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Patrick
60 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40
Seeking True Partner (Verified Only)
I’m a professional man who values loyalty, kindness, and deep emotional connection. I’ve been successful in my life and career, and now I want to focus on sharing my life with someone special. I travel often for work, and I love exploring new cultures, food, and experiences. I’m calm, patient, affectionate, and I care deeply for the people in my life. Family is important to me. I am looking for a partner who wants stability, respect, laughter, and real closeness — not games, drama, or temporary things. Life is better when we support each other. I am stable and secure in my life. I take good care of myself and the people I love.
Dan
69 • Chino Hills, California, United States
Seeking: Female
🎶 Music in my soul • Thailand in my future 🌴
Successful, retired IT Executive University of Michigan Engineer Former Director of Music Studios at U of M Living an active, sabai sabai life to the fullest 🌴 Staying near EmQuartier for Nov and Dec I’m serious about building a peaceful, joyful life in Thailand Looking for coffee, food, music, and someone special. 🇹🇭 I’m hiring a daytime part-time assistant for Nov and Dec for a sabai sabai stay in Bangkok. งูๆ ปลาๆ' English is ok 😃 Great hourly wage. I pay for all meals, drinks, snacks, and transport. If you or someone you know is interested message or like me 🇹🇭 🎵 Music Music is truly in my soul. I previously served as the Director of Music and Recording Studios at the University of Michigan. I love club dancing. On the dance floor, the man is the frame so the woman can be the picture. It’s electric to guide a woman in a way that lets her laugh, glow, and shine. And if the DJ plays the right song, I might even surprise myself with a few extra moves. Music is the rhythm connecting my entire life. I’ve had an incredible journey in the music and tech world. From recording classical icons to working with legendary rock musicians and hanging with New York City Opera members. These days, my playlist is a mix of big band jazz, old blues, Bach, Mozart, Taylor Swift, Adele -- I will dance to anything with a great beat. Like Despacito, Rain On Me, Lean On, Blinding Lights, Pearls, 24K Magic, I like boys-4EVE, Dejayou - PiXXiE, ZOLAR 🐝 At Home I enjoy simple daily pleasures, like keeping bees and butterflies, growing a wall of roses. I talk to my tomato plants. If they start an argument, they get turned into pasta sauce! (The basil always agrees with me) 🌿🍅 Laughter is my favorite language, and I speak it fluently. I love spontaneous road trips, and chilling in places with a great evening atmosphere.
James
61 • Costa Mesa, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 52
Kindness is the key!
I DO NOT HAVE WHATSAPP, OR ANY OTHER APPS. If that does not work for you, please move on! DO NOT "like" or message me! I am a good man with a great sense of humor who is both loving and attentive. I want the woman I am with to know that she is the one and only. I am 60 years old, so please keep that in mind. I would consider myself as both experienced and worldly.
steve
62 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 39
Prince looking for Princess
I'm from Northern California, Europe, and Israeli, I look very young. I think I am quiet, easy-going, and friendly with others. I am a very romantic and need to find the same in my future partner. I am very active and friendly, I am sure I can make anyone laugh and have a good time. I am caring, gentle, and warm in a relationship. I believe in honesty. I like having deep conversations about all things. I am honest, responsible, and sincere. I am an artist who makes Whiskey. It is enormously fun to travel and sell it in small venues. The coolest places I have visited are England, Switzerland, China, Japan, Israel, Italy, Morocco. I have done archaeology in most of these place. And at the top of some very tall mountains, were the sound stops, and mountains go on forever.
Alan
58 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 35
Love is an Adventure—Let’s Conquer It Together!
I’m a passionate, adventurous man who believes life is best lived with a big smile and an open heart. Whether I’m hiking up a mountain, dancing the night away, or planning my next getaway to a tropical paradise, I approach everything with energy, enthusiasm, and a youthful spirit. I’m confident, playful, and unapologetically myself. My friends would describe me as charming, ambitious, and always the guy who can turn any situation into a good time. From spontaneous road trips to quiet evenings with great conversation and wine, I’m all about creating memorable moments.
Camareno
49 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 43
All You Need Is Love
I am a Logistics Businessman I have a Son (10) and I like to golf, hike, sail, property investing & and travel. I’m an introvert by nature but my work has made me more comfortable to become more social to converse. I’m looking for serious relationship I am searching for my queen 👸🏻🩷
john
67 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 45
Nice American Man Seeking Special Woman
I'm tall and handsome. I've travelled through 45 countries and enjoy meeting people. I am very athletic and love sports. People are very surprised that I have never been married because I am very affectionate and loving. I lead a simple life. I am not your typical American. A good/romantic relationship is very important to me.
