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Garret
82 Bend, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 62
Larry
62 Corvallis, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 45
My dear friends in Thailand. I have just returned from my second visit to your most wonderful country. I am so sorry I had to come back to the states and help with my family as I wanted to help you more with the terrible floods near Northburi. I've been on this site now for some time. Some people think that is unusual but I am sincere. I have traveled to BKK and now have some great long term friends. However, Karma and natural events have kept me from meeting some wonder people and perhaps a perfect match for marriage on both of my prior trips. I would so love to come to visit again soon but I will need to move away from BKK and find more reasonable accomodations as you know those hotels in BKK can be quite expensive. I am very optimistic that Karma will one day bring me just the right person. I am learning so much about Thai culture and I am still having such a hard time with the language. And, I have not found just the right woman yet. It takes more than friendship, it takes chemistry...and I am still looking for that chemistry. And, it seems that something happens to prevent me from meeting some great new friends and possibly the right woman every time I come to your wonderful country. First the death of my own father and now the floods....third time will be the charm, I can't wait to see your wonderful country again! Sincerely, Dr. Larry J. Yes, it is difficult to overcome the language and trust barrier. I'm Professional, active, fun, compassionate, father, musician, teacher, business owner looking for life partner. I want to thank all who have written over the past two years. I think that Thai women are the most beautiful in the world. Let's be honest here......I don't know much of the Thai language, I will learn more as time goes on....however, if you don't speak English enough to talk on the phone with me we are not going to be able to work things out. I need someone with basic English skills enough to be able to help me learn Thai.
Erik
58 Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 34
Hello. Let me try this one more time. 1 If you can't be loyal and true to the one you're engaged to, don't bother reading any further. I don't want you in my life. 2. I will not ask to see vulgar pictures of you. If you happen to be beautiful, I'll enjoy looking at you. I won't deny that. But keep your cloths on! that kind of behavior is for after marriage in person!, not during the courting period! 3. I will not send you $. Does that sound fair? No webcam peekaboo and no $ requests. That's not what this sight is about. I know, only time will tell. Both the Cad and the virtuous man will tell you they are trustworthy. Only time will allow you and I to know the difference, but now I have made those requests in writing. If I break my word you will know that I am not trustworthy and you can move on. I've been engaged and heart broken twice. One time the woman broke it off only to marry another four months later. You know what happened there. The second time the woman actually "ghosted" me… A fiancee in your country just "disappeared" while my home was being repossessed. A difficult time of my life made much more difficult by that woman who just disappeared. I didn't know if she was alive or dead, just gone. Years later she reappeared and said she'd marry me tomorrow. I don't know about you, but I couldn't trust that woman with my heart again. I've been through a great deal the last few years, and yet I keep trying. And here I am again! When i was in the philippines twice to see That Woman 1 and to be interrogated by her family, everyone described me as "jolly" as I do have a sense of humor. I believe in using humor to help, not hurt, so I do not enjoy jokes at the expense of others. Doesn't go well with a kind heart, when you think about it. Everyone I know seems to describe me as "kind" and I'm okay with that, too. If you have a kind heart, you have to learn to keep people from taking advantage of you early on. I was almost killed in a very severe car accident years ago. After that and a miraculous recovery that took 18 months work on my part, I accepted the Lord. Joined a church. Became a worship leader. met fiancee 1, sister of philipinos i went to church with.. Lost that lead worship position to an ambitious newcomer, Lost fiancee 1. After several years of struggle, Had to take early retirement because of chronic pain linked to that accident. Lost house and fiancee 2 and then finally the retirement was approved. At the moment I'm living quietly in a small place in an area with more trees than people. I prefer that. it's quiet and peaceful here. I am trying to write a book partially about my recovery, but also about my attitude during that recovery. If you look, there are many books about TBI recoveries. But none that I've seen about how to approach that difficult experience. So I'm trying, but I struggle with organization and execution of complex tasks now. "executive functions" the Drs call it. So if you're good with details and stuff like that and can be patient with someone who has a good heart, but has issues in that area, we might make a good couple. I guess I'm looking for a life partner. We will both have our strengths and weaknesses I suppose, like any couple. Mind you, I am able to write this, so I'm not so badly affected that you would notice in every day life. If you want to work, I'm fine with that. My retirement is not a fortune, but with care it can be sufficient. If you want to send most of your money home, that's fine with me. Nurse? There's still a great job market here for that here. (My mom was a nurse, though she passed away a few years ago). The chronic pain I suffer with is known as "cluster headache" and does not plague me every day. They come and go. I do have light sensitivity and prefer quiet while suffering, but am okay when they're gone. I am getting on in years for children. One of my regrets. Something about almost dying made me want children. If you have a child or perhaps two, I would love to be a father. I'm not against having children, of course. I just want to be able to support them well in all respects. I get along well with children and pets. (love them both) I am very honest and will not tolerate lies or deceit. I am really tired of giving my heart to people who don't value it. I won't believe you if you say the "L" word in the first few weeks. (L=Love). Seriously, love takes time! My hobbies are reading, writing, and restoring old cars. I buy them, fix them and sell them. Doesn't really pay a lot, but keeps me busy and happy, and I get a certain satisfaction from the act of taking something old and worn out, and restoring it to beautiful new condition. I do not drink other than socially a few times a year. Nor do i gamble. I hope I don't sound too boring to you. thank you for your time Good luck in your search..

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