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Matthew
38 Newark, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 21 - 37
Home type: Apartment / Flat
I'm an artist, working dead end minimum wage to pay the bills and having a great time with nothing but dreams and unconventional ethics of behaviour. I don't believe in 'better' do you understand what I mean by that? True grace and joy are not in pursuit of material excesses or the ever rising satiation of desires, it is in perceiving and commingling with the 'real' whether dreams or manifested solidities that we can express our substantive purpose as beings. What I mean, in a nutshell, is that, I find very little of the competitive mamaalian games our species engages in, money, power, dominance, and even mainstream sexuality and conventional renditions of gender to be deeply unsatifying and quite frankly, near laughable. I won't spend my life building a big pile of useless shit from the waste of effort and experience so that I can stand and thump my chest, breed and die having never questioned what I could have or might have found in the bliss and freedom beyond being a conventional human and life. Is all of this too much for a first few lines? I like to laugh, I like to tell stories, I like to make sure you get what's best from me, even if you don't know, or if what you need is for me to make sure I don't get what I want. I have fallen in love many times but it has never been right for me. I sometimes wonder after all the things I have turned away from so that I could have the one I truly show my inner and private reality to in my dreams of love, I think sometimes now, as I pass into my thirties that it might be that I will never find her, that all the love I have saved will be lost and never found again. Isn't that tragic? So, I hope you have some sense of who I am from listening to me think. People always agonise about these introductions, the secret is that you can do nothing wrong if you do the truth, and no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to change that truth of who you are. So, whatever you write, cannot be anything but perfect. Everything everywhere is perfect and some asshole invented money and television. What a genius huh? And in the face of these problems I am a self supporting singleton, a writer, a geek, a scholar, student, most of the time alone, reading the works of all my favourite immortal geniuses in the night. I have no responsibilities but my creative work and my rent, and I have not much to say as mere introduction than that. I wish very deeply to find someone to talk to, even if it is not in a romantic sense, I want to be able to say what I'm thinking. This world is full of sex, pleasure, glamour, it has every puerile deluded distortion of human bliss to offer us. But there is a serious condition of lovelessness in our world and it's carousel. People have forsaken love. I had to say no, so many times, to all manner of things, when not one human being who would share her body, wanted to even ask my name. In lying and emptiness, I continue to tell the truth and having Buddha nature always at hand, I laugh, and dance, and mutter. A pleasure to have made your acquaintance. My name is Matthew. If you want to know more, then ask, and don't be thinking that a certain age or certain type is not my type until you've asked. All nations, cultures, physical and emotional strengths of the global human totality have within them a power that makes each seem ever more precious. I truly do believe that what will save us in the end is our genuine and sincere admiration for the human diversity and stamina of all the earths people. I dream lucidly often and hear voices from the far past and the near world of now, always there is beauty. Beautiful is beautiful to me and it doesn't matter for anything else in comparison to that. I won't hold back. I will be sweet. I am putting out this call, come and find me and talk to me and then when we are beyond all other loves of one another, get close to being able to see and be pure in one another, and let's agree to be blissful and to be brave, let's want to do what we like, let's be like perfect mammals who have the grace of the last human divinities to seduce and enrapture our reality at the final and infinite choices of forever becoming our flesh and voices. Let us answer the question of time and space with: Yes. Can we cross the world and all of time and matter to look each other in the eye?
Duncan
41 Newcastle-upon-Tyne, Tyne & Wear, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 21 - 37
Home type: Apartment / Flat
I'm loyal, honest, straight talking. A typical Gemini, I have manners, values and treat most people with respect. (Treat others how i expect to be treated myself.) Im Scottish and Im NOT a massive drinker, (i know, that doesn't sound truthful does it? haha but it is) id rather save money to do other things (travel) and i guess that's why im giving this website a try because its very difficult for me to meet someone. Plus i would prefer to find a foreign girlfriend as i think western girls dont know how to act like girls anymore. Hopefully i can click with someone on here that develops into something more. Even if i just make a new friend im happy with that, Im ultra-easy to get along with but all that doesn't mean I'm boring, far from it. Im actually a pretty good catch (I am! lol :p) love to laugh, even at myself because I am pretty funny to be fair. A little mischievous & a bit of an opportunist. When the whole world is falling to pieces, i will always be the 1 person you can rely on. So there it is. A brief description of myself. :) Ideally i would like to find someone i can take round the world with me for fun times and adventure! .... and if im not your type, then more fool you! haha :p nah i sincerely wish you all the best. bye bye x :) *04/09/15* I finally completed my video edit from when i travelled S.E. Asia last year, you are more than welcome to view it. search on youtube for 'SWM does backpacking S.E. Asia (39 days in 39 mins)' i made it to show friends on facebook and to learn how to video edit. (just skim through it because it is quite long but give the video a thumbs up anyway as i worked so hard on it :), thanks) These are the kind of Adventures i live for and want to do more of. Im fed up of doing these things alone now and it seems such a shame that im crying out for a soulmate when we should be doing these things together no? before we get too old n all that :) I understand its not that easy if you already have children and if you do, don't let that put you of contacting me, If we are compatible then that wont be an issue at all. If you search Youtube and look for a video with the title : 'SWM does Backpacking S.E. Asia (39 Days in 39 Mins)' this is a video i made of myself travelling S.E. Asia last year :)

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