JC
48 • Glendale, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 48
Open to Fun and Fulfilling Connections
I enjoy the simple things—good food, beach walks, catching a movie, or just relaxing with great company. Life's been good to me, and now I'm looking to add some new experiences and meaningful connections. I'm down-to-earth, respectful, and have a good sense of humor. I love traveling and am very open to visiting the Philippines to meet someone special in person. No pressure—just genuine chats and seeing where things go. If you're kind, fun to talk to, and open-minded, I'd love to hear from you!
Adam
48 • Irvine, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 31
Ve a donde te lleve el corazón ✈️🌎🏝️🏃🏻‍♂️
I live in Las Vegas, but originally from Southern California. I live in Vegas for work. I am a hardworking man that believes in good values. I love to laugh, travel and try to make a positive impact on others. I also have been known to dance, even th
William, aka Bill.
78 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 22
Devoted father seeking wife and large family
I come here for one purpose: my forever wife. Marriage, children, warmth, honesty and mutual respect. Former national park ranger who loves nature, beaches and the outdoors. I live for time with children — zoos, museums, aquariums, playgrounds and beaches. A day well spent ends with tired, happy kids. My faith is sincere. I’d gladly join my wife in her church and raise our children together in faith. I’ve spent my life serving others — fighting successfully to restore lost wages for 20,000+ federal employees and bringing foreign language education to children starting first grade. Open to building our home wherever family thrives — possibly Hawaii, where Filipino culture is strong. Strong family genes — grandparents reached 100, one lived across three centuries.
HK
64 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 50
Find a soulmate to share time and life together.
I find it very difficult to introduce myself properly without selling myself, which I don't like to do. For me, I feel comfortable in my own skin and would much rather you ask me questions directly. We get to know our compatibility and discover our chemistry through communication. I had backpacked twice to Europe and the Middle East. Solo motorcycling from San Jose, CA to South America once. Lately I am trying to get back into yoga and pilates. l like riding my scooter along the coastal highway just to soak in the sun and enjoy the scenery. One of my most favorite things to do is to try the local foods when I travel. I love to seek out the places where the locals eat. The open night food markets where they cook in the open and you sit down and eat right there is the best. I like simple, yet beautiful things. Nothing complicated. Hoping to meet someone who is sincere and understanding. Value her own and others' cultures. Nature and its beauty attracts me as well as other man made creations that are stylish and tasteful. Want to find someone I can converse and share common interests and inner feelings with. Communicating, feeling, sharing then loving is the path I am expecting and looking for. I strongly believe that when we look into another person's profile and pictures, if it clicks and stimulating you can feel it. Best of luck in finding that important missing part of your life. Thank you.
Ryan A.
50 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 65
Scammers don't text me, I won't reply to you.
I’m a disciplined and focused person who believes in loyalty, respect, and doing things the right way. I take my responsibilities seriously, but I also know how to relax, laugh, and enjoy good company. I value honesty, real connection, and people who keep it genuine.
Hayden
41 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
I Am Married...
I am married to an American girl... I am a computer system manager in Los Angeles, California. I have lived in Japan as an English teacher. I am interested in art, music, and psychology. I like to surprise my girlfriend with something good... I can visit you four times per year.
Paul
46 • Novato, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 36
Looking for the one 😉
Hi there:) I’m looking for a woman that can eventually be my best friend and my wife to have a family and great life together. it’s that simple 🤪 I’m on Filipino Cupid because I think Filipina have amazing values, and culture, and food😃, and are ve
Joseph
41 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 47
Adventurous and open, looking for a connection.
Allow me to introduce myself—a man of integrity and unwavering spirit in search of adventures, who greatly values nature. With a heart full of passion and a love for exploration, I find peace in the beauty of nature and the thrill of new experiences.
Michael
71 • San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 57
Only need one
Looking for new beginnings now. I look for /lover/partner/friend. I am financially secure and I feel the man should come to visit and make the time for the woman. I have heard there are many scammers on this site, both men and women. No person should ever ask for money here.
John
51 • Irvine, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 37
Hello
I like to think a lot about society, the governments that make it work well, and macroeconomics. I’m compassionate. I eat very healthy and only meat from animals that were treated humanely. I’m a perfectionist, which is advantageous in my career but not so much in relationships.
