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J.D.
48 Dalton, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
(Please Read Profile Fully…) . Hello My nickname is JD, it's a name my friends gave me back in high school. I use it instead of my given name on public profiles. If you and I become close, I'll reveal my actual name. . First, the most important aspect of making a lifelong commitment with someone…understanding the innermost spirit and most deeply held philosophies. I am an adherent of the philosophy of Double Belonging as described by Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh. I am both a practicing Buddhist and a believing Christian. I ascribe to the teachings and philosophy of both Jesus Christ of Nazareth, the Messiah, and Buddha Siddhartha Guatama, the Enlightened. I give the same deference to both houses of knowledge, faith and wisdom, and show no preference to one over the other. I feel at home in a Buddhist Temple and a Christian Church, and am happy to be in either or both with you. . I don't speak or understand Thai language (I'm using a translation app to help), but if you're willing to take a chance on me and plan to spend our lives together, I'm very willing to learn Thai. At my age, I don't know if I'd ever be fluent, but I will learn as much as I possibly can. . I am a traditional man. My dream is to find a lovely woman with a traditional heart to be my best friend, my destined wife and my one and only true love. I believe a loving relationship consists of 3 equally crucial parts, and if any part is missing, the relationship will not last. They are: . 1. Trust. A relationship cannot exist without trust. Knowing that your love and you are always loyal to each other, honest with each other, don’t hide anything from each other and only love each other and no one else is the only way a loving relationship or marriage will last. . 2. Communication. This is so important! Even in a relationship where there’s some difficulty with language barriers, it’s still extremely important to find a way to communicate with each other. Thanks to apps now, there are ways of translating language, but…technology can’t fix a problem if we aren’t willing to talk to begin with. Talking is so important, especially when something is misunderstood, to bring it to understanding. Let’s face it, we’re all humans…and sometimes, humans disagree. We can’t stop talking when something causes a disagreement. Because that caused resentment, and ultimately distrust. So being willing to talk with each other, even when times are tough, is vital to a relationship’s success. . 3. Intimacy. Showing each other affection is paramount in a loving relationship. Hugging each other. Holding hands. Smiling at each other. Kissing. Cooking together. Brushing your teeth together. Walking arm in arm in public. Showering together. Dancing together. Exercising together. Making love to each other. Just spending your lives together. To be in love with someone means you show them love with time and being present with them and for them. . I have never traveled to Thailand, but I hope to someday…maybe even relocate to Thailand permanently in the years ahead. Though I haven’t traveled, I’ve spent a great deal of time researching life in Thailand and what is expected when a Western person visits or relocates there. I will be straightforward and honest…I do not like city life or urban environments. Where I live here in the United States, it’s a rural mountainous subtropical region of the Gulf/Atlantic Southeast. It’s a small, quiet town with very few public events…and that’s the way I like it. So even though I may arrive in a big city, you won’t find me in a place like Bangkok, Pattaya or Phuket. I will very quickly make my way to a more rural area of the country. I said all of that to say this……I’m very aware of the dating culture in the urban areas of Thailand, the pay-to-date arrangements, “professional girlfriends”, and “700B ST/1500B LT” propositions. I must make it clear in no uncertain terms, I am absolutely NOT interested in any of that…NOT at ALL!!! I am seeking a wonderful woman to spend the rest of my life with, not just a sex partner. If that’s all I wanted, I could find that here in my country. I will never be part of a transactional relationship. I will not buy your affection with money. If you and I are meant to be, it will be for love and happiness and friendship…NOT for gratification or financial necessity. If you’re here to find true love, I want to get to know you and see where the conversation leads. If you’re here to find a “sugar daddy”, I’m not the one you’re looking for, but I wish you all the best in your search. . I apologize in advance if it takes a long time to respond to your message. I work long hours (an average of 60-70 hours a week). Please don’t take the long delay as disinterest. I promise to reply as soon as I can. . Now, some honest talk about children, because I know how important this is to many of you. The truth is, I’m simply too old to bring children into this world (in terms of responsible child rearing, not physically). I believe my age would put an undue burden on my child to care for me in my elder years while they are still at a young age and trying to begin their own life. Because of this, I’m planning to have a vasectomy later this year, to prevent any chance of conception. This doesn’t mean I’m not happy or willing to be a part of your child’s life if you have children already. So please don’t think I would reject you because you have kids already. But if it’s really important to you to conceive and give birth in your future relationship, then I’m probably not a man you want to consider for your future. I know it may not sound like it makes sense, but I just want to be honest with you up front, so you can take that into consideration before deciding to commit to a future with me. . Ladyboys, I have the utmost respect for you and the path you are on, but I’m just not interested. I apologize, it is not a decision rooted in ignorance or prejudice. It’s simply the “law of attraction”, and natural anatomy is what I’m drawn to. Many of you are very beautiful, and there is someone out there waiting to spend their life with you. I wish you the very very best in your search for love and happiness. . I am NOT vaccinated with the Covid-19 vaccine, and I have no plans to take it. Here in the United States, the Covid vaccine is poison. Sadly, it has caused many deaths, many more deaths than Covid caused, and for many people it has caused life threatening and irreversible, untreatable injuries. My standing rule is I won’t take any vaccine (and most medications) that hasn’t been in use for at least a minimum of 10 years. With this latest vaccine, I’m actually more concerned about the treatment and prevention than the disease (and yes, I’ve already had Covid once, 3 years ago)…and my natural immunity has proven far more effective than any vaccine. I’m telling you this because, to date, I’m not aware how global policies will affect my ability to travel. But if I’m unable to travel to you, I have the means to bring you here. We will work out those details if you choose to spend your life with me. I pray you don’t find my point of view unreasonable…it’s better to be safe than sorry.

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