webcam peekaboo and no $ requests. That's not what this sight is about. I know, only time will tell. Both the Cad and the virtuous man will tell you they are trustworthy. Only time will allow you and I to know the difference, but now I have made those requests in writing. If I break my word you will know that I am not trustworthy and you can move on. I've been engaged and heart broken twice. One time the woman broke it off only to marry another four months later. You know what happened there. The second time the woman actually "ghosted" me… A fiancee in your country just "disappeared" while my home was being repossessed. A difficult time of my life made much more difficult by that woman who just disappeared. I didn't know if she was alive or dead, just gone. Years later she reappeared and said she'd marry me tomorrow. I don't know about you, but I couldn't trust that woman with my heart again. I've been through a great deal the last few years, and yet I keep trying. And here I am again! When i was in the philippines twice to see That Woman 1 and to be interrogated by her family, everyone described me as "jolly" as I do have a sense of humor. I believe in using humor to help, not hurt, so I do not enjoy jokes at the expense of others. Doesn't go well with a kind heart, when you think about it. Everyone I know seems to describe me as "kind" and I'm okay with that, too. If you have a kind heart, you have to learn to keep people from taking advantage of you early on. I was almost killed in a very severe car accident years ago. After that and a miraculous recovery that took 18 months work on my part, I accepted the Lord. Joined a church. Became a worship leader. met fiancee 1, sister of philipinos i went to church with.. Lost that lead worship position to an ambitious newcomer, Lost fiancee 1. After several years of struggle, Had to take early retirement because of chronic pain linked to that accident. Lost house and fiancee 2 and then finally the retirement was approved. At the moment I'm living quietly in a small place in an area with more trees than people. I prefer that. it's quiet and peaceful here. I am trying to write a book partially about my recovery, but also about my attitude during that recovery. If you look, there are many books about TBI recoveries. But none that I've seen about how to approach that difficult experience. So I'm trying, but I struggle with organization and execution of complex tasks now. "executive functions" the Drs call it. So if you're good with details and stuff like that and can be patient with someone who has a good heart, but has issues in that area, we might make a good couple. I guess I'm looking for a life partner. We will both have our strengths and weaknesses I suppose, like any couple. Mind you, I am able to write this, so I'm not so badly affected that you would notice in every day life. If you want to work, I'm fine with that. My retirement is not a fortune, but with care it can be sufficient. If you want to send most of your money home, that's fine with me. Nurse? There's still a great job market here for that here. (My mom was a nurse, though she passed away a few years ago). The chronic pain I suffer with is known as "cluster headache" and does not plague me every day. They come and go. I do have light sensitivity and prefer quiet while suffering, but am okay when they're gone. I am getting on in years for children. One of my regrets. Something about almost dying made me want children. If you have a child or perhaps two, I would love to be a father. I'm not against having children, of course. I just want to be able to support them well in all respects. I get along well with children and pets. (love them both) I am very honest and will not tolerate lies or deceit. I am really tired of giving my heart to people who don't value it. I won't believe you if you say the "L" word in the first few weeks. (L=Love). Seriously, love takes time! My hobbies are reading, writing, and restoring old cars. I buy them, fix them and sell them. Doesn't really pay a lot, but keeps me busy and happy, and I get a certain satisfaction from the act of taking something old and worn out, and restoring it to beautiful new condition. I do not drink other than socially a few times a year. Nor do i gamble. I hope I don't sound too boring to you. thank you for your time Good luck in your search..
Robert
51 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 36
Patrick
52 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40
Sean
47 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40
Art
53 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
Dean
58 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 49
Vinnie
55 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 30
sam
53 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 45
calvin
61 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 44
randall
67 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 46
Dwayne
58 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 47
Dean
58 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 48
justin
31 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 31
Cleve
67 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
steven
30 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 21

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