💕 Philip
57 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: 40 - 69
GentleMale, Flexible, 💞 Sensual, Non-aggressive.
Updated Today. NO Completed Profile = NO Chat. Hoping for a loving and serious relationship. My name is not "Dear", "Sweetheart", "there" or "Honey". My natural Age is 67. Very discreet and Non-judging. Open-minded and Gentle. Strong but Flexible. Caring + 💞💋 Loving. Pansexual. Trans women welcome. NOT attracted to slender, skinny women or Barbie dolls. Friendly Notice: If you are UNDER Age 40 and you message me, you will be rejected/ignored. Yesss, I prefer people closer to my age. I will not travel 20 hours by air, to meet anyone for the first time. Open to all SAFE pleasures. NOT into any violence practices. When I am attracted to a person I enjoy worshipping all of their private body zones. Foot Fetish. NOT into BDSM. Attracted to the unusual and exotic. I have been widowed for 7+ years. I am single now and retired from the Education field. Hoping to find a good match for a serious long-term loving relationship. NOT ATTRACTED to Passive or Submissive persons. I don't like or use drugs, alcohol, pain or violence but would enjoy special pleasures. I am open to all flavors of sexualities. When a MUCH younger woman tells a MUCH older gentleman: "Age doesn't matter to me..." OR "Age is just a number, dear.", that's when she is only interested in her financial security and not the relationship itself. LOVE alone is not sufficient for a successful relationship. This older gentleman is not attracted to numbers under 40. CORRECT english: "Seeking something." INCORRECT english: "Seeking FOR something".
paul
63 • Oceanside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 45
Hoping to find soul mate
It is time to try something new. I am a person that likes to try new things. I am a sincere, honest and sentimental person. I like outdoors activities like the beach, skiing, camping and traveling. I like to read and go see movies. I am looking for someone special to go through life together. Someone that will always be there in the good and sad times as I am for the special person in my life. I think having a sense of humor is important and a belief in God. I am looking to get married and would like to have a family someday.
Rasul
65 • Santa Monica, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 60
Excited to be a blessing to the right woman.
I'm very much into practicing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu; healthy living and I'm a Bible believer and follower of Jesus Christ. I'm friendly, find people fascinating and I'm relatively outgoing. I'm only interested in a lifetime partner (marriage) who is open for honest and open communication.
Ryan
34 • Santa Rosa, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
I am friendly! Read what I am looking for to chat
I love being outside and hanging out with friends. I am looking for something serious because I don’t play games. Just want a partner. My account isn’t staying active. I don’t know why:( I also don’t have the subscription so if I read your message an
Pat
57 • Oceanside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
มาใช้ชีวิตที่แสนวิเศษด้วยกันเถอะ... 💛
ผมวางแผนจะไปใช้ชีวิตหลังเกษียณที่ประเทศไทยในอีก 5 ปีข้างหน้า และแต่งงานกับสาวไทย ผมไม่ได้มองหาผู้หญิงสวยหุ่นดี หรือผู้หญิงที่หวังแต่เงิน เพราะมีผู้หญิงฉลาดและสวยมากมายที่มองหาความรักที่แท้จริง ไม่ใช่แค่เงิน และเรื่องเซ็กส์ก็ไม่ใช่สิ่งสำคัญอันดับแรก ผ
Robert
46 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 49
Raw, loyal, and unfiltered—looking for love....
I’ve been broken, rebuilt, and I’m still standing. I’m not here for casual lies—I want fire, loyalty, and passion. If you want a man who’ll protect you, love hard, and never sugarcoat shit, I’m that guy. Just be real, and I’ll give you the same.
Cliffy
51 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 53
Hello I am Happy to be here !
I am a very happy healthy grateful man. I love to Travel and surf and paint and meet new friends… Gali guy Ya ho o so we can connect I am back in the USA now and I will Upgrade soon… Would you like to meet and have lunch and go shopping and to the beach? I'd love to hear from you! Good Luck
Anthony
36 • Oceanside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 30
600k funded Day Trader with Apex Trader Funding.
I am moving down to mexico near the beach this week. I love the Most High and helping others and surfing and snowboarding and wakeboarding and skating. I use to travel the world wakeboarding professionally but now I look for mellow out and eventually go off grid with my wife.
KANE
44 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 43
A Woman 💯 Open Minded ❤️😍💯 Good Personality
Ex-wife and I divorced 2009 , here now in San Diego commercial fishing starting soon 4 months💵 swordfishing , I want to meet an attractive Lady who is open minded fun to be with laid-back relaxed all the time just real 💯 down to earth sense of hum
Jay
59 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 34
Common thoughts, and a common life. Seeking same!
I'm in Los Angeles California and single. I want a family period. What I seek is; a friendship leading to a long term wife-minded person from, within side of you and on this fact; I am serious. Nothing else interest me(, zero elf's about how fine u t
Wade
38 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40
Life is about experiences
Small town Texas guy that moved to San Diego earlier this year. Love the gym, the outdoors, and traveling. Learning spanish :) Soy de un pequeño pueblo de Texas y me mudé a San Diego a principios de este año. Me encanta el gimnasio, la naturaleza y viajar. Estoy aprendiendo español :)
Justin
35 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 30
Only impossible journey is the one you never take"
I am looking for something serious or longterm. I drive around a semi truck and unload to different stores. I retired early from the US Army so I don't really need to work. So, I am looking to relocate to the Philippines and hopefully meet my soul mate. I am not looking to hook up or take things fast. please don't waste my time if your just trying to get something out of me. I am not a fool and I will know your game right away. I am honest and respectful and I work hard for everything I have. please don't message me if your not looking for the same thing.
Jess
56 • Oakley, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Please read so we can eliminate wasteful time .
I am 6 ft tall weigh around 195 . I stay really fit for my age . My wife just passed away a few months ago so I’m taking slow . If you are looking to get married I am not . I am looking to date with a noncommittal no strings attached type relationshi
LOPEZ
70 • Costa Mesa, California, United States
Seeking: Female 60 - 70
BUSCANDO UN FUTURO SOCIO
HOLA SOY UN VARÓN HISPANO QUE FUE TRAIDO A LOS ESTADOS UNIDOS DE AMERICA CUANDO TENIA 4 AÑOS. DE GUADALAJARA MEXICO EN LOS AÑOS 60. NOS INSTALAMOS EN SAN DIEGO DURANTE 29 AÑOS. LA VIDA ERA MUY HERMOSA QUE, Y TODAVÍA LO ES. SOY VIEJA ESCUELA VIEJA MODA ESTILO DE VIDA. QUE ESTOY BUSCANDO. ME ENCANTA LA VIDA AL AIRE LIBRE COMO LA INTERIOR. TENGO BUENA SALUD Y ME GUSTA SONREÍR.SOY UN HOMBRE MUY PATENTE Y COMO LA REUNIÓN FAMILIAR. SOY FANÁTICO DE LA MÚSICA Y LOS DEPORTES. SOY MUY ROMÁNTICO Y ME ENCANTA VIAJAR. ESTOY EN BUSCA DE UNA MUJER MUY SENCILLA QUE QUIERA SER TRATADA CON AMOR. QUE TODAVÍA DISFRUTA DE LA MANO Y LOS ABRAZOS. SI ES ASÍ, DEJE UN MENSAJE Y DISFRUTE SU DÍA.
Jamie
42 • Berkeley, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 44
Holding my ground for reality against denial.
Some of us were never built for pretending. I left California to stop playing roles that cost me my integrity. I’m moving to Thailand to learn the language, train in Muay Thai, and build meaningful tech—web development, AI, systems thinking, and psyc
Omar
72 • Orange, California, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 69
Come make my heart your home
Retired jazz drummer in nyc and retired insurance professional looking to make you my full time occupation. Pampering,lots of affection,affection,kissing hugging,cuddling , dancing cheek to cheek, shopping at the mall, ballet, black tie functions, river boat dinners. Your a non smoker , your ok wearing heels a, mini dress,skinny jeans, yoga pants pants on weekends out.
Omid
55 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 48
I am logical, honest and intelligent
I am very fair person, willing to make compromises but I do have red lines that i will not allow anyone to cross. I work very hard for who I have become. I have seen and done a lot in my life so please do not expect for me to roll over as soon as you show a bit of interest in me. I do not disrespect anyone unless they give me a good reason for it, that happens usually when they feel like they almost got away with a lie or dishonesty. P.S if you think you got yourself a nice soft target i suggest you take more classes in better identifying more probable targets. LOL
Mike 🇺🇸
37 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 43
Interested in marriage only
Hello everyone I am Mike nice to see you everyone i live in United States work as software programmer here looking girl for marriage I like mostly😊 travel 🧳 cooking 🍳 Swimming beach 🏖️ Learn different countries culture better to know each other real Thank you for visiting my profile

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